Sharp as a tack this one! I would find it hard to believe you would have much of a problem meeting people.

I have to ask, why is that?

Sage advice

I do apriciate your humor!

Well said, but it is more than just a need to get laid. I have the desire to truely build a life with someone and I feel like despite my best efforts nothing is happening.

Im fine with my own company I would like to add to it though.

Thanks

Do you mean mate in the british sense, or in a realationship sense?

Let no one ever say that you don't have a good sense of humor! Ok I will bite, how does a single guy with good social skills but admittedly shy go about making single guy friends without makin' them think your coming on to them?

<t>Maybe I do complian too much, but the people who said that were my brother and his girlfriend. I am just exhausted and frustrated. I moved back to the area I grew up in and all my friends that live here are married with kids and don't have time for the single guy. It's just frustrating feeling li...

<t>Yeah, and I do and I have. But for the longest time I have felt the whole point to my life is to find love and have kids. People keep telling me that I am a real catch, HA! I have come to the conclusion that there must be something horribly wrong with me because as much as I put myself out there ...

ya know, I hate to be so negitive but yeah I think I may be alone for the rest of my life as well. It's not fair, I'm angery, but I guess no one ever promised me I would lead a happy life.