[Kathy Ellen]

Originally Posted by farmer giles

i know kathy i have tried not to respond but when someone is doing post after post i felt i had to say something ... i am very sorry if i have upset anyone as far as i'm concerned that is the end of things i'd rather we just avoid each other from now on

I understand Jim. When we're hurt and arguing, we feel good to get the last dig in. But, in the long run, the last dig only adds to more digs and hurtful words.

You and Oscar were great friends at one time. Now you're at odds with each other, and that's a shame.

I think that we need to hold onto, cherish our friendships and try to seek discussion and peace, OR if it can't be resolved then part ways.

I wish the best for both of you. But, your lost friendship is very upsetting to me. I value both of you.

Good luck with your decisions.