How Do You Argue ?

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:06 pm

SuzyB;445322 wrote: jim is wonderfull why would i argue with such a handsome stud :-4

You are such a jerk, you wait til i'm better and i'm changing my password:-5

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:08 pm

SuzyB;445391 wrote: You are such a jerk, you wait til i'm better and i'm changing my password:-5

:yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:14 pm

AussiePam;445336 wrote: I can hardly bear to read that, Nomie. Too close to home. Sheesh.

Lots of that going around it seems. Some parents just never know the damage they can do.

Mystery · Post by **Mystery** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:22 pm

Nomad;445401 wrote: Lots of that going around it seems. Some parents just never know the damage they can do.

And, sadly, some just don't care

As for arguing. I don't. IMO, it's pointless to bicker over stuff when it's impossible to change someone's opinion/point of view etc. I much prefer rational discussion, and if things get heated, I back off till they cool down.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:24 pm

:wah: I love it.......................

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:26 pm

chonsigirl;445412 wrote: :wah: I love it.......................

You wait revenge is a dish best served cold, :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:27 pm

SuzyB;445413 wrote: You wait revenge is a dish best served cold,

i do believe thats 2 all now :wah: :wah:

and your right it was

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:31 pm

I pick my battles and make sure I'm calm before I engage. Scares the crap out of people most of the time. I usually end up with folks saying "Well, thanks for being so calm about it." I still remember that one. I got thanked by someone for tearing a strip off them because I did it without yelling.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:31 pm

jimbo;445414 wrote: i do believe thats 2 all now :wah:

and your right it was

Your taking advantage of a helpless woman, i already have a plan up my sleeve, just think have all this spare time to think what i'm going to do :wah:

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:32 pm

SuzyB;445413 wrote: You wait revenge is a dish best served cold, :wah:

Oh, Wrath of Khan is nothing compared to the Wrath of Suzy!:wah:

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:37 pm

i have a bad habit of venting. and i dont expect an answer or arguement. just leave me alone till i am through and dont bring it up later.

it surprises me once in a while when i hear a man do it. once i ever figure out yo are venting i can pretty well tune ya out . untill then i hear every word and take it literally. :-5

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:43 pm

I think i rant and rave, then go totally off the subject and forget why i'm arguing in the first place, Jim think's i'm trying to twist things but i just forget what i'm pissed about, then Jim will pull these stupid goofy faces and i start laughing.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 3:48 pm

SuzyB;445435 wrote: I think i rant and rave, then go totally off the subject and forget why i'm arguing in the first place, Jim think's i'm trying to twist things but i just forget what i'm pissed about, then Jim will pull these stupid goofy faces and i start laughing.

i'm not actually pulling faces

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 4:11 pm

koan;445417 wrote: I pick my battles and make sure I'm calm before I engage. Scares the crap out of people most of the time. I usually end up with folks saying "Well, thanks for being so calm about it." I still remember that one. I got thanked by someone for tearing a strip off them because I did it without yelling.

Thats the way to go! I tend to do that too, but also in the nicest possible way, it totally throws people!

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Oct 30, 2006 4:49 pm

chonsigirl;445412 wrote: :wah: I love it.......................

Arguing ? I know bunny, its your one downfall.