Feeling so sad

Debsbabe · 08-28-2005, 06:07 PM

I feel so sad. have just visited another board for which i post and have learned of not one but two babies with Down's Syndrome who have passed away in the past 2 weeks. It is so tragic, I just don't understand why these things have to happen. all i wanted to do was get Cameron out of bed and cuddle him! (i didn't though!) I knew Cameron was special but i realise more now how lucky i am that he is so well.

Sorry for the sad post but had to share it with someone.

Love Debbie and Cameron xxxx

venus · 08-28-2005, 06:31 PM

Some times the best way to deal with an aching heart is to let it out and tell others.
And seeing as there are many nice people on this board, there are many who care..

Give your little one a big old hug in the morning and remember none of us know when we close our eyes will we see the morning..

Do not dwell on the sadness, but on the joy these children also brought with them to this world

Tombstone · 08-28-2005, 08:43 PM

That is very sad. Sorry to hear that.

08-28-2005, 09:58 PM

Hugs girl!

Accountable · 08-29-2005, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Debsbabe

I feel so sad. have just visited another board for which i post and have learned of not one but two babies with Down's Syndrome who have passed away in the past 2 weeks. It is so tragic, I just don't understand why these things have to happen. all i wanted to do was get Cameron out of bed and cuddle him! (i didn't though!) I knew Cameron was special but i realise more now how lucky i am that he is so well.

Sorry for the sad post but had to share it with someone.

Love Debbie and Cameron xxxx

What can I say? Enjoy today, all day. and take pics!

mominiowa · 08-29-2005, 08:11 AM

Children are blessings......Hug and love him everyday twice as much...What a beautiful baby you have...Think of the 2 that have past - as Camerons angels..they are now there to help him..

While I was really sick - my roomate had taken a turn for the worst - She made me promise if I go - then I will watch over her...if she went - she would be my angel too...She died shortly after she went home and I know she is watching over me!! SMILE today- there is only one.......

robinseggs · 09-01-2005, 01:58 PM

Deb, I am so sorry to hear of your saddness. I know this hit home for you pretty bad because little Cameron also has Downs. Those little angels gave their lives so that you may appreciate yours more (is that possible?) and they stand for something more powerful than words can describe. It is amazing how just one little life lost can change a person forever.

Debsbabe · 09-01-2005, 04:21 PM

Your right i know that when we lost our little baby girl at only 23 weeks gestation and she was only with us for 25 minutes, she had an enormous impact on our life in that short time although i have to say reading about these babies has brought it all back and my heart hurts for these families. I only had my angel for a very short time one of these women had her little girl for 5 months, it must get harder as time goes by and you get to know your little one more and more?

robinseggs · 09-03-2005, 09:34 AM

For some strange reason I knew we had more in common! I too lost a son. I was 20 weeks pregnant and he died immediately. He wiggled his little toes and we held him for 2 hours. Only 10 inches long, the size of a little doll and yet already had all the facial features of his pa pa..(my father in law). We named him Daniel Christopher. I truly believe I saw angels come down and take him from my arms in that hospital bed that night....but that's a whole other story!!!

Debsbabe · 09-04-2005, 03:44 PM

I am sorry to hear about your baby honey. I have been told that god takes the best for himself. although i wish he had of left her with us especially as we were siked up to look after her we knew her problems then she was taken from us. I still miss her soo much even though she was with us so briefly.

Love Debbie xxx

08-28-2005, 06:07 PM	#1 (permalink)
Debsbabe Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 34	Feeling so sad I feel so sad. have just visited another board for which i post and have learned of not one but two babies with Down's Syndrome who have passed away in the past 2 weeks. It is so tragic, I just don't understand why these things have to happen. all i wanted to do was get Cameron out of bed and cuddle him! (i didn't though!) I knew Cameron was special but i realise more now how lucky i am that he is so well. Sorry for the sad post but had to share it with someone. Love Debbie and Cameron xxxx
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08-28-2005, 06:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
venus hide the rum...savvy Supporting Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: LONDON Posts: 1,992	Re: Feeling so sad Some times the best way to deal with an aching heart is to let it out and tell others. And seeing as there are many nice people on this board, there are many who care.. Give your little one a big old hug in the morning and remember none of us know when we close our eyes will we see the morning.. Do not dwell on the sadness, but on the joy these children also brought with them to this world
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08-28-2005, 08:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
Tombstone Little did I know... Supporting Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Idaho Panhandle Posts: 3,511	Re: Feeling so sad That is very sad. Sorry to hear that. __________________ where are we going? why am i in this handbasket?
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08-28-2005, 09:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
flopstock Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Feeling so sad Hugs girl!

08-29-2005, 08:11 AM	#6 (permalink)
mominiowa Senior Member Supporting Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Well..... if this is HELL?? Posts: 1,552	Re: Feeling so sad Children are blessings......Hug and love him everyday twice as much...What a beautiful baby you have...Think of the 2 that have past - as Camerons angels..they are now there to help him.. While I was really sick - my roomate had taken a turn for the worst - She made me promise if I go - then I will watch over her...if she went - she would be my angel too...She died shortly after she went home and I know she is watching over me!! SMILE today- there is only one....... __________________ Driving me crazy is an art form.. my kids hold the brush!!
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09-01-2005, 01:58 PM	#7 (permalink)
robinseggs Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 887	Re: Feeling so sad Deb, I am so sorry to hear of your saddness. I know this hit home for you pretty bad because little Cameron also has Downs. Those little angels gave their lives so that you may appreciate yours more (is that possible?) and they stand for something more powerful than words can describe. It is amazing how just one little life lost can change a person forever. __________________ Nature laughs Last
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09-01-2005, 04:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
Debsbabe Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 34	Re: Feeling so sad Your right i know that when we lost our little baby girl at only 23 weeks gestation and she was only with us for 25 minutes, she had an enormous impact on our life in that short time although i have to say reading about these babies has brought it all back and my heart hurts for these families. I only had my angel for a very short time one of these women had her little girl for 5 months, it must get harder as time goes by and you get to know your little one more and more?
Local Time: 04:07 AM Local Date: 12-04-2008

09-03-2005, 09:34 AM	#9 (permalink)
robinseggs Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 887	Re: Feeling so sad For some strange reason I knew we had more in common! I too lost a son. I was 20 weeks pregnant and he died immediately. He wiggled his little toes and we held him for 2 hours. Only 10 inches long, the size of a little doll and yet already had all the facial features of his pa pa..(my father in law). We named him Daniel Christopher. I truly believe I saw angels come down and take him from my arms in that hospital bed that night....but that's a whole other story!!! __________________ Nature laughs Last
Local Time: 11:07 PM Local Date: 12-03-2008

09-04-2005, 03:44 PM	#10 (permalink)
Debsbabe Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 34	Re: Feeling so sad I am sorry to hear about your baby honey. I have been told that god takes the best for himself. although i wish he had of left her with us especially as we were siked up to look after her we knew her problems then she was taken from us. I still miss her soo much even though she was with us so briefly. Love Debbie xxx
Local Time: 04:07 AM Local Date: 12-04-2008

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