confused by my ex's behaviour

[KSnyder]

Originally Posted by betrue

Thanks for the all the comments, i think some were very helpfull.
Today was the day off the big party and the dinner arranged with my ex, i have just got back from the party and had a great time.
I have to say that the dinner with my ex was not the best, he made some very off hand and rude comments towards myself and my older son from a previous relationship and my family who are helping me in any way they can at the moment.He told me that friends off ours had asked his permission to speak to me and at times raised his voice. At one point i did ask him to leave if he couldnt be nice. but i have decided that im not really bothered what he says or does and he wont be welcome for dinner any time soon. This person is not even worth my time or effort .
Just to make it clear for some people who posted replys, we have agreed shared coustody of our child and he see him on a regular basis and has him over night a number of times each week.

I bet you'd made every effort to keep the relationship happy! I bet that you went out of your way to make the relationship work but always felt like the spark was missing! I bet he'd stay out late at night while you stayed at home doing chores!

[CybersurfingJunkie]

If I were you, I'd go on with my life and not care about what he thinks--unless it's about your son. It's totally unfair, and you do deserve a lot better than this.