disorder help please!

crabbyapples · 04-16-2009, 09:22 AM

my friend has relationship problems. when he is in a relationship he gets emotionally and mentally unstable. he says that relationships pressure him. can you please diagnose what disorder he has, or help me with what i can do to get him through this? all help is welcome!
thanks alot.

YZGI · 04-16-2009, 09:24 AM

I think it's Vaginaphobia. Who knows he might be gay.

oscar · 04-16-2009, 09:25 AM

Rabies

minks · 04-16-2009, 09:51 AM

commitment-a-phodia
I don't know if your friend really has a disorder, prolly just not ready to make a commitment or unsure of ones self and unable to make a commitment. Tell your friend to talk about what it is they fear when it comes to relationships? Then try and work with them. Perhaps something from a past relationship has scared them and created these awful feelings perhaps they have to get past that.

crabbyapples · 04-16-2009, 09:53 AM

hahaha! vaginaphobia! defo not that.

along-for-the-ride · 04-16-2009, 02:12 PM

Welcome.

Before your friend enters into a relationship, it seems to me he has to relax and enjoy his own company. In other words, he must like himself first. I hope he is getting some professional help or therapy, if he does want to have a great relationship in the future.

Sometimes, we must do some house-keeping in our home, before we can let company visit.

G-man · 04-16-2009, 08:10 PM

Your friend may or may not have a disorder... I'm not qualified to offer advice nor do I believe that anyone else on here is with so little information to go on. I'm already involved in a lawsuit because a doctor misdiagnosed me awhile back... I certainly don't want to be sued, as well.

I suggest that your friend seek professional help if you believe he has a disorder. If he just wants somone to talk to and share his problems, then this is certainly the place. I'm not convinced on what information you offered that there's anything all that unnusual about your friend... we ALL have had relationship problems, afterall!

Wanna' hear about all of the relationship problems that I've had over the years? If so, you'd better have a seat... it's gonna' take awhile!

Odie · 04-16-2009, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by crabbyapples

my friend has relationship problems. when he is in a relationship he gets emotionally and mentally unstable. he says that relationships pressure him. can you please diagnose what disorder he has, or help me with what i can do to get him through this? all help is welcome!
thanks alot.

I doubt he has a disorder, it sounds as he gets insecure.......and his emotions come out.

suggest to him to seek counseling, they will help him get his confidence back.

has he been hurt before?

is he constantly nagging her because he feel this way?

Accountable · 04-17-2009, 04:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crabbyapples

my friend has relationship problems. when he is in a relationship he gets emotionally and mentally unstable. he says that relationships pressure him. can you please diagnose what disorder he has, or help me with what i can do to get him through this? all help is welcome!
thanks alot.

What does that mean, specifically?

sunny104 · 04-17-2009, 07:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YZGI

I think it's Vaginaphobia. Who knows he might be gay.

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minks superstar Supporting Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: igloo apparently Posts: 25,050	Re: disorder help please! commitment-a-phodia I don't know if your friend really has a disorder, prolly just not ready to make a commitment or unsure of ones self and unable to make a commitment. Tell your friend to talk about what it is they fear when it comes to relationships? Then try and work with them. Perhaps something from a past relationship has scared them and created these awful feelings perhaps they have to get past that. __________________
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crabbyapples Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2	Re: disorder help please! hahaha! vaginaphobia! defo not that.
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along-for-the-ride Senior Member Supporting Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: on the road of life Posts: 6,151	Re: disorder help please! Welcome. Before your friend enters into a relationship, it seems to me he has to relax and enjoy his own company. In other words, he must like himself first. I hope he is getting some professional help or therapy, if he does want to have a great relationship in the future. Sometimes, we must do some house-keeping in our home, before we can let company visit. __________________ Life is a Highway. Let's share the Commute.
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G-man The Magus Supporting Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 4,439	Re: disorder help please! Your friend may or may not have a disorder... I'm not qualified to offer advice nor do I believe that anyone else on here is with so little information to go on. I'm already involved in a lawsuit because a doctor misdiagnosed me awhile back... I certainly don't want to be sued, as well. I suggest that your friend seek professional help if you believe he has a disorder. If he just wants somone to talk to and share his problems, then this is certainly the place. I'm not convinced on what information you offered that there's anything all that unnusual about your friend... we ALL have had relationship problems, afterall! Wanna' hear about all of the relationship problems that I've had over the years? If so, you'd better have a seat... it's gonna' take awhile! __________________ Signature text removed at the request of a member. Participate in The unOfficial Forum Garden Scavenger Hunt 2009!
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