<t>Man oh man -- did you give me something to think about!!!! Thanks for being so straightforward. I wouldn't do anything to purposely hurt him -- but I guess that's what I've been doing. Everything just seems so screwed up now, but I do want to fix it. Just hope I haven't messed things up or hurt ...

We haven't had any counseling. When I ask him what's bothering him or why he is so unhappy with his life the way it's going he says he just kidding around. If so, he kids a whole lot! I love him very much, but sometimes when he is so hateful I don't LIKE him very much.

married 14 years

<t>I've mentioned it to my mom about the hitting 40 soon - he's 39 - and she says it could me. Whenever I say something about one day we'll have more time for us, etc., he just says no we won't because we'll have grandbabies and he even said if I had plans to spend alot of time with them and watch ...

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Thanks for the reply. To answer your question, no he has not always been unsupportive. He used to help with housework and did more with the kids. It seems like he is always looking at what all he is missing or something -- what others have that we don't. I am feeling that he is not ...

<t>Hi, I'm new here and I need some advice. I've been married 14 years, four children - youngest 2 - and 1 grandchild. For the past year or so my husband has seemed not as happy. It has been an off and on thing and so I've let it go to stress or whatever. Over the past 6 months or so it has ...