Good for you! Get your marriage license where you live now first. Whether or not you need one in the Netherlands I don't know, but things are very liberal there. You can get married in a Seventh-day Adventist church on a Sunday, when they aren't having a regular service. They don't marry Adventists to non-Adventists, but they usually gladly marry two non-Adventists. The following link should give you a list of SDA churches in the Netherlands
http://www.adventistdirectory.org/vi...howImmediate=1