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KayKay · 12-23-2004, 07:21 AM

Good Morning,

I searched for a forum and found this one. Hopefully this will be a good place for me to meet others who may have situations such as mine. I have found everyone has problems but I have also found it is hard to understand others' problems if they are not similar to yours.

My biggest problem, (and it just gets bigger and seems out of control now) is my relationship with some of my adult daughters (I have four). Any problems they have tend to be my fault and everything I do, if it is not for them, tends to annoy them. It has become an abusive situation and I will probably seek therapy for it soon.

Hopefully I will get some good advice here from others who have had or are having this situation.

I am looking forward to reading about other problems people have and hoping to be able to just enlighten others if I can.

Peg · 12-23-2004, 08:24 AM

Hi KayKay and welcome to the garden. Sorry to hear about your situation. How is it abusive? Do any of them live with you?

greydeadhead · 12-23-2004, 08:39 AM

Welcome Kay...
There are some very knowledgable folks here.. I am sure they will be happy to help ya out.. have a great holiday season.. be well....

KayKay · 12-23-2004, 09:03 AM

Thanks for the welcome. No, none of my girls live with me. They are very mature in age but maybe not in spirit! I am just trying to have a positive attitude and hope for the best. I feel it is beyond my control. It seems when things go wrong, mothers are quick to be blamed.

Paula · 12-23-2004, 10:05 AM

Hi, KayKay, I know some-one named KK? Welcome to the garden. I am sure you will get some good anwers, maybe?

Every one has problems, its life! With children as older, you need to be equal to all?

12-23-2004, 03:57 PM

HI and welcome to the forum! I am so sorry to hear about the problems you are having. There are many smart and helpful people in here so i am sure they can help you! Have a great Christmas!

CARLA · 12-23-2004, 10:45 PM

KayKay,

WELCOME !!

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My biggest problem, (and it just gets bigger and seems out of control now) is my relationship with some of my adult daughters (I have four). Any problems they have tend to be my fault and everything I do, if it is not for them, tends to annoy them. It has become an abusive situation and I will probably seek therapy for it soon.

I'm a mother of one adult daughter..!! I can relate to your problem. I have been going through the same problems your having, have been for several years now. I for one understand your situation.. !! Seems I can do nothing right, and do everything wrong..

I wonder daily when is it my time.. I have given just about all I have to give.. !! Thinking about running away from home..!!

ANY WAY..IF YOU NEED SOME SUPPORT I'M HERE FOR YOU..!! WE MOM'S HAVE TO STICK TOGETHER..!!

HOPE YOU HAVE A HAPPY HOLIDAY...!!

Suresh Gupta · 12-25-2004, 05:55 AM

Dear Kaykay, welcome to FG.
Read about your problem. You are trying to have a positive attitude and that is the best thing you are doing.
All mothers have such problems. Children are never satisfied. Some times they become unreasonable.
Be clear about your duties and responsibilities for your daughters. You have been doing your best for them. They are mature and now they should take care of their own lives.
Do your duty and leave the rest to God.

12-23-2004, 07:21 AM	#1 (permalink)
KayKay Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 7	Just Joined Good Morning, I searched for a forum and found this one. Hopefully this will be a good place for me to meet others who may have situations such as mine. I have found everyone has problems but I have also found it is hard to understand others' problems if they are not similar to yours. My biggest problem, (and it just gets bigger and seems out of control now) is my relationship with some of my adult daughters (I have four). Any problems they have tend to be my fault and everything I do, if it is not for them, tends to annoy them. It has become an abusive situation and I will probably seek therapy for it soon. Hopefully I will get some good advice here from others who have had or are having this situation. I am looking forward to reading about other problems people have and hoping to be able to just enlighten others if I can.
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12-23-2004, 08:24 AM	#2 (permalink)
Peg Bah humbug! Supporting Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Ohio Posts: 5,186	Re: Just Joined Hi KayKay and welcome to the garden. Sorry to hear about your situation. How is it abusive? Do any of them live with you?
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12-23-2004, 08:39 AM	#3 (permalink)
greydeadhead Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New England Posts: 1,042	Re: Just Joined Welcome Kay... There are some very knowledgable folks here.. I am sure they will be happy to help ya out.. have a great holiday season.. be well.... __________________ Feed your spirit by living near it -- Magic Hat Brewery bottle cap
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12-23-2004, 09:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
KayKay Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 7	Re: Just Joined Thanks for the welcome. No, none of my girls live with me. They are very mature in age but maybe not in spirit! I am just trying to have a positive attitude and hope for the best. I feel it is beyond my control. It seems when things go wrong, mothers are quick to be blamed.
Local Time: 03:39 PM Local Date: 12-03-2008

12-23-2004, 10:05 AM	#5 (permalink)
Paula Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Near The Lilies...here. Posts: 1,926	Re: Just Joined Hi, KayKay, I know some-one named KK? Welcome to the garden. I am sure you will get some good anwers, maybe? Every one has problems, its life! With children as older, you need to be equal to all? __________________ Everyone has these on their face? TULIPS.
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12-23-2004, 03:57 PM	#6 (permalink)
tmbsgrl Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Just Joined HI and welcome to the forum! I am so sorry to hear about the problems you are having. There are many smart and helpful people in here so i am sure they can help you! Have a great Christmas!

12-25-2004, 05:55 AM	#8 (permalink)
Suresh Gupta Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Delhi, INDIA Posts: 1,171	Re: Just Joined Dear Kaykay, welcome to FG. Read about your problem. You are trying to have a positive attitude and that is the best thing you are doing. All mothers have such problems. Children are never satisfied. Some times they become unreasonable. Be clear about your duties and responsibilities for your daughters. You have been doing your best for them. They are mature and now they should take care of their own lives. Do your duty and leave the rest to God. __________________ Spread love not hate Suresh Gupta http://www.betterlife4all.com
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