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    Advice needed. My married boss is sending totally mixed signals. He flirts with me alot. We have worked together for a couple of years and now he is no longer my immediate boss (which is a good thing). Now let me tell you he is HOT! No question if he was single I'd go for it. What would you think if your boss was always comming over to talk to you and then grabbing your hand and just holding it?
    He made the comment once that if he'd of met me before he was married I wouldn't be working right now. He's rubbed my shoulders and hugged me and made all kinds of comments to me. One day he said "I wonder just how submissive you would be in bed!" What the hell is that? I just wonder if anyone else on here has had this kind of thing happen to them? How they handled it?
    I did tell him once if your interested leave your wife, to which there was no reply lol. I am currently avoiding him if I can. I think he does it for an ego boost. I think it is wrong to flirt like this if there is no intent and especially if your married. Confused 65 Fla.

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    Quote Originally Posted by confused65
    Advice needed. My married boss is sending totally mixed signals. He flirts with me alot. We have worked together for a couple of years and now he is no longer my immediate boss (which is a good thing). Now let me tell you he is HOT! No question if he was single I'd go for it. What would you think if your boss was always comming over to talk to you and then grabbing your hand and just holding it?
    He made the comment once that if he'd of met me before he was married I wouldn't be working right now. He's rubbed my shoulders and hugged me and made all kinds of comments to me. One day he said "I wonder just how submissive you would be in bed!" What the hell is that? I just wonder if anyone else on here has had this kind of thing happen to them? How they handled it?
    I did tell him once if your interested leave your wife, to which there was no reply lol. I am currently avoiding him if I can. I think he does it for an ego boost. I think it is wrong to flirt like this if there is no intent and especially if your married. Confused 65 Fla.
    Shouldn't be any confusion about it. He wants to lay you, that's all. Do you really think there is any more to it? You either make it easy for him,or tell him to **** off.

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    Quote Originally Posted by Lon
    Shouldn't be any confusion about it. He wants to lay you, that's all. Do you really think there is any more to it? You either make it easy for him,or tell him to **** off.
    I have to go with Lon on this one.
    If my boss spoke to me like this he'd get a very sharp swift shock!
    ( He'd certainly be walking funny for a week! )

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    Question Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    Not sure if you`re in the UK or not, but if you are, you`ll know what I mean when I mention the Coronation street / Ian / Sally story-line. When he got fed up with her, he got her to wash cars instead of just being his secretary!

    In my humble opinion, I really would discourage him; otherwise when he gets fed up with you he could just flirt with another employeed (whilst staying with his wife)

    Of course, if he really fancied you that much, he could always leave his wife for you, couldn`t he, but sadly for you, it doesn`t sound like it.

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    He wants you as a bit of fun which just basically means he wants to sleep with you and that's it. That's all you'll ever be.

    And at the end of the day he's married (does he have children?). You don't want to get involved with a sleazeball like that

    Would you really want him to leave his wife? How do you know he wouldn't do the same to you?

    Wake up and smell the coffee

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    I agree with all the above.

    He just wants to have his cake and eat it!!!!!

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    His signals arent MIXED. His behavior isnt cute... its revolting.. And he wont be HOT forever. He will be UNEMPLOYED, DIVORCED, and CONFUSED. That is if women enthralled with his game encourage him to continue.

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    oh come on..you know exactly what is what, why would you even ask? he must perceive a receptiveness. a cold smack verbally once would have stopped it in this day of sexual harassment action.

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

    Tell the guy to get bent. He's using you. If you went to bed with him, you, most likely will be the one hurt. And,... if he did leave his wife for you, could you honestly trust him?

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    Re: My married boss flirts with me. Sends totally mixed signals

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    He's just looking for a ....well.....what everybody else said. He may be hot, but his pesonality would disgust me. Get him to leave you alone. Just say, "sexual harrassment can have an ugly face somedays". You already have a case! I'm sure he's dealt with that before.

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