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- Mon Jul 22, 2013 1:31 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: J and I (our rollercoaster ride)
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1680
J and I (our rollercoaster ride)
<t>J and I started off our cyber/virtual long distance relationship two years ago and it has been a roller coaster ride to say the least. J is the one who was sure of what he wants in the beginning and was the strong one in our relationship from the start. He has dealt with the ups and the downs unt...
- Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:44 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Don't know what to do!!!!!
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1824
Don't know what to do!!!!!
No she has not attempted suicide before. This is her first time. She called 911 herself.
- Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:41 am
- Forum: Problems, Solutions Feedback
- Topic: Pain, devastation and heartbreak
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1578
Pain, devastation and heartbreak
Alright thanks.
- Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:30 am
- Forum: Problems, Solutions Feedback
- Topic: Pain, devastation and heartbreak
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1578
Pain, devastation and heartbreak
Yes I do why?
- Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:27 am
- Forum: Problems, Solutions Feedback
- Topic: Pain, devastation and heartbreak
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1578
Pain, devastation and heartbreak
<t>Hey guys I just want to apologize for disappearing on you guys. I always forget that I have a support network through forum garden too. I really need your support and feedback in this case so please write back.<br/> <br/> So here goes nothing.<br/> <br/> On August 18 of this year, I met M on okcu...
- Fri Jul 01, 2011 10:49 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Advice anyone?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1689
Advice anyone?
<t>Hey you guys,<br/> <br/> I went on okcupid.com (OKC) and I met this guy (B). Our match was 99% and so I decided to give it a try. We started emailing each other back and forth, exchanged numbers and then finally met up. All of this happened in a short period of time, since we have so much in comm...
- Sat Jun 25, 2011 2:46 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Don't know what to do!!!!!
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1824
Don't know what to do!!!!!
<t>Hi everyone,<br/> <br/> My friend called me around 4pm yesterday and told me that she attempted suicide by taking 30+ of the medication that was prescribed by her doctor and I just did not know what to say after that except for what happened and why did you do it. She said that she had taken 30 s...
- Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:43 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: What the hell did I get myself into?
- Replies: 17
- Views: 3762
What the hell did I get myself into?
Hi Betty Boop,
I will walk away from him. Thanks for your input.
I will walk away from him. Thanks for your input.
- Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:04 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: What the hell did I get myself into?
- Replies: 17
- Views: 3762
What the hell did I get myself into?
<t>Hi Odie,<br/> <br/> I don't really know what to think of this situation at the moment. I don't think I have had the time to really think about what my next step should be. It's like I know that it is possible to like more than one person at the same time, but I didn't know it was possible to love...
- Thu Jun 23, 2011 9:52 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: What the hell did I get myself into?
- Replies: 17
- Views: 3762
What the hell did I get myself into?
<t>Hey everyone,<br/> <br/> I would like to apologize for disappearing on you guys, but I’m back now.<br/> <br/> What would you consider cheating?<br/> <br/> J and I broke up in January. We went NC up until about May. He told me he has a girlfriend. They got together in April and he told me at that ...
- Sat Jun 06, 2009 8:43 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: No Other Way To Go But Up
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1160
No Other Way To Go But Up
<t>Hey everyone it's been a while since I last posted anything on forum garden. Next week is finals week and I am graduating with a sociology degree with social services as an options. My next step is to continue my education either with a Master of Social Work degree or with a bachelors degree in H...
- Sat Apr 04, 2009 3:48 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Hey Guys
- Replies: 10
- Views: 1204
Hey Guys
<t>I keep repeating the same mistake over and over again and I am really getting sick and tired of it. I keep wanting something to finally work out the way I want it to and yet nothing ever does. And it is at times like that that I refuse to give up. I know that it won't do me any good to keep holdi...
- Sun Mar 08, 2009 2:29 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Frustration Frustration Frustration
- Replies: 4
- Views: 662
Frustration Frustration Frustration
<t>It's been a month since I have last posted anything on forum garden and a lot has gone on in my life since then. I am no longer on talking terms with my ex Derek. I like this new guy, he's much older than Derek, who supposedly likes me back too, but his actions prove otherwise. This new guy is 29...
- Sun Feb 01, 2009 10:46 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Hi Everyone
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1030
Hi Everyone
don't u think thats being harsh patsy. you dont even know me.
- Sun Feb 01, 2009 6:31 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Hi Everyone
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1030
Hi Everyone
<t>Hi everyone, a thought just popped up in my mind. It's not a good one either. As I've mentioned earlier, I currently have the same class as my ex, and it would have been so great if we could walk to and from class hand in hand, if i could walk him to his car after class hand in hand as well, befo...
- Mon Jan 26, 2009 9:42 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Its Been A While
- Replies: 6
- Views: 784
Its Been A While
Thank you Chezzie. I really appreciate what you've done for me.
- Mon Jan 26, 2009 8:55 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Its Been A While
- Replies: 6
- Views: 784
Its Been A While
As of right now, I have no idea who I can talk to and what websites I can look at, but I will ask around and take a look at that, when I have time.
- Mon Jan 26, 2009 8:33 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Its Been A While
- Replies: 6
- Views: 784
Its Been A While
<t>The personal statement for the MSW program is basically a five page essay that I'm supposed to write and I'm having trouble writing it because I do not know much about "what being a social worker is all about". It's really driving me crazy. I have four classes, and an internship to worry about on...
- Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:20 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Its Been A While
- Replies: 6
- Views: 784
Its Been A While
<t>Life has been pretty stressful for me like usual and I've been dealing with it just fine. It's just that once in a while the 3 week relationship with my best friend would come back and haunt me. We are still best friends and classmates, what we tend to talk about are mostly related to the class t...
- Mon Dec 15, 2008 8:27 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: It's time
- Replies: 4
- Views: 671
It's time
<t>Hey guys it's time for another update. I am now single my relationship with my boyfriend didn't last. It only lasted for three weeks. At first he used the reason of wanting to respect my mom's wishes of not wanting me to date in college as the excuse to break up with me but that is a really lame ...
- Sun Dec 14, 2008 11:12 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>No you misunderstood me I was his first girlfriend. I've had boyfriends before.<br/> <br/> wildhorses;1086529 wrote: oh I misunderstood you. I thought you had just met him a couple weeks ago. Ya maybe just too much pressure then. Well sometimes pressure can put somebody off thats true....but you ...
- Sun Dec 14, 2008 8:06 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>i have known him for the past two years or so i would like to think that we know each other pretty well i mean at least as friends. maybe we just wasnt meant to be. or maybe we just rushed into this maybe we could be together again someday when the time is right. i might have scared him away by t...
- Sun Dec 14, 2008 7:22 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>no i did not we are both asian and dating isnt really allowed in my family and he has never really put a lot of thought into dating. he has a somewhat negative aspect on dating and girls in general. i was the first to change that i guess and he wanted to test us out. too bad he wanted to end our ...
- Sun Dec 14, 2008 6:04 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
i've been with the same boyfriend for the past three weeks. and he broke up with me just this past week; during finals week.
- Sun Dec 14, 2008 6:02 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>i didnt think i was being a stalker i think it was just the fact that we were both too clueless and too young and rushed into this relationship. we both didnt know a lot about relationships before we started on this relationship. as i mentioned before i was his first gf and i wasnt that knowledga...
- Sat Dec 13, 2008 10:16 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
me and my boyfriend is over. he wants to respect my mom's wishes cuz she don't want me dating in college.
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 5:52 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
Thanks for the advice you guys. I just hope I can let up on him a little bit and loosen up on him. And hopefully he can see that and pay more attention to me that way.
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 4:36 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
Thanks, I'll try to do just that. I really don't want to lose him and I know that I can trust him too.
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 4:21 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>oscar;1059176 wrote: If any man of mine asked me to stop e mailing him, I'D say one word to him..... GOODBYE. :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl<br/> <br/> <br/> No he said don't email him as much. Regardless I still have his phone number and we would see each other in school. I called him a lot yesterday and I ...
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 2:49 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
TheNewDG;1059114 wrote: Writing Style Numero Uno...and....
Writing style Numero Dos. Does anyone else see a difference?
what the hell is that supposed to mean? do you have something against me or something? ur seriously pissing me off.
Writing style Numero Dos. Does anyone else see a difference?
what the hell is that supposed to mean? do you have something against me or something? ur seriously pissing me off.
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 2:21 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>TheNewDG;1059077 wrote: I would say that because it seems you are pretty attached when its been "days". I never said anything is wrong with you. I dont know you, but you made it other people's business when you posted it on a public forum.<br/> <br/> Just a word of advice because I am older, and ...
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:57 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>TheNewDG;1059061 wrote: Strngurl? Have you ever thought about talking with a counselor? IM not being ugly, I'm being serious. Have you?<br/> <br/> <br/> Why the hell would you say that? That is pretty offensive. There is nothing wrong with me. What goes on between me and my boyfriend is my busine...
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:06 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
el guapo;1059016 wrote: just take it slowly
Thanks I know that relationships take time and we can't rush it along. My relationship with him is still new, it's just a few days old. Even though that's true, I could tell he's really serious about me.
Thanks I know that relationships take time and we can't rush it along. My relationship with him is still new, it's just a few days old. Even though that's true, I could tell he's really serious about me.
- Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:04 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A little bit disappointed
- Replies: 33
- Views: 4863
A little bit disappointed
<t>I'm a little bit disappointed because my boyfriend told me that I should stop emailing him and calling him so often, that he needs his own space. I will give him his space cuz I really believe that we could work this out. One thing I like about us is that we are always open and honest with each o...
- Fri Nov 14, 2008 9:51 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Good and Shocking News
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1582
Good and Shocking News
<t>mikeinie;1058028 wrote: Sorry, I thought I read in another post a couple of days ago that you just broke up with someone. If not, then my mistake. No hard feelings?<br/> <br/> <br/> Of course not. It was a misunderstanding. I was serious about him but he wasnt ever serious about me, that's why me...
- Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:25 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Good and Shocking News
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1582
Good and Shocking News
<t>mikeinie;1056887 wrote: Wow, that’s amazing, you lasted about 48 hours without a boyfriend.<br/> <br/> I stand by my original thread, you are young, never mind about boyfriends, your priorities are wrong and will come back to haunt you. Get your head into the books and study, get your grades an...
- Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:21 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Good and Shocking News
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1582
Good and Shocking News
abbey;1056961 wrote: ???
Oh him, he's still around.
Oh him, he's still around.
- Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:40 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Good and Shocking News
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1582
Good and Shocking News
<t>OpenMind;1056380 wrote: You're still young so don't go rushing things here. Your studies are more important than anything else at the moment. In a few years, your outlook will be different anyway. That's the time to start getting serious.<br/> <br/> <br/> Thanks for your concern OpenMind. Both me...
- Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:38 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Good and Shocking News
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1582
Good and Shocking News
<t>shelbell;1056241 wrote: Good for you SG moving along now. Be careful cuz this could turn into a huge nightmare. First, he's already having doubts and he just asked you out. Second is that he is your best friend. Most of the time going from "just friends" to a relationship, then trying to go back ...
- Wed Nov 12, 2008 11:24 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Good and Shocking News
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1582
Good and Shocking News
<t>I'm no longer single you guys. My best friend of about three years just asked me out today. I asked him about when he thought of me as his potential girlfriend and he said about a month ago. Even though he's got doubts about us, I reassured him that I have the same doubts, but I also have a lot o...
- Wed Nov 12, 2008 8:35 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: It's now or never you guys
- Replies: 6
- Views: 699
It's now or never you guys
<t>It's now or never you guys. I have tried my best to sever my relationship with James and now it's truely over. I tried to talk to him about it and he's completely clueless about what it is that he has done to treat me wrong. I still can't believe how clueless he is. He's always making me think th...
- Wed Nov 05, 2008 8:41 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: My Double Life (Poetry- please enjoy)
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1675
My Double Life (Poetry- please enjoy)
<t>My Double Life<br/> <br/> What do you see when you look at me?<br/> <br/> A girl with a bright future or<br/> <br/> A girl with the whole world on her shoulders?<br/> <br/> When you look at me what do you see?<br/> <br/> A girl with friends & family who loves hers or<br/> <br/> A girl with a ...
- Sat Nov 01, 2008 9:27 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: hi guys
- Replies: 1
- Views: 538
hi guys
<r>hi guys. theres two reasons why i havent been here. one is cuz i didnt want to update you guys on the fact that i still wasnt able to let go of james and two cuz i've been so busy. the last time i saw him was thursday. everytime i hang out with him i get hurt or it feels awkward being with him. o...
- Sat Oct 18, 2008 9:20 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A word of advice anyone?
- Replies: 29
- Views: 2184
A word of advice anyone?
<t>I've met this guy online a while back and we've never met. He's in a financial crisis right now and he has asked me to loan him some money. According to him, he's completely broke because he's lost his life savings gambling it all away. I don't like him gambling, smoking and drinking, he has all ...
- Sun Oct 12, 2008 9:19 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: I feel relaxed
- Replies: 2
- Views: 863
I feel relaxed
<r>For once I feel good and relaxed, I havent felt this way in so long. So far everything is going fine, I've managed to get all the homework done and I edit my MSW statement for the third time and I'm listening to my new favorite song. This song really means a lot to me. The lyrics is great. The so...
- Tue Oct 07, 2008 6:51 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A work in progress
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1030
A work in progress
<t>Its more complicated than that Patsy. My mom's a perfectionist and she wants things done either her way or the high way. And she makes sure that we do things her way by nagging and nagging and nagging I just couldn't take that attitude of hers on top of everything else that I'm dealing with. The ...
- Mon Oct 06, 2008 6:53 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A work in progress
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1030
A work in progress
<t>It's been several days since I last had contact with him, so far everything has been fine. I would think about him every so often but other than that, I haven't called him or seen him in school. There's has been a lot on my mind lately and there has been a lot of stuff that I need to get done, an...
- Mon Oct 06, 2008 6:51 am
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: A work in progress
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1030
A work in progress
<t>It's been several days since I last had contact with him, so far everything has been fine. I would think about him every so often but other than that, I haven't called him or seen him in school. There's has been a lot on my mind lately and there has been a lot of stuff that I need to get done, an...
- Thu Oct 02, 2008 5:30 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Day Two without him
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1081
Day Two without him
<t>Hoss;1004793 wrote: I'm a young man, (18), not sure how old you are. But no one is worth this much energy.<br/> <br/> Refocus. I mean it, just pick out a new direction or pick up an old direction and pour yourself into it.<br/> <br/> What are you studying in school? Whatever it is take the negati...
- Thu Oct 02, 2008 5:27 pm
- Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
- Topic: Day Two without him
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1081
Day Two without him
<t>Patsy Warnick;1004782 wrote: Strongirl<br/> <br/> WOW Honey, are you sure this energy towards a journal (FG) is enough therapy.?<br/> <br/> And I'm very serious here. Read your post..<br/> <br/> You want support on how to handle this situation.<br/> <br/> WE'RE telling you - THERE IS NO SITUATION...