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Old 03-28-2009, 01:07 PM   #11 (permalink)
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You are there to do your job and not have to put up with this crap. I had to deal with a woman who insisted that we the secretary's kiss her ass constantly. Gawd, she was awful. I didn't get harrassed by the guys, it was the woman who was a friend of the boss. She would constantly harrass us about makeup and what was not appropriate to wear to the office, or other stupid stuff. It didn't matter that we the secretary's would dress up in our finest outfits of the day, she always found something to bitch about. She wanted us to wear outfits that were a little more "revealing" meaning that other contractors who came to the office would be willing to hire the company to do whatever. That job lasted 6 months. I guess in her book appropriate meant "dress like a slut".
Oh Ducks good on you for getting the heck out of there. Crikey ya don't use your body to sell your services unless your name is Pro-stitute.
What a cow and what a crap way of getting ahead. I would have zero respect for a woman who behaves like that. Sadly they exist. UGH pity they stoop to such degradation.
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Old 03-28-2009, 01:09 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Thank you for being strong and taking action. You will be better off for it, the workplace will be better and so will the world. . The longer it's allowed to go on the harder it is to do something about it.
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Old 03-28-2009, 01:11 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Thank you for being strong and taking action. You will be better off for it, the workplace will be better and so will the world. . The longer it's allowed to go on the harder it is to do something about it.
Thank you Clint I appreciate a male perspective in this. It was tough to do as I worried I would have been perceived as "the weaker sex" in many ways.
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Mink this alone is ground for termination if done on company time on company equipment. Report this as well bad behavior is one thing and as you know takes time to document and resloved. Breaking company policy is immediate grounds for bye bye donkey man you screwed up.

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get this he send pics to us 2 girls of his face photo shopped onto that awful Burt Renylds pose (do you remember that pose) he did a nude of his self lying on his side it was not so great he is a hairy guy ahahahaha but anyways 2 of us girls got that pic emailed to us.
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Old 03-28-2009, 01:17 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Oh Ducks good on you for getting the heck out of there. Crikey ya don't use your body to sell your services unless your name is Pro-stitute.
What a cow and what a crap way of getting ahead. I would have zero respect for a woman who behaves like that. Sadly they exist. UGH pity they stoop to such degradation.
I found out years later that the boss had fired her. She was actually a friend of the boss's dad who thought she "was great". She didn't even work in the office for christsakes! She would come in the office and give her "opinions" to the boss. What a bitch she was! I think she's dead now....good, go rot in hell woman!
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get this he send pics to us 2 girls of his face photo shopped onto that awful Burt Renylds pose (do you remember that pose) he did a nude of his self lying on his side it was not so great he is a hairy guy ahahahaha but anyways 2 of us girls got that pic emailed to us.
Minks, after reading your first post and now this one.....it was definately time.

There is someone seriously wrong with this guy and it has to stop.

Hope you gave that pic to your boss also.

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Absolutely on the button.

That behaviour is totally inapropriate, whether by verbal gestures or physical contact. Its absolutely right for you to report him. It makes me cringe that there are still people about who think thats acceptable.

Thing is, his brain is so wired up wrong, he probably thinks your a lesbian now.

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Absolutely on the button.

That behaviour is totally inapropriate, whether by verbal gestures or physical contact. Its absolutely right for you to report him. It makes me cringe that there are still people about who think thats acceptable.

Thing is, his brain is so wired up wrong, he probably thinks your a lesbian now.
Which shouldn't even matter. Its still offensive gay or straight. Nobody should have to put up with this morons behavior. I hope they kick him to the curb.
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Which shouldn't even matter. Its still offensive gay or straight. Nobody should have to put up with this morons behavior. I hope they kick him to the curb.
I think you misunderstood my post. I find his attitude abhorrant and said so. I just added that his chauvenism will probably show him for what he is, yet again

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I think you misunderstood my post. I find his attitude abhorrant and said so. I just added that his chauvenism will probably show him for what he is, yet again
Oh Snow, funny thing after the incident my co-worker and I came through the back door after lunch yesterday and I bumped into her and we nearly fell over laughing and she whipped around and grabbed me in a huge hug and we both just died laughing... yep the guys saw us...

Thanks guys for your support. I really hate issues to come to being "man vs woman" but when someone steps over the line the company has to be made aware it is a problem and perhaps if it were another female that maybe wasn't so tolerant they could have a law suit on their hands.
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