The Dating Game - koan

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Here we go, folks. koan takes on the combined might of ForumGarden's finest.

The contestants have been recruited, the game begins with koan's first question.

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[koan]

*rubs hands together gleefully

I'm not one to just plow into this type of thing, (yeah, right) so I thought I'd start out with testing your sensitivity... emphasis on the senses.

1. It is fairly well known on FG that I don't "do" hugs. How would you help me to get over this?

[contestant2]

We'd start slowly, we just the occasional touch, say an 'accidental' brushing of fingers or a light touch on the arm. You would gradually start to trust me and know that I would never do anything to make you feel uncomfortable.

Then one day you would be so relaxed in my company that you would reach out and touch me and I would slowly and gently pull you into a hug, then you would be glad that you were with me.

[koan]

how very sensitive of you, contestant2

Mind you, there is nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable... for a good cause

[contestant1]

As a Gentleman I would not dream of making unwanted contact. Touchy touchy is not acceptable in polite society.

I would concentrate on making you comfortable in my company and rely on my suave charm and humour to relax you and make you want to be with me emotionally and physically.

You would know when you wanted to be hugged and I, of course, would be sensitive enough to oblige.

[koan]

I think that touchy touchy comment should be made a law, contestant1

IMO, if you're gonna touch, do it right

[contestant3]

1. It is fairly well known on FG that I don't "do" hugs. How would you help me to get over this?


I'm a very passionate person, I love long slow hugs, and slight whispers under breath. I'd make sure we had met first, properly introduced and all that. But once I knew we were compatable I'd start by making you confortable with my touch. Like hand holding, and on occasion I'd touch high on your arm and every so gently slide my hand into yours. When I felt you respond favorable I'd move into phase two... holding you close from behind and pulling you gently into me, if you rested back into me I'd give you soft warm kisses on your neck and shoulders.

[koan]

hmmmmm...

you actually make hugging sound good.

[koan]

Nice answers from everyone.

I've been thinking over the questions I could ask and decided that, as I like people who know what they want, it would be interesting to ask not about what you can do for me but what I could do for you.

2. What could I do to you that would make your knees weak, give you pleasant shivers and be assured that you would call me within the next 12 hours after we parted?

[contestant2]

I'm not a jump into bed on a first date person, I like to build things up slowly and enticingly so what you could do for me would be to start the sexual tension building.

A look or a glance that tells me you are attracted to me, a smile in the right place, laughing at my jokes even if they aren't that funny, a touch at just the right time are all things that would make me want to see you again soon.