needing help

black princess · Post by **black princess** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 3:40 am

Hello, my name is sharon from the uk. my partner died on sunday morning the 4th nov with me by his side, it was sudden no warning and i'm shocked shattered and totally lost.

He was fit and well when we went to bed and now he's gone.

He was 50

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:23 am

I can't imagine your loss. :-1 :yh_flower

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:26 am

black princess;717729 wrote: Hello, my name is sharon from the uk. my partner died on sunday morning the 4th nov with me by his side, it was sudden no warning and i'm shocked shattered and totally lost.

He was fit and well when we went to bed and now he's gone.

He was 50

Hi Sharon

Welcome to FG....

I'm so sorry for your loss :yh_hugs:yh_flower

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:45 am

The pain you are feeling now is so terrible and I'm so sorry that you are suffering.

Please lean on your friends and family, get help from your GP if you need it and if you need any advice on arranging the funeral let me know, I used to work in that area and would be happy to help.

Also have a look here at the bereavement section when you feel up to it, lots of support to be gained.

Helen

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 7:10 am

how sad i thoughts are with you at this very sad time :-4

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 7:28 am

What a heartbreaking loss. Be kind to yourself, hope we can offer some comfort.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 8:50 am

Welcome to the Garden:-6

I am so sorry for your loss and admire your strength to reach out for help. There are many people here that are great encouragers, I hope you stick around and let them minister to you. The sweet people of the Garden have helped me more than words can express!!

Jimbo told a half-truth, he is a great guy and has helped many on here through tough times, he won't admit it...that's why they keep this "self proclaimed super-hero" around!!

I am no super hero, by any means, but if I can offer you any words of comfort and just be a friend to you, I am only a post or pm away!

I have already said a prayer for you and your family. :-4:-4

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 12:12 pm

Sharon,

I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you at this terrible time. Please feel free to 'talk' to friends here either through PM or the open thread, we are all here for you .

Suzy :yh_flower:yh_flower

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 3:33 pm

Hello,

So sorry to hear your sad news. My best wishes are with you at this time.

Welcome to the FG and , I know that you'll make lots of friends here. Stay well.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:28 pm

black princess;717729 wrote: Hello, my name is sharon from the uk. my partner died on sunday morning the 4th nov with me by his side, it was sudden no warning and i'm shocked shattered and totally lost.

He was fit and well when we went to bed and now he's gone.

He was 50

A hug for you, Sharon.

As you see, we all do care.

moonpie · Post by **moonpie** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:49 pm

I am new to this forum too, but I have seen some really nice people here. I am so sorry for your sudden loss, and I hope that if you feel the need to reach out to someone for some help, please think of us here. If there is anything I/we can do, please let us know. Hugs to you.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 5:27 pm

How sad I feel reading your post black princess. :-1

I know it's early days in your grief but in months, maybe years to come you'll look back on the happy days you spent with your loved one and be a pink princess once again.

My thoughts are with you at this sad time. :yh_flower

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littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 5:30 pm

I am so sorry to here of your loss Sharon :-1

i hope you can find some comfort amongst us here on FG :-4

Also a big welcome to the forum :-6

cars · Post by **cars** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 5:39 pm

Welcome to FG.

Very sorry for your loss, "life" doesn't always make much sense!

Only 50, he died out of turn! (Too young)

watermark · Post by **watermark** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 10:04 pm

Hi black princess,

Hope you are gaining some strength. Sorry for your loss. Must be shock to have someone who was so close to you and so seemingly healthy die in a sudden instant. Take care my friend,

Erin

Lisa · Post by **Lisa** » Fri Nov 09, 2007 10:05 pm

Wishing you strength when you need it.

And, at peace when you seek it.