<t>Okay, Pink Princess was inquiring as to what has happened. Well...its been a tough battle with my ups and down thankfully more ups than downs. We've talked about it a few times since then and I have gotten some good reassurance from her. As I said in my first post I had a spy program on our ...

<t>I guess I'm just not 100% sure what I want and I'm scared I'll make the wrong decision. My wife and I are also on the road to being debt free after quite a bit of struggle and that's something that weighs on my mind too. How am I going to pay for my stuff alone? I know that shouldn't be a ...

<t>I agree with that pink but, am I just feeling that way now because I'm hurt? Because I'm not fully trusting yet and worrying about it? I have so many emotions that I'm feeling and so many thoughts that its so hard to me to figure out what I truly want and feel and what are spur of the moment ...

<t>its really hard because I see both sides of it. I love her I really do. And I know that there are bumps in the road to marriage and I know it takes work and I just don't want to give up prematurely when there very well could be a beautiful future for us instead of just becoming a statistic. But ...

Why can't I just go to the troubleshooting section of my marriage manual and have it tell me the perfect answer. Should I give it time? Should I wait and see how our new changes affect our relationship maybe 3-6mos down the road?

<t>yea I believe she was looking for something or needing something. She has gained quite a bit of weight since our marriage and it has really taken a toll on her self esteem and I think that maybe she needed to know that someone besides me would still find her attractive. Our relationship has ...

<t>She had no idea that anything happened. I wasn't really missing anything in my relationship when I did it. I did it more out of resentment and hate. I really didn't want to move to Michigan. All my family is here, friends, I had just started a job I loved and I'm envolved with a vol fire dept ...

<t>SORRY FOR THE LONG ONE!!<br/>
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My wife and I recently had a falling out. We sat down and talked about how our marriage just seemed to be falling apart and things came out about how we treated eachother and our actions in the relationship. One of the things that came up was cheating. She ...