I can certainly understand wanting to leave her! Especially if she doesn't understand how her CSA affected the marriage and if she not willing to go to counseling..

I have not talked to her yet. Waiting for the Right time.

Well put.

Koan

Thanks for taking time to reply. You are right, that conversation needs to be had.

<t>I've been married 30 years. She told me 3 years ago about her child sexual abuse. Our marriage has been bad. She cannot be intimate, meaning sharing hopes, dreams, etc. We could make love half the night and then the next morning she pushed me away. She cannot make a decision. She stuffs our ...