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    Should I feel disrespected

    My fiance is a hanger-on for a local MC. He wants to prospect and eventually become a full member. He has told me they have to know everything about his life. I promised him I would stand by him.

    However...

    He has not told them he is getting a divorce. He has not told them he is engaged to me.

    Last week he took the woman he's divorcing to an MC function and left me at home completely devastated.

    Should I feel disrespected that the woman he's divorcing took priority over me, the woman he's marrying. Should I be angry he's keeping this information from them?

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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    Well, first clue:
    Until he is actually divorced, he is NOT marrying you.

    Second clue:
    You're planning to marry a man who cheats on his wife?
    "The trouble with people isn't that they don't know, but that they know so much that ain't so." - Will Rogers
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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    Quote Originally Posted by Leftinthedust View Post
    My fiance is a hanger-on for a local MC. He wants to prospect and eventually become a full member.
    An MC is a Mining Company?
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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    No disrespect there - it's a direct consequence of the lies he's telling.

    If you want to accept a man who practices deceit with all he deals with and want to join a community where women are effectively considered property then you must expect such treatment.

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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    I've failed to understand where the prospecting comes in.
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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    Quote Originally Posted by spot View Post
    An MC is a Mining Company?
    MC = Motorcycle Club
    Prospect = prospective member.
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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    Quote Originally Posted by Leftinthedust View Post
    He has told me they have to know everything about his life.
    That's not what clubs do, that's what cults do.

    Cult: a group that tends to manipulate, exploit and control its members.
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    When the flowers want to oxygen and nutrition, or you’re a wedding or party planner, I will help you too much.
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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    Quote Originally Posted by spot View Post
    That's not what clubs do, that's what cults do.

    Cult: a group that tends to manipulate, exploit and control its members.
    That defines the patch clubs perfectly

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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

    I thought MC was a DJ or master of ceremony someone that plays discs at night clubs................but whatever.
    I don't think Leftinthedust is that worried, otherwise they would respond to all the helpful suggestions.
    I thought I knew more than this until I opened my mouth

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    Re: Should I feel disrespected

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    It's hard to believe that a motorcycle "club" cares if someone is divorced or not. So yeah, definitely disrespected.

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