Question For the Working People Here.

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 1:46 pm

How well do you like your boss/supervisor. I am beginning to dislike mine immensely. I used to like her a lot. But this morning when I called in sick (I rarely call in sick), she implied that I have an attendence problem and the we need to talk when I get to work tomorrow....about my attendence. She actually said that "it's becoming a problem".

So I feel even worse now. And I called HR after 8 and spoke with them and they informed me that I have only used 12 hours out of my 40 paid sick days a year. I asked if 12 is a lot, and they said no.

I thought it was rude and mean of my supe to say that. And I am so pissed off.

:mad:

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YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 2:00 pm

I have to love myself don't I ?

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 2:00 pm

My boss is cool!! He has his moments like everyone...but I'm thankful for my job, and have had MUCH worse working conditions before!!

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 2:02 pm

YZGI;706954 wrote: I have to love myself don't I ?

first step to recovery! .....OH, wrong thread...sorry!! Yep, you are your own boss, "YOU the man"....can I have a cap???

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 2:21 pm

I have/had/ a great boss. Soon to be merely my co-worker but will still be working closely with her our new boss won't accept boss, merely team leader I like that. Think I will like the guy.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:27 pm

I don't really care for my principal, she is very ineffective. Not a bad person, just not the right job for her. One of the AP's though, we are terrified of. She threatened to beat up one of the teachers last year, got a 2 month free "vacation" at home, and is back at work. That teacher went to another school. We are very frightened of her.....

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:57 pm

I've worked for over 4 years at the VFW. The commander, which can change every year, is basically my boss. The first one I worked for, I absolutely loved and respected. The second one, we had for two years. The man was a horndog. I could not stand him and he knew it. Now, my husband is my boss.

Need I say more? I can honestly say that I sleep with my boss. :wah:

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:00 pm

Peg;707072 wrote: I've worked for over 4 years at the VFW. The commander, which can change every year, is basically my boss. The first one I worked for, I absolutely loved and respected. The second one, we had for two years. The man was a horndog. I could not stand him and he knew it. Now, my husband is my boss.

Need I say more? I can honestly say that I sleep with my boss. :wah:

And its okay if your boss is a horndog now ??? yayyyyyyy!!!:wah:

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:30 pm

i have no feelings one way or the other over my bosses..its business..i am very good at keeping it that way..some call me a bitch...imagine that..

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:19 pm

magenta flame;707083 wrote: Oh:-3 SO they know you well then?:wah:

:wah:;)

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:31 pm

Okay well tomorrow I need to go in and eat crow, for calling in sick. I should tell her I value my job (which I do) and want the working relationship to be better. Or something like that.

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cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:33 pm

chonsigirl;707061 wrote: I don't really care for my principal, she is very ineffective. Not a bad person, just not the right job for her. One of the AP's though, we are terrified of. She threatened to beat up one of the teachers last year, got a 2 month free "vacation" at home, and is back at work. That teacher went to another school. We are very frightened of her.....
Wow which school district is this? It sounds like L.A.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:39 pm

My principals I had in L.A. were alot better than back here in the East. (although, I knew some very lazy ones there, not very active in the schools, delegated all authority to others)

Lady G · Post by **Lady G** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 5:38 am

cinamin;706946 wrote: How well do you like your boss/supervisor. I am beginning to dislike mine immensely. I used to like her a lot. But this morning when I called in sick (I rarely call in sick), she implied that I have an attendence problem and the we need to talk when I get to work tomorrow....about my attendence. She actually said that "it's becoming a problem".

So I feel even worse now. And I called HR after 8 and spoke with them and they informed me that I have only used 12 hours out of my 40 paid sick days a year. I asked if 12 is a lot, and they said no.

I thought it was rude and mean of my supe to say that. And I am so pissed off.

:mad:

So what happened in the end? Did you tell her that 12 hours out of 40 days is considered excellent by HRs standards?

What a cheek. Dont take no **** from her.

Lady G · Post by **Lady G** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 5:39 am

cinamin;707094 wrote: Okay well tomorrow I need to go in and eat crow, for calling in sick. I should tell her I value my job (which I do) and want the working relationship to be better. Or something like that.

I would not bother if I was you. I would hear what she has to say and then I would show her the very short list of sickness you have taken.

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 7:42 am

YZGI;706954 wrote: I have to love myself don't I ?

:wah:

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 9:02 am

Peg;707072 wrote: I can honestly say that I sleep with my boss.

Me too Peg

I work part-time as a legal assistant for hubby :-4

and part-time for a group of psychiatrists and therapists

Sometimes I think the mental health professionals have more problems that the patients they treat :-3

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 11:16 am

I'm my own boss, but I should be stricter with myself and tell myself to get off the computer and do some work occasionally!!

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 7:10 pm

Lady G;707280 wrote: I would not bother if I was you. I would hear what she has to say and then I would show her the very short list of sickness you have taken.
Yeah you're right. I went in today and she said nothing. I was really tired though and didn't feel well. But she said not a thing to me. I just did the work she gave me and that's it.

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nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 8:02 pm

How about I respect any boss.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Wed Oct 10, 2007 8:19 pm

Imladris;707538 wrote: I'm my own boss, but I should be stricter with myself and tell myself to get off the computer and do some work occasionally!!

So you sleep with your boss too? :wah:

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Thu Oct 11, 2007 6:05 pm

I think that my supe is counting the days that I have left early. I have actually many times.....maybe 4 or 5 times, gone home early after getting up and going to work sick. So I think she is counting those times as "sick days".

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