<t>CheshireCat wrote: [quote=Rapunzel]I apologise if I made a bad assumption. It's just that I know quite a few men who hem their wives in so much and allow them so little freedom that the wife just has to break free.<br/>
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You are so right on that point my dear. I remain single ...

<t>Yeah, in the case of the first marriage it was me who left so that's pretty much a bad assumption. <br/>
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I have a hard time talking to other people about my problems. I've surprised myself by posting them here. I don't have many friends and I've always considered my wife my best friend and ...

<t>Thank you all for your replies, I can see that you guys are sincere and really do care about people.<br/>
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So I should not ask questions about her past infidelities? But should she volunteer them or should I just let her off the hook? This seems to be an issue I can't get past. I'm ...

You mean professional help for me?

<t>I can't answer that right now. Currently I don't, maybe in the future I will. I hope I can. I'm not a very forgiving person.<br/>
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Also, I have pretty much decided she has BPD. She basically has all the symptons. Should I assume that now since she's a devout Christian and taking anti ...

<t>This is ooc for me to ask for advice on a forum that I've never posted before and don't really know you guys yet, but I've read alot of the post on here and think maybe this is a place to get things off my chest and get advice at the same time. <br/>
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I've recently found out some news that ...