Okay skit, lets be real here
forget the biblical stuff for a moment and lets look at reality shall we.
(Yes i'm talking motherly to you so listen up )
no really, seriously.
what is available to you now is not what you want in years to come, you'll change.
And all those cranky older people that you would kill yourself rather than to be like on this forum? You'll become. You know why? Because all these cranky old arses here were once you, and had exactly the same ideas as you're having now. There is no generation gap, cause we all did what the youth of today does now ........we just like to forget about it, it helps when we're bringing you guys up and into the world.
If you have the most outstanding happening in your life and you wnat to commemerate it .........go for it . but don't do the fantasy butterfly thing cause its hip. Trust me butterflies will go out of fashion.
I've had a couple of wines, but that's what I would tell my own sons.
MEH! take it or leave it , in the end the choice is yours