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Old 04-13-2005, 12:31 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Boyfriend shows little to no emotion...HELP!

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Originally Posted by KittylovingBlond
Absolutely

Ok first things first, guys are not the greatest communicators of emotions period so you have to handle that.

Next has your guy always been emotionally "cool" if yes than you have nothing to worry about. That is his normal way. If it is a new thing then look further and be prepared for answers you may now like.

Ask yourself what you want hun, emotions a plenty or a good stable loving guy who is there in every way but the verbal emotions.

And another thing, some folks are crap at expressing much on the phone. I deal with the telephone daily, some calls are good others are nasty (my collection calls I become a real bag). So when I get on with someone for a personal call, I am most comfortable with the black and white stuff get to the point and emotions are best left for the up close and in person meetings. I hate to have a personal fight over the phone, I hate to talk personally over the phone, I find them cool and business like.
So perhaps he is that way too.
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