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Originally Posted by nok
A friend of mine suggested I light a candle for Larry and put his picture next to the candle. I am to tell Larry the candle was lit for him and see what happens.
I am much, much better now. I have accepted the fact that Larry is no longer with me physically but he will always be there for me spiritually.
Another friend of mine told me that love never dies.
Creating two online memorials for Larry really helped me a lot in my grieving process. It helped me emotionally. At least through the memorials, his memory will not be forgotten.
Since his death, some men did ask me out for dates but I turned everyone down. I don't mean to but I keep comparing them to Larry, and nobody even half measures up to the great person Larry was. Looks like I'm going to be single for the rest of my life !
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I'm happy Nok that you have found peace.
Your memorials gave you inspiration and help during your grieving process.
Grieving take a long time, and I find myself its a day to day experience, never knowing what to expect.
Perhaps your not ready to date yet, when you have a love that strong, it can take many years.
and by all means, light that candle, just for Larry.
you always know I am here for you.
