This is how it's panning out at the moment.
I think a particular gentleman is totally head over heels in love with me. Why? Because he has said so . He has said that I've softened him and that he's never allowed his guard down to this extent ever in his life. ( his life long friends tell me "he's lots his nuts" (first time I've ever heard that expression and had to ask someone what it meant:-2 JESUS!!!! I had know idea men did that.) He also said he'd like one more child before he shuffles off this mortal coil and asked if I'd be obliging ?
:p cute. Money is know object to him, and he's practically offered me and the boys the world. He showers me with gifts and says that I can have anything I want from him.............hmmmmmm tempting but stupid. I dont' like being beholding to anyone. Now, I know this man and his background (to an extent) and I know what it must have been like growing up. (he had it extremely hard) He's a hard tough individual with a certain look that stops people in their tracks. It's funny though cause when he tries to do it to me I just crack up laughing , it doesn't scare me at all, I think he likes that.
His friends say "I'm in" didn't know what that meant but now I do and I'm kind of touched by it. Apparently certain people do not talk or engage friendships with these people unless you're one of them. well If ***** says you're in and says your're a trusted person, then you're in and there's nothing anyone can do about it. :-3 I'm probably not taking this seriously enough because to me it seems kind of silly and boys clubish , but I suppose they have their reasons and I've been held in confidence to this point and been able to advise him on a couple of issues.
He does things to try to get on my goat . He's putting up a flag pole with the southern cross, the northern Irish flag and the chinese flag :yh_rotfl I say I'll burn them and he just laughs.........he knows I wont do it . He always takes me at my word (which I'm not very used to) and well....he trusts me . Is that love?
As some of you know I'm having to learn how to trust the simple male specimen all over again and I'm not quite sure about all of this .
Just recently he has convinced me to put on a birthday party for my son. It's really funny, they've "been in talks, secret mens business" so far we have catering and a ten pin bowling ally being set up in the back yard and hundreds of balloons and of course they have to think about the girls entertainment. I'm not allowed to be apart of these talks :yh_rotfl My other son has been texting him back an forth with fishing wind ups and jokes and he gets to go out in his boat fishing .........again secret mens business. He's lovely and generous with my sons and talks to them like adults, and yet sees the difference in them nad treats them quite differently.
by the way Keehan has brought home a trombone which at the moment hovers between flatulance and a dying elephant. ***** has convinced him if he stands outside the pub and busks he'll make a fortune !!!!!! He reckons the publican will give him hundreds of dollars just to move away from the pub door. More discussions are underway as to how to get away with it :yh_rotfl He's teaching Keehan that if you wnat a party you have to finance it somehow.
Pete drove my car into a tree and has written it off completely ..................that's a whole nother story . but now I'm without a car and this man has offered to pay for another one ...............and yes of course I've said no .
what to do, what to do
