Why do people wear unflattering clothes?

[Marie5656]

Another thread got me thinking of this. I have to wonder why you see so many people, men and women, who insist on wearing clothes that do not flatter them?
You have the heavy people who wear clothes a few sizes too small, or the clingy fabrics. Women in the halter tops, letting the belly hang out. Men in the shrunken t_shirts with the beer belly showing.
Thing is, there is no reason for a large person to not wear clothes that suit them, and fit properly. Being heavy myself, I do get agrivated when I look for clothes in my budget that look OK...but I do find them.

Also, what about older people who wear clothing much to young for their age? Do we really want to see a 70 year old in a mini skirt, and sequined halter?

And for all the men out there...no matter what your size..please if you are out in public, wear a shirt!! And by the way...a 300 pound man has no business wearing a t-shirt that says "No fat chicks".

[cherandbuster]

Originally Posted by Marie5656

And by the way...a 300 pound man has no business wearing a t-shirt that says "No fat chicks".

Oh that's good

[chonsigirl]

That is good, Marie.

Well, I get numerous comments about my hair-why is it long at my age? But, why would I want it short? I even had it trimmed today, oh, 5-6 inches. But I do not want short hair. But I hear negative comments all the time-it is clean, neat and braided or up most of the time. Why do I want it permed or colored for?

I am a non-conformist................

Clothes-well, I wear bright colored pants or patterned ones (never plaid ) to school. But then, I work with middle school kids. It gives them a laugh! And I fit right in! For other functions, like college, I wear a nice suit or business style ensemble. And for church, you might catch me wear the proverbial dress........ But that is sometimes impractical, since I am playing an instrument, it depends on which one, how you have to sit, I think decency rules that outfit.

[sunny104]

you have to wonder if they look in a mirror before they go out in public...

[gmc]

My choice in fashion is heavily influenced by Bruce Lee.

From Enter the Dragon when asked what his style his he replies "My style is no style at all" I've always tried to live up to that principle.

[DesignerGal]

I think its great when people have such high self esteem to wear skimpy clothes when they are considered "bigger".. I think this thread stinks personally. Who cares if some 700 pound woman wants to slep herself into a size 6 bikini! Good for her! I do have a problem with ANY man not wearing a shirt though. Just my opinion. And who is the ultimate last word on who's too skinny/ fat to wear whatever?

[Sheryl]

I understand it's hard for larger women to find clothes that are in the current style. Things have changed lately and there's more of a choice than the usual different colored moomoo's. Ok that's what I call them, not sure what anyone else calls them. Oh yea moomoos are the those dresses that are brightly colored and can pass for a dress or a nightgown.

[Marie5656]

Originally Posted by DesignerGal

I think its great when people have such high self esteem to wear skimpy clothes when they are considered "bigger".. I think this thread stinks personally. Who cares if some 700 pound woman wants to slep herself into a size 6 bikini! Good for her! I do have a problem with ANY man not wearing a shirt though. Just my opinion. And who is the ultimate last word on who's too skinny/ fat to wear whatever?

Designer, I respect your opinion. I still take issue with folks wearing clothes that are unbecoming...especially too small.
Remember, though, I am a "big" person myself....one of the ones who gets looked down umpon for no aparent reason except that I weigh more than is considered the norm.
So while I appreciate that you do not like this thread, I stand by it...and my opinion.
Chonsi...to be honest, I do not have a problem with long hair..at any age. As long as it is well kept, well styled and clean.

[DesignerGal]

Originally Posted by Marie5656

Remember, though, I am a "big" person myself....one of the ones who gets looked down umpon for no aparent reason except that I weigh more than is considered the norm.

You get looked down upon. It hurts your feelings right? Arent you "looking down" upon these people by these judgemental statements? Wouldnt you think it would hurt their feelings to know someone thinks they shouldnt be wearing what they like just because they are considered "big"?

Originally Posted by Marie5656

Chonsi...to be honest, I do not have a problem with long hair..at any age. As long as it is well kept, well styled and clean.

What is it isnt well kept? What makes you an expert on what people should and should not wear? Im not trying to pick a fight, I just want to debate with you. Its seems kind of hurtful what you are saying here.

[LilacDragon]

Ok, I am not as thin as I used to be and while 150 may not be "big" to some people, I have seen myself in a mirror and it is NOT pretty. I hate to say it but I am most comfortable in blue jeans and large t-shirts.

My oldest daughter weighs about 200 pounds. While I am glad that she is comfortable in her own skin, I wish she had enough self respect to be sure to wear clothes that were a bit less revealing. Face it, nobody wants to see the top of her thong underwear. But then, nobody really wants to see the top of my other daughter's thong underwear either and she weighs about 100 pounds.