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    I know I deserve better treatment

    Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by princessladedah View Post
    Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
    Have him move in with his drinking buddies across the street. Don't pick up his underwear for a week, socks, etc, stop doing his laundry, make him make his own meals, etc. Just some suggestions....my hubs helps out with cooking and laundry.

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by princessladedah View Post
    Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
    perhaps this relationship is just no good anymore?

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by princessladedah View Post
    Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore

    Dump him

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by qsducks View Post
    Have him move in with his drinking buddies across the street. Don't pick up his underwear for a week, socks, etc, stop doing his laundry, make him make his own meals, etc. Just some suggestions....my hubs helps out with cooking and laundry.
    Sorry, none of this will work. It is the way he is and you cannot change this.

    It has only been a year, cut your losses and get out while you still have the strength to do so and before 1 year becomes 2, then 5 then 10 and you become just to tired to even fight about it anymore.

    You believe that you deserve better than you know that you do, why sell yourself short for the sake of being in a relationship. If this is how it is now, then it can only get worse. Get out while you can.

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    I agree with everyone above. You DO deserve better. Pack his bags for him and change the locks. You go girl.

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by mikeinie View Post
    Sorry, none of this will work. It is the way he is and you cannot change this.

    It has only been a year, cut your losses and get out while you still have the strength to do so and before 1 year becomes 2, then 5 then 10 and you become just to tired to even fight about it anymore.

    You believe that you deserve better than you know that you do, why sell yourself short for the sake of being in a relationship. If this is how it is now, then it can only get worse. Get out while you can.
    I agree Mikeinie, none of that will work...he likes his booze & booze buddies....... if he hasn't stopped by now for her.......he never will


    she does deserve better in so many ways.

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by princessladedah View Post
    Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
    are you saying you dont like beer anymore ..try some rose wine whilst you watch the sports together ...... there you go cupid jimbo solves love problems once again no need to thank me its all in a days work for a super hero like me

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

    Quote Originally Posted by princessladedah View Post
    Im in a relationship for over a year, I get stuck with all the crap,chores around the house, he has the attitude of he is just to good to do them, I have tried to talk to him,but it doesnt work. Lately he just sits and watches tv and drinks beer,and i dont like this anymore
    You're right, you deserve better.

    Quote Originally Posted by Odie View Post
    perhaps this relationship is just no good anymore?
    Perhaps?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lon View Post
    Dump him
    Quote Originally Posted by mikeinie View Post
    Sorry, none of this will work. It is the way he is and you cannot change this.

    It has only been a year, cut your losses and get out while you still have the strength to do so and before 1 year becomes 2, then 5 then 10 and you become just to tired to even fight about it anymore.

    You believe that you deserve better than you know that you do, why sell yourself short for the sake of being in a relationship. If this is how it is now, then it can only get worse. Get out while you can.
    Quote Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
    I agree with everyone above. You DO deserve better. Pack his bags for him and change the locks. You go girl.
    I agree with all of that, but the packing his bags part... he can pack his OWN DAMN bags!

    Quote Originally Posted by farmer giles View Post
    are you saying you dont like beer anymore ..try some rose wine whilst you watch the sports together ...... there you go cupid jimbo solves love problems once again no need to thank me its all in a days work for a super hero like me

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    Re: I know I deserve better treatment

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