It seems that I seem to make friendships with people who seem to always be busy and have no hang-out time. By this, I mean... Okay, I understand people are busy and everything with life, but it seems that I hardly get to see/talk with my friends or to hang out with them outside of certain environments. I have work friends, but we rarely do hang outside of our jobs. I recently made a friend from my job (he's a student), and we have also yet to hang outside of the school's environment. I've "hinted" a "we should hang out sometime" with an "okay" response, but nothing has been further yet. It depresses me how I seem to have to "pull teeth" just to get my work friends to hang out at a lunch outing or something. It seems so easy for other people to "do stuff" outside of our job and school. They make it look easy. I don't get it.... Why is it when I ask them, I have to ask them 100 times, and when others ask them, "bam!" They don't give second thought....
Is there a secret for this I don't know about?
