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    Who Should Make The First Move In A Relationship?

    In my part of the world, the man makes the first move in any relationship, but we live in a fast changing world where nothing is impossible. As a man I often find myself asking why we (the men) should be left with the difficult task of making the first move. Isn't the world civilized enough for the ladies to start asking the guys out?. Or is it peculiar to my part of the world?

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    Re: Who Should Make The First Move In A Relationship?

    I made the first move on my hubby 9 years ago. It worked out for me.

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    That's good to know hotsauce, I'm really glad that some ladies could be so straight.

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    Re: Who Should Make The First Move In A Relationship?

    I've made the first move before, and its worked out. I sure hated rejection though.
    But I guess everyone does.

    I didn't make the first move with my husband, he did. But he's much more aggressive (personality wise) than I am. The men I made the first move with were a lot more submissive.

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    Re: Who Should Make The First Move In A Relationship?

    I'm thinking about this one...Mine made the first move, as far as asking me out, etc. But he doesn't do it in a vacuum, if that makes any sense. Surely I've given him a safe environment to ask me; I've encouraged him, and then taken the lead myself here and there.

    Do men sense when the woman wants them to ask? Just curious.
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    Re: Who Should Make The First Move In A Relationship?

    I think the different generations look at the question from their perspective. Since I am a little older, I find it easier for the man to make the first move. The younger women I know have no problems initiating a relationship, I think that is great for them!

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    Good point!
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    I don't think it matters anymore. I have made moves on guys never seemed to bother them. My fiance and I kind of went for eachother at the same time... lol

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    I think it doesn't matter. If a girl chooses to, then I say go for it. Times have definitely changed in this area. Equality for the sexes is what I say.

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