Sunshines Good morning Thread

Post by **Sunshine** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 4:09 am

Morning everyone. Rained most of the night here and chilly too. I seem to have a chill right to the bone this morning. Hope I'm not coming down with something. Off to work shortly so will catch you all later. :-6

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:44 am

Sunshine;1162460 wrote: Morning everyone. Rained most of the night here and chilly too. I seem to have a chill right to the bone this morning. Hope I'm not coming down with something. Off to work shortly so will catch you all later. :-6

Is your friends son have access to the pc? Hope you have plenty of cable shows, etc. for him to watch. I'll bet he's also a bit angry at the selfish peep who calls hereself a mom.:-5

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 9:47 am

hoping today is a much better day for you!:-4

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 10:02 am

I don't think you should kick her out because that would mean she has to take her child with her, but a good dressing down in her face will be in order. And her son should have a go at her too!

Post by **Sunshine** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 4:42 pm

qsducks;1162500 wrote: Is your friends son have access to the pc? Hope you have plenty of cable shows, etc. for him to watch. I'll bet he's also a bit angry at the selfish peep who calls hereself a mom.:-5
He has access to the tv and to his x box. I don't allow him on my pc as he gets in to all kinds of sites that he shouldn't visit. 14 year old boy ya know.

I let him use it if he needs it for homework stuff but not to just sit and chat or roam the net. His Mother has a lap top that he uses so I guess that is good enough. I have mine password protected.

I haven't seen him yet today but I hear noise from his room. I think he is using his xbox at the moment. He creeps out when he is hungry. :-3

Post by **Sunshine** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 4:45 pm

qsducks;1162633 wrote: I don't think you should kick her out because that would mean she has to take her child with her, but a good dressing down in her face will be in order. And her son should have a go at her too!

No, I won't kick her out but I have lost a lot of respect for her. Just not a way a good mother should act. A mom should be a good roll model. Just what is this saying to her son?

Post by **Sunshine** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 8:41 pm

Looks like I am allowed to train an assistant from another store so I can get some help for the next month. That will be a big strain taken off my shoulders. Supervisor finally realize that it was impossible for me to get done everything that needs doing all by myself without getting burned out and maybe quitting.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 9:18 pm

Sunshine;1163010 wrote: Looks like I am allowed to train an assistant from another store so I can get some help for the next month. That will be a big strain taken off my shoulders. Supervisor finally realize that it was impossible for me to get done everything that needs doing all by myself without getting burned out and maybe quitting.

finally you will have some help!

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 5:23 am

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:07 am

Sunshine;1162929 wrote: No, I won't kick her out but I have lost a lot of respect for her. Just not a way a good mother should act. A mom should be a good roll model. Just what is this saying to her son?

Has she called you at all to inquire about her son? Where did she meet this loser in Texas that he couldn't come & see her? She sounds like a moron and she's supposed to be the director of some rehab? Sounds like she needs rehab:wah:

Post by **Sunshine** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:33 pm

qsducks;1163100 wrote: Has she called you at all to inquire about her son? Where did she meet this loser in Texas that he couldn't come & see her? She sounds like a moron and she's supposed to be the director of some rehab? Sounds like she needs rehab:wah:

I have thought that many a time. Not sure where she met him. I do know that if she comes back and says she is planning on moving to Texas, I will help her pack. :wah:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:01 am

Sunshine;1163405 wrote: I have thought that many a time. Not sure where she met him. I do know that if she comes back and says she is planning on moving to Texas, I will help her pack. :wah:

How is her son adjusting to this latest moronic move by his mom?

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:24 am

qsducks;1163706 wrote: How is her son adjusting to this latest moronic move by his mom?
He doesn't talk much. I think he tends to hold everything in which could lead to an eruption at one point or other. He is a good boy and not a bother at all. As for his Mom calling, unless she has called him, I haven't heard a word from her. Not even sure I care to talk to her right now anyway. I haven't anything good to say so I would rather not say anything.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:27 am

Sunshine;1163719 wrote: He doesn't talk much. I think he tends to hold everything in which could lead to an eruption at one point or other. He is a good boy and not a bother at all. As for his Mom calling, unless she has called him, I haven't heard a word from her. Not even sure I care to talk to her right now anyway. I haven't anything good to say so I would rather not say anything.

When is she supposed to return from her trip?

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:31 am

qsducks;1163721 wrote: When is she supposed to return from her trip?

Sometime Saturday. She will no doubt go right to her room because she is tired from driving. I should actually get a chance to talk to her by Monday. Of course I have to work so who knows when we will see each other face to face.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:34 am

Sunshine;1163725 wrote: Sometime Saturday. She will no doubt go right to her room because she is tired from driving. I should actually get a chance to talk to her by Monday. Of course I have to work so who knows when we will see each other face to face.

That stinks!:-5 Why don't you leave her a nice note on her pc!:sneaky:

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:42 am

qsducks;1163728 wrote: That stinks!:-5 Why don't you leave her a nice note on her pc!:sneaky:

Oh no. I won't sink to her level. Face to face, so she knows that I mean what I say, is the best. I am not at all uncomfortable with what I have to say. Notes just mean you are afraid of a face to face reaction. That, I am not!!!!!!

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:45 am

Sunshine;1163733 wrote: Oh no. I won't sink to her level. Face to face, so she knows that I mean what I say, is the best. I am not at all uncomfortable with what I have to say. Notes just mean you are afraid of a face to face reaction. That, I am not!!!!!!

Then say it on Sunday...

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:18 am

qsducks;1163735 wrote: Then say it on Sunday...

Or sooner. It will start off with, Do not say anything in your defence untill I am finished and when I am finished, actually, anything you might have as an excuse is unacceptable.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:27 am

Sunshine;1163744 wrote: Or sooner. It will start off with, Do not say anything in your defence untill I am finished and when I am finished, actually, anything you might have as an excuse is unacceptable.

to bad if she's tired Saturday...she wasn't tired when she should have asked you first.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:10 am

Sunshine;1163744 wrote: Or sooner. It will start off with, Do not say anything in your defence untill I am finished and when I am finished, actually, anything you might have as an excuse is unacceptable.

What would you do if she decided to stay in Texas and leave her son with you?

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:02 pm

qsducks;1163779 wrote: What would you do if she decided to stay in Texas and leave her son with you?
Now that I would call Child welfare for. I really doubt she would do that though.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:03 pm

Sunshine;1164045 wrote: Now that I would call Child welfare for. I really doubt she would do that though.

no, she won't leave him with you, that's a bit drastic.

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:11 pm

I know she loves him and wouldn't leave him permanently. I just think she should have thought it out better and considered her son and me when making that,

spur of the moment, decision. It was wrong in so many different ways. Poor kid never gets to do anything. I feel sorry for him. We had a nice chat today and tonight are having his favorite food. Cheeseburgers and french fries. Yummmmm.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:29 pm

Sunshine;1164051 wrote: I know she loves him and wouldn't leave him permanently. I just think she should have thought it out better and considered her son and me when making that,

spur of the moment, decision. It was wrong in so many different ways. Poor kid never gets to do anything. I feel sorry for him. We had a nice chat today and tonight are having his favorite food. Cheeseburgers and french fries. Yummmmm.

Oh my son would have fit right in at your house tonight. He's currently 13 and obnoxious at the mo.

. Can you take him for 5 days?

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 5:41 pm

qsducks;1164067 wrote: Oh my son would have fit right in at your house tonight. He's currently 13 and obnoxious at the mo.

. Can you take him for 5 days?

Oh I can so relate to that! My son was a Irish/German, redheaded Leo. Talk about difficult to manage at times. Just tell him you need to take a time out and will deal with it later after you have counted to about 1 million. :wah: Made mine snicker at least.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 6:28 pm

Sunshine;1164144 wrote: Oh I can so relate to that! My son was a Irish/German, redheaded Leo. Talk about difficult to manage at times. Just tell him you need to take a time out and will deal with it later after you have counted to about 1 million. :wah: Made mine snicker at least.

Well my young guy is about 90% Irish/the rest is mutt and a Libra not to mention stubborn as all get out. I try to be nice and what does it get me....aggravation about 99% of the time. He won't listen to me, but boy when dad walks in it's complete turn around!:-5:-5

Post by **Sunshine** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:13 pm

qsducks;1164173 wrote: Well my young guy is about 90% Irish/the rest is mutt and a Libra not to mention stubborn as all get out. I try to be nice and what does it get me....aggravation about 99% of the time. He won't listen to me, but boy when dad walks in it's complete turn around!:-5:-5
Ah the joys of being the mom of a teenage boy. :-5 I remember it well. If you can weather it out Ducks, it does get better. :yh_pray

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:16 pm

found this one for you, thought it was cute!

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 2:57 pm

Awww, that is cute Odie.

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 2:58 pm

Here is a little email I got. Some of it might be bleeped but you will get the drift.

my friends who enjoy a glass of wine... and those who don't. As Ben Franklin said: 'In wine there is wisdom. In beer there is freedom In water there is bacteria.' In a number of carefully controlled trials, scientists have demonstrated that if we drink 1 liter of water each day, at the end of the year we would have absorbed more than 1 kilo of Escherichia coli, (E. coli) - bacteria found in feces. In other words, we are consuming 1 kilo of poop. However, we do NOT run that risk when drinking wine & beer (or tequila, rum, whiskey or other liquor) because alcohol has to go through a purification process of

boiling, filtering and/or fermenting. Remember: Water = Poop, Wine = Health. Therefore, it's better to drink wine and talk stupid, than to drink water and be full of ****. There is no need to thank me for this valuable information: I'm doing it as a public service.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 3:09 pm

one more day and she's home!:sneaky:

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 3:16 pm

Odie;1164661 wrote: one more day and she's home!:sneaky:
The count down begins. I am ready. :sneaky:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:00 pm

Sunshine;1164666 wrote: The count down begins. I am ready. :sneaky:

guess I won't hear from you this weekend.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:02 pm

Sunshine;1164248 wrote: Ah the joys of being the mom of a teenage boy. :-5 I remember it well. If you can weather it out Ducks, it does get better. :yh_pray

We are starting to get along a little better but it's not at the end of the road yet. Jeez, can't wait till Q is 13:-5

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 7:44 pm

Odie;1164749 wrote: guess I won't hear from you this weekend.

pfft, of course you will. IT will only take me about 15 minutes to say what I have to say then turn my back and walk out of the room. Great way to put an end to a conversation. Leave them in the dust. :yh_rotfl

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 7:46 pm

Sunshine;1164863 wrote: pfft, of course you will. IT will only take me about 15 minutes to say what I have to say then turn my back and walk out of the room. Great way to put an end to a conversation. Leave them in the dust. :yh_rotfl

yes. but but she will be soooooooooooooo sorry, it will last for ages!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

I really am praying she says sorry to her son...over and over and over and still over.:-5:-5

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 7:51 pm

good nite babe........sleep well!:-4

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:17 pm

Odie;1164865 wrote: yes. but but she will be soooooooooooooo sorry, it will last for ages!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

I really am praying she says sorry to her son...over and over and over and still over.:-5:-5

Pfft, not likely. What would she have to be sorry for? He was fed, warm and dry and safe. She will no doubt feel that is all he needed to get by for a week.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:19 pm

Sunshine;1164887 wrote: Pfft, not likely. What would she have to be sorry for? He was fed, warm and dry and safe. She will no doubt feel that is all he needed to get by for a week.

he really needs her, you should tell her the things he said..maybe she will start to show she does care for him.

just to strange for her to not even phone you to see how he is.

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:35 pm

Odie;1164888 wrote: he really needs her, you should tell her the things he said..maybe she will start to show she does care for him.

just to strange for her to not even phone you to see how he is.
I know. Guess she no doubt thought that if anything went wrong, I would call her. She may have been in touch with him for all I know. He has his own cell.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:47 pm

Sunshine;1164897 wrote: I know. Guess she no doubt thought that if anything went wrong, I would call her. She may have been in touch with him for all I know. He has his own cell.

she should have phoned you.......you are the one taking care of him.

Post by **Sunshine** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:55 pm

Odie;1164902 wrote: she should have phoned you.......you are the one taking care of him.
YOu seem to have her confused with a person that thinkings about others before herself. I'm pretty sure that he is the last thing on her mind if she is with her fella.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 5:33 am

Sunshine;1164906 wrote: YOu seem to have her confused with a person that thinkings about others before herself. I'm pretty sure that he is the last thing on her mind if she is with her fella.

yes, my fault, someone who cared about their child wouldn't have run off.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 10:11 am

So, Sunshine...did you rip her a new arsehole yet?

Post by **Sunshine** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 12:37 pm

qsducks;1165087 wrote: So, Sunshine...did you rip her a new arsehole yet?

Nope, not here yet. No call or anything either. Not even to him. I asked him. :yh_angry

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 12:38 pm

Sunshine;1165225 wrote: Nope, not here yet. No call or anything either. Not even to him. I asked him. :yh_angry

omg.....that poor kid, not so much as a phone call.

Post by **Sunshine** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 12:59 pm

Odie;1165226 wrote: omg.....that poor kid, not so much as a phone call.

Nope. I really don't need to have the furnace running. I am hot enough under the collar to keep the whole house warm.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 1:01 pm

Sunshine;1165240 wrote: Nope. I really don't need to have the furnace running. I am hot enough under the collar to keep the whole house warm.

I can see why babe........just don't know how your going to handle this now.:-1

Post by **Sunshine** » Sat Mar 28, 2009 8:45 pm

Well, it's done. I told her in no uncertain terms that this was never going to happen again and that leaving a note was a childish and irresponsible thing for a grown woman to do. Not only did she leave her child during spring break when she should have been here to do something with him but she also placed me in a house lock down because I had to be here everyday, when not at work, so that he was fed and taken care of. If you can beleive this, she just said, yeah, that was wrong. No sorrys, no nothin!!!!!!! She then made herself a sandwich,

plopped in a chair and started texting her boyfriend then took a bath and went to bed. Tired I guess from driving all day. :-5:-5:-5:-5

I am tired too. Tired of people taking advantage of me. Maybe I am too nice.