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Old 02-08-2009, 09:53 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Tomorrow, we shall begin the endless rounds of consultants, Doctors and worry again.
Two years ago, my husband was given 9 months to live after cancer was found in his prostate, bowel, bladder, uthetha, lymph nodes and muscle. Thanks to a wondeful surgeon who got it all out in time, it was saved from going into his bones, they said, by a few weeks.
For the past few months, his bloods have been abnormal so we pretty much expected the demon to raise it's ugly head again as no surgeon can remove at cell level.
We now know it has re-surfaced as testicular cancer. It will be some days before we know the full extent i.e. weather it has gone into the lymph nodes.
We can only wait and see i suppose.

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Oscar, I'm so very sorry to hear your news.
Please give my love to Peter .. you are both in my prayers.
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Old 02-08-2009, 09:58 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I shall remember you both in my prayers.

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Old 02-08-2009, 09:59 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Oscar, I'm so very sorry to hear your news.
Please give my love to Peter .. you are both in my prayers.
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Thanks Chicky..... We have been through it all before and have been half expecting it.
We will keep laughing.
He's just told his mate and his mate asked if he could have his fishing gear if he doesn't make it. They also been laughing that his surgeon will be called 'Ivor Bollockoff'.
He has a brilliant consultant who last time got him straight in for surgery so they won't hang around. We just don't know if it's spread yet.
He's still got o cook the dinner.....he's not getting off that easy
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Thankyou Chonsi...... I'm sure these things are sent to test us.
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Tomorrow, we shall begin the endless rounds of consultants, Doctors and worry again.
Two years ago, my husband was given 9 months to live after cancer was found in his prostate, bowel, bladder, uthetha, lymph nodes and muscle. Thanks to a wondeful surgeon who got it all out in time, it was saved from going into his bones, they said, by a few weeks.
For the past few months, his bloods have been abnormal so we pretty much expected the demon to raise it's ugly head again as no surgeon can remove at cell level.
We now know it has re-surfaced as testicular cancer. It will be some days before we know the full extent i.e. weather it has gone into the lymph nodes.
We can only wait and see i suppose.

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Oscar my mum was given 6 months or something ..to live .

That was back when I was 15 . I'm 40 now and she is still here and being a nuisence. Granted she's had a lot of Ops and medication and illness but she's still here and still clipping me over the side of the head

stay strong .............the 'dark side' needs you and Peter.
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Thanks Chicky..... We have been through it all before and have been half expecting it.
We will keep laughing.
He's just told his mate and his mate asked if he could have his fishing gear if he doesn't make it. They also been laughing that his surgeon will be called 'Ivor Bollockoff'.
He has a brilliant consultant who last time got him straight in for surgery so they won't hang around. We just don't know if it's spread yet.
He's still got o cook the dinner.....he's not getting off that easy
You guys are already part of the way there. You're positive attitude is half the battle
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Oscar my mum was given 6 months or something ..to live .

That was back when I was 15 . I'm 40 now and she is still here and being a nuisence. Granted she's had a lot of Ops and medication and illness but she's still here and still clipping me over the side of the head

stay strong .............the 'dark side' needs you and Peter.
Thanks Buzzy futt. Unfortunately, all my family who were diagnosed have actually died from it but i think medical science is far better than it was. People love to critise the NHS here but they have been wonderfull and it's only due to them he's even alive.
I think a holiday is definately on the cards roght now.
Glad your mum was OK
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My thoughts are with you and your Hubby.
Thankyou aftr. I just can't imagine an end to us two. The thought never occurs to me. We have too much mischief to make yet.
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Best wishes to Peter, Oscar Fingers crossed its not spread
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