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Old 02-21-2009, 12:03 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Last night hubbys mobile rang he picked it up and after saying hello his face dropped
I heard him say 'she will phone you back' He hung up flipped off the TV and put his arms round me saying 'I so sorry its your brother...its happened again'
Poor thing he was trying to tell me that a second of my brothers has committed suicide..

Shock of course and slight disblief I mean after loosing my dad and my little brother the same way its getting to be a sick joke.

No details yet just the waiting game ...waiting for the formal ID, waiting for the inquest, waiting for the funeral and worst of all waiting for answers.
Answers to the million dollar question...... Why?

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Old 02-21-2009, 03:13 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 02-21-2009, 03:24 AM   #3 (permalink)
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This is terrible news, Victoria. I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.
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Old 02-21-2009, 03:36 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Last night hubbys mobile rang he picked it up and after saying hello his face dropped
I heard him say 'she will phone you back' He hung up flipped off the TV and put his arms round me saying 'I so sorry its your brother...its happened again'
Poor thing he was trying to tell me that a second of my brothers has committed suicide..

Shock of course and slight disblief I mean after loosing my dad and my little brother the same way its getting to be a sick joke.

No details yet just the waiting game ...waiting for the formal ID, waiting for the inquest, waiting for the funeral and worst of all waiting for answers.
Answers to the million dollar question...... Why?
I know exactly how you feel
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Old 02-21-2009, 03:54 AM   #5 (permalink)
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My condolence to you and your family .
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Oh, Victoria, that is truly dreadful for you and your family - I am so sorry.
Yes indeed, the question is why ? I'm sending you as much strength as I can and my thoughts. XXX
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Old 02-21-2009, 05:05 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I have no soothing words hun just feelings

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Victoria, that is so so sad, im so sorry for your loss and your grief
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If I were there with you, I'd be giving you a hug. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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