My Best Friend Passed Away

[nok]

A couple of months before Larry passed away, he was supposed to give me a friendship/ engagement ring ( more like an engagement ring, actually ) . Now, that ring is lying somewhere in his apartment. I hope I will have it one day (either through supernatural or natural means, it doesn't matter). It would be meaningless in someone else's hands but it would have a very special significance for me. For me, it would be a material representation of the very special friendship that once existed.

A friend told me once that all I had to do was believe, and one day I would get that ring in my possession. I certainly hope so !

Miracles happen to those that believe.

[Chezzie]

Sorry to hear of your Loss Nok

Were a friendly bunch and will try and lift our spirits a little


Never believe that grief and "getting over it" is the same thing. I'm sorry to say that you never "get over it", you just deal with losing and how you deal with a loved one is what life is all about.

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

[nok]

Is it okay to send e-mails, e-cards and graphics to my dead friend ? I know that it's pointless to do that because he'll never receive them now that he's a spirit and everything but it makes me feel better when I do that. I pretend that he's still around. I've sent him so many prayers and get well cards already ( since he passed away.)

I read somewhere that deceased people might not receive the things that we send to them but it's like sending out love and they can feel that. Could that possibly be true ?

Sorry if I'm starting to sound kind of like a nutcake now. I do apologize.

[ButterflyPrincess]

Hey Nok. I am so sorry for your loss and for the way people treat you.
It makes me sad to ready this thread... Us here in FG are your friends now.

Looks aren't everything.. personality is SO much more!

[mikeinie]

Originally Posted by nok

Is it okay to send e-mails, e-cards and graphics to my dead friend ? I know that it's pointless to do that because he'll never receive them now that he's a spirit and everything but it makes me feel better when I do that. I pretend that he's still around. I've sent him so many prayers and get well cards already ( since he passed away.)

I read somewhere that deceased people might not receive the things that we send to them but it's like sending out love and they can feel that. Could that possibly be true ?

Sorry if I'm starting to sound kind of like a nutcake now. I do apologize.

I am very sorry for your loss. It must be difficult.
I say go ahead and write them, if it helps you get through it, then do whatever helps.
In my opinion it would be no different that standing over a grave and halving a conversation with your loved one, and people do that. Consider it a modern way of praying to the one you have lost.

[nok]

Originally Posted by mikeinie

I am very sorry for your loss. It must be difficult.
I say go ahead and write them, if it helps you get through it, then do whatever helps.
In my opinion it would be no different that standing over a grave and halving a conversation with your loved one, and people do that. Consider it a modern way of praying to the one you have lost.

That's a good way of looking at it ! Thanks for your response !

ButterflyPrincess- Thank you for your emotional support ! Yes, the people here at FG are my friends now ! You guys and girls here are great. I love it here.

[Odie]

Originally Posted by nok

Is it okay to send e-mails, e-cards and graphics to my dead friend ? I know that it's pointless to do that because he'll never receive them now that he's a spirit and everything but it makes me feel better when I do that. I pretend that he's still around. I've sent him so many prayers and get well cards already ( since he passed away.)

I read somewhere that deceased people might not receive the things that we send to them but it's like sending out love and they can feel that. Could that possibly be true ?

Sorry if I'm starting to sound kind of like a nutcake now. I do apologize.

....do whatever it takes, if it makes you feel better!

[nok]

Originally Posted by Odie

....do whatever it takes, if it makes you feel better!

Yes, okay Odie, I shall do exactly that ! Thanks for the response .

[nok]

I don't seem to be getting any ADC's ( after death communications) from my friend, Larry. It's already been about 3 months since he passed away and I'm not getting any signs that he's still around me ( no dreams, visions, voices- nothing !). I don't know whether it's because he's still a newbie in the spirit world and getting adjusted in his new surroundings " over there" or whether it's because he's totally forgotten about me.

I find it strange that I'm not getting any ADC's from Larry because when he was still alive on earth, we contacted each other daily, 2-3 times a day, sometimes more.

Or maybe he has already reincarted ? Is it possible to reincarnate after only three months ?

[Odie]

Originally Posted by nok

I don't seem to be getting any ADC's ( after death communications) from my friend, Larry. It's already been about 3 months since he passed away and I'm not getting any signs that he's still around me ( no dreams, visions, voices- nothing !). I don't know whether it's because he's still a newbie in the spirit world and getting adjusted in his new surroundings " over there" or whether it's because he's totally forgotten about me.

I find it strange that I'm not getting any ADC's from Larry because when he was still alive on earth, we contacted each other daily, 2-3 times a day, sometimes more.

Or maybe he has already reincarted ? Is it possible to reincarnate after only three months ?

you don't always get a sign, just know he is there.