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Old 04-20-2009, 08:08 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I know I deserve better treatment

Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore

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Old 04-20-2009, 08:12 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
Have him move in with his drinking buddies across the street. Don't pick up his underwear for a week, socks, etc, stop doing his laundry, make him make his own meals, etc. Just some suggestions....my hubs helps out with cooking and laundry.
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Old 04-20-2009, 08:13 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
perhaps this relationship is just no good anymore?

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Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore

Dump him

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Have him move in with his drinking buddies across the street. Don't pick up his underwear for a week, socks, etc, stop doing his laundry, make him make his own meals, etc. Just some suggestions....my hubs helps out with cooking and laundry.
Sorry, none of this will work. It is the way he is and you cannot change this.

It has only been a year, cut your losses and get out while you still have the strength to do so and before 1 year becomes 2, then 5 then 10 and you become just to tired to even fight about it anymore.

You believe that you deserve better than you know that you do, why sell yourself short for the sake of being in a relationship. If this is how it is now, then it can only get worse. Get out while you can.

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Old 04-20-2009, 10:23 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I agree with everyone above. You DO deserve better. Pack his bags for him and change the locks. You go girl.
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Sorry, none of this will work. It is the way he is and you cannot change this.

It has only been a year, cut your losses and get out while you still have the strength to do so and before 1 year becomes 2, then 5 then 10 and you become just to tired to even fight about it anymore.

You believe that you deserve better than you know that you do, why sell yourself short for the sake of being in a relationship. If this is how it is now, then it can only get worse. Get out while you can.
I agree Mikeinie, none of that will work...he likes his booze & booze buddies....... if he hasn't stopped by now for her.......he never will


she does deserve better in so many ways.

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Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
are you saying you dont like beer anymore ..try some rose wine whilst you watch the sports together ...... there you go cupid jimbo solves love problems once again no need to thank me its all in a days work for a super hero like me

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Old 04-20-2009, 03:43 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
You're right, you deserve better.

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Sorry, none of this will work. It is the way he is and you cannot change this.

It has only been a year, cut your losses and get out while you still have the strength to do so and before 1 year becomes 2, then 5 then 10 and you become just to tired to even fight about it anymore.

You believe that you deserve better than you know that you do, why sell yourself short for the sake of being in a relationship. If this is how it is now, then it can only get worse. Get out while you can.
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I agree with everyone above. You DO deserve better. Pack his bags for him and change the locks. You go girl.
I agree with all of that, but the packing his bags part... he can pack his OWN DAMN bags!

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are you saying you dont like beer anymore ..try some rose wine whilst you watch the sports together ...... there you go cupid jimbo solves love problems once again no need to thank me its all in a days work for a super hero like me
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Old 04-20-2009, 06:09 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Since you know you deserve better... your 75% there. What are you waiting for? Get going.

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