[Nomad]

Im usually about 3 seconds away from a complete meltdown at any given moment. Well, only unless there are people around. I havent found a way to completely isolate myself yet but Im working on that.
I try keeping it together but if I feel like Ive been shitty to someone its important for me to go back soon afterwards and give them a hug, apologize and talk through it to settle things up. If you went way off the deep end perhaps you need to do some more damage control.
When a person gets kooky it can be pretty freaky for others. Everyones different.
See I took you for a total whackjob from the get go so you would have a hard time turning me upside down.
If your going to get your freak on maybe you could try acclimating people to "almostfamous world" That way they can brace themselves for your kooky self and expect some craziness once in awhile. In a nutshell if youre going to be loopy I think its important to really dive into the role. Lower peoples expectations.
Jump right in by making a statement. For Halloween you could drive a meat cleaver into the pumpkin you put out. Over night you'll be referred to as crazy meat cleaver lady.
I hope thats useful information for you.
As far as the wedding call your friend and discuss it.
You may or may not get what you want but sincerity is usually a welcome thing for most people.
On a footnote I personally have never met anyone who after getting to know them didnt come to realize theyre whack jobs too so have some fun with it.