<t>Well, to answer some of your questions here I go:<br/>
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1. There was a lapse in our communication because I stopped attending the club that we know each other from and he did not have a way of contacting me. Though, he asked a friend where I was and why I was not going out there etc. <br ...

...thanks for your input. My inclanation is to agree with both of your opinions. You are very kind in offering your advice. I have read some of your reponses to other people's postings and appreciate your input.

<t>I think the best help you can give him is to talk to him and tell him that you want <br/>
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to take him to rehab. I do not know how hard this intervention will be but I would try it. Perhaps you can get a friend/relative to help you with such a project. <br/>
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In my opinion, the biggest ...

<t>...I have a situation, just wanted to see what people think about it/constructive advice that they may have for me. The situation is as follows:<br/>
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I met a man, four years ago whom I consider a friend that I have a strong connection with.. We met at a club that we both belong to. At the ...