QUESTION for young adults??

Originally Posted by buttercup

How old are you Hoss? If you dont mind me asking?

18. Just turned a few months back.

[TheNewDG]

Originally Posted by Hoss

What is it she's looking for in a mate? I think I'm picky, but then the girl I like is my friend’s sister and I have known her for 5 years now. We have had lots of times when we were together in groups and family and church social settings but not really alone. I consider her wife material, she's perfect in many regards, but I don't know if she is the one yet. There are other girls that I could like but she's the only one that gives me that special spark inside. One girl kind of throws herself at me and it's embarrassing to me. I try to avoid her but she's in my social group and I have to associate with her at times. I get nervous around the girl I like and I think she can feel that I like her; she has said as much to me and tries to get me to relax and not worry about if other people look at us. I sit with her in church, and we went to a social dining event together and that made others in our church realize we were a little more than just group friends. I’m trying to just be friends with her for now and maybe later it will grow in time. I have to get myself through college and get a house before I can really consider marriage.

You are a VERY SMART person. Good job!

[buttercup]

Then you would be correct, not many 18 year olds here. Chris & Music lover are the only one's i can think of close to your age.

[southern yankee]

Originally Posted by Hoss

18. Just turned a few months back.

don't take this wrong. but you are a baby yet. Have fun, live a little. you are way too young to think of marriage. my daughter, just started to think of marriage at about 23.

Originally Posted by southern yankee

in this neck of the woods it is oilfield. but i don't know?? wish i could order one for her

I don't understand how girls figure out which guy they like anyway.

Originally Posted by southern yankee

don't take this wrong. but you are a baby yet. Have fun, live a little. you are way too young to think of marriage. my daughter, just started to think of marriage at about 23.

I'm not thinking of getting married now, but I don't want to waste my time either. But if the girl I like is the one then I'm not going to let anyone steal her away either. I know I'm young, but I plan on bieng a firefighter when the next fire season rolls around, I’m almost there. One fire academy and my EMT certificate and I will have it. Then I'm going to find a small piece of property and put a cabin on it then in the future build a home on it.

[southern yankee]

Originally Posted by Hoss

I don't understand how girls figure out which guy they like anyway.

i don't know. we just know. but getting you guys to know. is a all togther differnt story

Originally Posted by buttercup

Then you would be correct, not many 18 year olds here. Chris & Music lover are the only one's i can think of close to your age.

Thank you. I will look out for them.

[buttercup]

Originally Posted by Hoss

I don't understand how girls figure out which guy they like anyway.

It depends if you are ruled by your heart or your head.

Originally Posted by southern yankee

i don't know. we just know. but getting you guys to know. is a all togther differnt story

I believe you there! Marie (the girl I like) kept it from me a long time.