Quote Originally Posted by Patsy Warnick View Post
Jimbo - Speaking from experience with dealing with death - I agree a big heart felt hug is wonderful - but what someone write does matter. Sure dealing with the death one is numb, things are blurred - but to go back over those letter, notes and cards (which you do in time) the words matter. Those letters, notes, and cards are kept forever, just like the guest book at a wedding.

All anyone can do is reach out to the one in pain. I think the majority of us have experienced the pain.

totaly agree with you what i meant was just say what you feel your sorry etc you will be there for them etc there is no nice way of saying is there so it dont matter just say it but nicely