please tell me what to do!

Fibonacci · 07-27-2009, 12:14 AM

ok heres the deal.

i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.

T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.

R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.

heres the problem.

Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.

i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!

help me!

buttercup · 07-27-2009, 03:11 AM

What do you want help with exactly?
Deciding which girl to date? Sounds to me reading between the lines that you prefer 'T' so date 'T'
Problem solved, next.

OpenMind · 07-27-2009, 03:46 AM

You don't remember being kissed by the little sister of the bar owner. That says it all.
You remember T's kiss though.

Bill Sikes · 07-27-2009, 04:03 AM

Drunken kisses with R aren't definitive, unless they mean that your relationship with T isn't meaningful. Doesn't sound as though either relationship has progressed far. Now's the time to make up your mind.

mikeinie · 07-27-2009, 05:33 AM

Hi,
Have fun because it all ends up like this:

YouTube - Chris Rock- Married Life

chonsigirl · 07-27-2009, 05:37 AM

Pursue your relationship with T.

hoppy · 07-27-2009, 05:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fibonacci

ok heres the deal.

i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.

T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.

R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.

heres the problem.

Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.

i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!

help me!

Are you complaining or bragging? Maybe you just need a cold shower.

Accountable · 07-27-2009, 06:50 AM

Peg · 07-27-2009, 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fibonacci

ok heres the deal.

i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.

T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.

R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.

heres the problem.

Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.

i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!

help me!

Give up drinking.

CARLA · 07-27-2009, 07:53 AM

Find another bar to hang out in.

Relationships based on booze never work give it some thought.

07-27-2009, 12:14 AM	#1 (permalink)
Fibonacci Poolhall Junkie Supporting Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Lining up the 8 Posts: 4,467	please tell me what to do! ok heres the deal. i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R. T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her. R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember. heres the problem. Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me. i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING! help me! __________________ The poolhall's a great equalizer. In the poolhall, nobody cares how old you are, how young you are, what color your skin is or how much money you've got in your pocket... It's about how you move. I remember this kid once who could move around a pool table like nobody had ever seen. Hour after hour, rack after rack, his shots just went in. The cue was part of his arm and the balls had eyes. And the thing that made him so good was... He thought he could never miss. I know, 'cause that kid was me.
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07-27-2009, 03:11 AM	#2 (permalink)
buttercup Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 5,795	Re: please tell me what to do! What do you want help with exactly? Deciding which girl to date? Sounds to me reading between the lines that you prefer 'T' so date 'T' Problem solved, next. __________________
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07-27-2009, 03:46 AM	#3 (permalink)
OpenMind Real Ale Drinker Supporting Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Leeds Posts: 7,833	Re: please tell me what to do! You don't remember being kissed by the little sister of the bar owner. That says it all. You remember T's kiss though. __________________
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07-27-2009, 04:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
Bill Sikes Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Not far away Posts: 5,155	Re: please tell me what to do! Drunken kisses with R aren't definitive, unless they mean that your relationship with T isn't meaningful. Doesn't sound as though either relationship has progressed far. Now's the time to make up your mind.
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07-27-2009, 05:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
mikeinie Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: By the Irish Sea Posts: 2,536	Re: please tell me what to do! Hi, Have fun because it all ends up like this: YouTube - Chris Rock- Married Life
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07-27-2009, 05:37 AM	#6 (permalink)
chonsigirl I think, therefore I post Supporting Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Nirvana Posts: 31,651	Re: please tell me what to do! Pursue your relationship with T.
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07-27-2009, 06:50 AM	#8 (permalink)
Accountable Isn't Everybody? Supporting Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: San Antonio, TX Posts: 21,547	Re: please tell me what to do! __________________ . I choose freedom, warts and all. Don't you wish you had voted for Ron Paul now?
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07-27-2009, 07:53 AM	#10 (permalink)
CARLA ALOHA..!! Supporting Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: San Diego, California (Native born and raised) Posts: 10,967	Re: please tell me what to do! Find another bar to hang out in. Relationships based on booze never work give it some thought. __________________ ALOHA!! MOTTO TO LIVE BY: "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming. WOO HOO!!, what a ride!!!"
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