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Misha

<t>BabyRider wrote: I'll type slowly for ya, k?? You posted the same thing, identical posts, mirror images of each other 3 times. Then you said it was in error. If it was in error, why did it show up in intros AND in relationships and advice? That isn't possible, unless you moved to each folder and ...

Misha

SnoozeControl wrote: My Settings

Buddy/Ignore List

Type in the name and save it

Thanks.

Misha

anastrophe wrote: we're beginning to get bounce reports for messages sent to you. did you put in place blocking of some kind?

Checked all the boxes and entered No Mail notifications and all are marked as NONE

Should that do it?

Misha

BabyRider wrote: I'd almost buy that if it weren't in 2 different folders. I tried to tell you we're not stupid....
Sorry but I have no idea what you are going on about.

A moderator already explained to me about double posts and I replied back that it was done in error.

Misha

<t>flopstock wrote: "And if you fall Ill be the first one to help you up" There is a big difference between the way he wrote it and the way you chose to read it, darlin... that's why I feel that you may want to examine your preconceived notions about our group. <br/...

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<t>SnoozeControl wrote: What! That wasn't an insult to you, it's a common expression and Huge Anus just joined this forum last weekend and I don't know him from Adam. What's the deal with you, anyway? EDIT: hidden agenda, anyone?:rolleyes: I think you have mist...

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Do you have a method of filtering out undesirable people who just get a kick out of hounding a poster. Trolls, flamers, and such ilk.

Yes, I can ignore them and not reply but they make forums undesirable.

I guarantee that they will be here in minutes.

Misha

See what I mean. Like moths to a flame.

Misha

<t>BabyRider wrote: Is yet a 3rd posting of this same "information" really neccessary? We're not idiots you know. Well, most of us aren't. I have no idea about 3rd postings, Baby. I may have hit submit a second time as the server hesitated for a long time. A simple error ...

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<t>anastrophe wrote: we're beginning to get bounce reports for messages sent to you. did you put in place blocking of some kind? In settings,I requested that no replies to my posts be sent to my email address.If I wish to read them, I will do so on this site. As far as bo...

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<r>flopstock wrote: Sweetie, I've just gotta ask how long you were lurking before joining us and starting to post. Seriously, I'm curious. We have a couple of thousand members or so, several hundred that have actually posted..:wah: I've already seen you...

Misha

<t>If one thinks that they can enter a forum and expect sincere advice from anyone...BEWARE!! I should have taken my own advice. About Trolls and Flamers As someone in another newsgroup said, it's troll season. For what it's worth...... <b...

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<t>If one thinks that they can enter a forum and expect sincere advice from anyone...BEWARE!! I should have taken my own advice. About Trolls and Flamers As someone in another newsgroup said, it's troll season. For what it's worth...... <b...

Misha

<t>If one thinks that they can enter a forum and expect sincere advice BEWARE!! About Trolls and Flamers As someone in another newsgroup said, it's troll season. For what it's worth...... We have several people here (at the moment, a...

Misha

<t>annabelle wrote: Maybe I should have made that clearer... What I meant by that comment is, no matter what opinion anyone gives him, he's just not listening. Probably because no one has said what he wants to hear. Gawd, here we go! Now you turn on me. Who ar...

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BabyRider wrote: And I do plan on reading the entire post, but I don't want my own replies influenced by what others have said. That said, I believe my interest shouldn't be questioned based solely on the fact that I posted in your thread at all.

That's democracy.

Misha

<t>Bryn Mawr wrote: Is this the e-mail account you gave when you signed up or the FG Personal Message space. E-Mail notifications are sent to your real world e-mail account, you personal account is for PMs sent by other members (limit 5 entries until you become a supporting member. <...

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<r>SnoozeControl wrote: Not that I'm trying to play matchmaker here, but there are some single women in this forum you might like. Keep it in mind. <E>;)</E> I think that it is too late as I have devulged way too much of my self. But if anyone out there can co...

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I have my settings set to prevent email notifications of replies to my post.

But my personal email account is full of replies.

What gives?

Misha

<t>BabyRider wrote: I'm going to reply having only read the original post, and none of the replies but a couple. It seems to me you are looking for someone to say, "Yeah, it's ok, continue to confuse this woman's relationship with her husband, keep on being a sucker, and take the crumbs ...

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<t>Nomad wrote: Im not out to get you Misha. I just want you to be respectful. Thats how this place works. As I expected the same from you. Now that is a response I can live with. Let all this pass but as you have so curtly admonished me, I see no reason why my...

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SnoozeControl wrote: Well, this is a good place to make friends, Misha. Welcome to FG and I hope you enjoy your time here.

Hmmmm!!

Misha

<t>buttercup wrote: quote misha - Keep it up and let all others be the judge. you forget we know nomad & val, they are well loved & respected members here Yes, I know. Blood is thicker then water. Another inherent thing about forums is that some think t...

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Nomad wrote: Do that, treat everyone here with respect and Ill gladly leave you to your thread.

Promise?

Misha

<t>Nomad wrote: Just because this guy has no self respect doesnt mean he can disrespect anyone here. Period. He shows no respect for the woman or her husband. Heres my opinion. Write a letter of apology to both of them then get lost and find your own love. Your acting like a disgraceful spineless je...

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<r>annabelle wrote: Such a shame you're choosing to waste your entire life on a woman who quite clearly is choosing never to be with you. We only get one shot at it on earth. I don't think she has the remotest idea what love is. Selfishness, definately. She hasn't even the gut...

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<t>cherandbuster wrote: Misha, she has made her choices, inexcusable or not. As you are aware, the only thing you can control is how you react to these choices. It's difficult to see you suffer so. Perhaps another choice can and will reduce your suffering -- if you can do it. <...

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Misha wrote: Thanks, I think I have done it correctly by your replies.

But can I view threaded comments as opposed to scrolling pages to view replies to my posts.

Nevermind. I have it figured.

Misha

<r>embers wrote: If shes made her choice and its not you what else can you do but to walk away? sure it will hurt like hell for a long time but i doubt you will ever get over her while you are spending time with her. :/ I know that I expect to be replied to so I wish to reply right ...

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<t>cherandbuster wrote: Misha, Only you can decide what you want to do. It seems you have a need to see this situation from every perspective that you can, and that in itself is a healthy thing. You are aware that you are not getting all that you are giving, yet you cannot or w...

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cherandbuster wrote: Mish, I wish you luck in getting what you want.

And what you need:)

Thankyou. It took 20 years for me to find 2 years of happiness.

At my age, time is short.

Misha

<t>LilacDragon wrote: I am far from insensitive and am sorry if you took my remarks as cynical. My ex husband couldn't keep his pants on and while his money paid the bills, he had little else to do with our two children. The thought of having to live with a failed marriage never entered m...

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<t>Peg wrote: Why would she continue to believe, over and over, that he will change when it is obvious, after all these years, he won't? She had another man in her life from the time they were little. I don't care how bad a person is treated, what did this show the kids? It's okay to chea...

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<t>Rapunzel wrote: Wake up and smell the coffee hunny. She's treating you like a doormat. Sorry to be blunt but you sound too caring a person to waste your life being walked over. There are LOTS of lovely people out there who would LOVE to have such a kind, caring and considerate person i...

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<t>cherandbuster wrote: Oh Mish, my most sincere sympathy for all you have gone through. How difficult this must have been! Mish, her choices are her choices -- even though they don't seem like good ones. I understand the "failure factor" in staying with someone, but I wonder about her se...

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<r>embers wrote: wow 30 years is such a long time! (my whole life time actually ;p) I would imagine it would take a hell of a lot of courage to walk away from a 30year old marriage, he may not treat her that great but he has stayed around and its comforting to know someone will always be...

Misha

Thanks, I think I have done it correctly by your replies.

But can I view threaded comments as opposed to scrolling pages to view replies to my posts.

Misha

<t>annabelle wrote: Firstly Misha I would like to say I think it's extremely brave of you to share something which is obviously a very private part of your life. We alway's leave ourselves open to the risk of being ridiculed when so doing. Secondly, the thing that immediately struck me w...

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<t>LilacDragon wrote: I am far from insensitive and am sorry if you took my remarks as cynical. My ex husband couldn't keep his pants on and while his money paid the bills, he had little else to do with our two children. The thought of having to live with a failed marriage never entered m...

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<t>valerie wrote: Oh please. Get a backbone. Chalk it up as one of life's (very loooong) learning experiences. You asked for opinions, you shouldn't get all huffy when they are given. You've been doing this so long you a...

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<t>SnoozeControl wrote: It sounds like you're a convenience and her husband is a necessity in her life, otherwise she would've dumped him long ago and cherished you for all the things you've given to her, both materially and emotionally. I'm not going to attempt to give any suggestions since it soun...

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<t>Accountable wrote: I understand that stung - so it's natural to lash out - but you said similar words yourself. You've known her for 30 years. There's no reason to think she will change. Why should she? What's her motivation? You have loved and lost. Take the goo...

Misha

What is the correct way to post replies?

Do I click on "Quote" under the members post or "Post Reply" at the bottom.

Misha

<t>Also, I have always been the type that when I had a problem, I took an active effort to solve it. If I wanted more friends, I would make an effort to be where I could meet more people. Join a bowling league, do volunteer work, take a night course in something you are interested in, etc. We can't ...

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<t>Nomad wrote: My experiences were my experiences foop. Its what I learned because its what I saw. Each situation deserves to be considered as unique and original. I havent walked in your shoes honey. You follow your gut. You know whats right. And if you fall Ill be the first one to help...

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<t>Nomad wrote: Im sorry but you suck it up until the child has been raised to the very best of both the parents abilities. Thats my gut telling me the child comes 1st. No, it's not a gut. It's social conditioning. How can you say it is best for the children if...

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<t>BabyRider wrote: Sorry Nomad, but I gotta go with Flops on this one. Of course the children always come first, but in some instances, that means having the happiest parents they can have. If that means separated parents, as opposed to the child knowing his/her parents aren't truly in love and are...

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<r>flopstock wrote: Which is better for a childs happiness... Staying together in a loveless relationship where you get along reasonably well, or separating in order that you both have a chance to find someone to be fulfilled with? What are the 'positive...

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<t>LilacDragon wrote: Hey - this woman has life pretty good, doesn't she! She has a husband that (one would assume) takes care of a large hunk of her financial needs and a guy on the side that takes care of her physical needs. Someone who is willing and able to cheat on a spouse is also w...

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<t>Peg wrote: If she were truly miserable, she wouldn't keep going back. He may not have always been there for the kids, but it's better than what she is doing to them. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. If you never want a real commitment, stick with her. Sorry but that's my opinion. <...

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