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Milly;1066904 wrote:

They wear what they do because it gives them confidence I presume.... what they wear may not be the clothing of your choice or mine, but you're not forced to look.... If what a woman wears makes them feel good about themselves, is that really such a bad thing?











That may have been your own personal experience..... Mine is very different and I know for 'fact' that clothing isn't always what triggers a mans sexual urges....

When I fifteen years old (I looked a lot younger, probably about 12), dressed in Jeans and T-shirts and just being the 'girl' I was... I was stalked by a 39 year old man.... he was a neighbour of ours who became obsessed with me to the point where my parents had him arrested and charged with tresspassing (This was over a period of 14 months though as the police were reluctant to act on things like that back then), this had nothing to do with what I was wearing, this was NOT my fault..... this was a sick man, who had a liking for young girls, no matter what I had worn, this man still pursued me..... Nothing I did was to blame for that.



My mother was the same Oscar, I can't say I was proud LOL.... I didn't even think about it at the time.... she's still very much the same now, I think of her as a very elegant lady, but then, she has a friend, who is the total opposite of her, likes to wear jeans and shirts, there is a tad of cleavage that can be seem, but nothing to write home about LOL.... I don't think of her as elegant..... I do however think she's very much a lady....



PMSL!.... All dads were broken from the same bloody mould weren't they! :wah:

My dad was a very strict man, what he said was law in our house..... I would have loved to have worn the fashion clothing my friends were wearing at the time, but my dad just wouldn't allow it, we all hung out together, I dressed very differently to my pals, but we were all the same kids, chatting about boys, singing into our hairbrush, swooning over the Bay City Roller :wah:... Our clothes made no difference in our personalities... no matter what we wore, we were kids being kids





How sad that this woman is judged on what she wears.....

If she's a good mum and a decent person who really gives a toss what she wears?.... Live and let live....

I should think that being the best person we all can be is far more important in life than being the best dressed.....

But... this is just my opinion..... I suppose some would say I was a conservative dresser, but I hope that I'm never judged on that.... I'm far from conservative LOL....

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Yes unfortunately, perv's will pick their victem regardless but i was just pointing out the draconian legal system we have here where we do still get Judge's judge a women by what she was wearing if she is a rape victem. They shouldn't i know, but it still goes on.

As for the irritating woman that lives by me, the answer is no, she is a lousey mum and my heart goes out to her kids. They are totally on benifit, the kids have no decent clothes let alone enough to eat. They came round two days ago because the electric meter had run out and they were in darkness. then i see her, buying hair dye, drink and skinning up a spliff. That's why i have a problem with her. If she put her kids first, i wouldn't mind what she looked like.

No-one should be judged on the what they wear i agree but if you ever saw this woman with a crop top on, her overweight belly hanging over it with deep stretch marks, you may want to borrow the sick bucket i gave Odie earlier. Trust me Milly... It's horrible and enough to frighten the horses.

oscar;1066912 wrote: Yes unfortunately, perv's will pick their victem regardless but i was just pointing out the draconian legal system we have here where we do still get Judge's judge a women by what she was wearing if she is a rape victem. They shouldn't i know, but it still goes on.

As for the irritating woman that lives by me, the answer is no, she is a lousey mum and my heart goes out to her kids. They are totally on benifit, the kids have no decent clothes let alone enough to eat. They came round two days ago because the electric meter had run out and they were in darkness. then i see her, buying hair dye, drink and skinning up a spliff. That's why i have a problem with her. If she put her kids first, i wouldn't mind what she looked like.

No-one should be judged on the what they wear i agree but if you ever saw this woman with a crop top on, her overweight belly hanging over it with deep stretch marks, you may want to borrow the sick bucket i gave Odie earlier. Trust me Milly... It's horrible and enough to frighten the horses.


:wah: you do make me laugh Oscar..:wah::wah::wah:

To pick up on what you said..... regardless of what the lady is wearing, she'd still be the same crap person she is wouldn't she..... I've known the most beautifully dressed to ignore their children and think only of themselves.... Heartless people come from all walks of life....

Oscar wrote: Yes unfortunately, perv's will pick their victem regardless but i was just pointing out the draconian legal system we have here where we do still get Judge's judge a women by what she was wearing if she is a rape victem. They shouldn't i know, but it still goes on.


Yes, sadly you're right, it does... and it's so very wrong.

Milly;1066914 wrote: :wah: you do make me laugh Oscar..:wah::wah::wah:

To pick up on what you said..... regardless of what the lady is wearing, she'd still be the same crap person she is wouldn't she..... I've known the most beautifully dressed to ignore their children and think only of themselves.... Heartless people come from all walks of life....


Yes, she would still be the same crap mum to her kids, very true. Mr Oscar has been made to almost retch at the sight of this woman and if he says there should be a law stopping people being offensive to the public, then i agree.

What happened to the old saying 'clothes maketh man'?

If it were men we were discussing and i was describing some overweight lardarsse with his belly hanging over his belt and his man boobs on show, we may say different. Call me a snob but i do like to see a man in a nice suit, clean shaven with a nice haircut, clean manicured fingernails, nice clean shoes and good teeth. Oh, I've just described Gordon Brown. :wah:

There is no way on this planet that i could be attracted to a male version of the woman i described. I don't care if he's got a degree, is fantastically funny and has Beckhams millions, i could not be attracted in the very first place to even find out what qualitie's lay underneath. Even worse, if he stinks of beer, nobcheese and has a spliff in his hand.

After all, it's just not British is it??

oscar;1066921 wrote: If it were men we were discussing and i was describing some overweight lardarsse with his belly hanging over his belt and his man boobs on show, we may say different.


There are some damn good men who don't care for their appearance but do everything for their families... I'd still say the same.

Oscar wrote: Call me a snob but i do like to see a man in a nice suit, clean shaven with a nice haircut, clean manicured fingernails, nice clean shoes and good teeth. Oh, I've just described Gordon Brown. :wah:


:yh_rotfl

That's my preference too Oscar, well, not Gordon Brown, but a well presented man, along with other attributes though....



There is no way on this planet that i could be attracted to a male version of the woman i described. I don't care if he's got a degree, is fantastically funny and has Beckhams millions, i could not be attracted in the very first place to even find out what qualitie's lay underneath.


Me either, but then, I'm not attracted to dark haired men, I'm not attracted to men who are arrogant and self centered... I'm not attracted to men with facial hair... LOL... I could go on, but it's all about personal preference

Oscar wrote: Even worse, if he stinks of beer, nobcheese and has a spliff in his hand.


Ahhhh the typical university student..... nahhhhh..... I'm not attracted to them either....:p;):wah::wah::wah:

Oscar wrote: After all, it's just not British is it??


Absolutely not.... nobcheese is available worldwide! :yh_rotfl

Milly;1066925 wrote:



Ahhhh the typical university student..... nahhhhh..... I'm not attracted to them either....:p;):wah::wah::wah:



Absolutely not.... nobcheese is available worldwide! :yh_rotfl


Is it??? I thought it was just lardy Brit guys who got it??

So how do you know that then Milly eh eh eh eh??? ;););)

oscar;1066929 wrote: Is it??? I thought it was just lardy Brit guys who got it??

So how do you know that then Milly eh eh eh eh??? ;););)


I'd presume, much in the same way that you're aware of lardy british guys having it :wah:

Milly;1066933 wrote: I'd presume, much in the same way that you're aware of lardy british guys having it :wah:


I have a very keen nose and can sniff out the culprits at a hundred paces. :yh_rotfl

oscar;1066934 wrote: I have a very keen nose and can sniff out the culprits at a hundred paces. :yh_rotfl


Hahahaha.... gonna PM you, can't respond here! vwah:

Milly;1066936 wrote: Hahahaha.... gonna PM you, can't respond here! vwah:


What a shame evryone won't see what you sent in my pm :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

:yh_rotfl

Patsy Warnick;1066903 wrote: Touchstone

As I jump in here late - I only read your intro..

I find what you concentrate on in different body types is interesting since your a Breast Man.

So, your kind've testing yourself - why? too funny..

I think no matter what your assest is that one would present,,

should be presented with class.

Patsy


Hi Patsy ... I don't believe we have met so pleased to meet you!

Your right and even though I'm a breast man ... well I'm also a nice ass and long legs and pretty face man too ... I try really hard to please my partner and what I described in this thread is how I believe it should be done. Maybe I'm doing it all wrong and perhaps the more well endowed ladies prefer men to concentrate on this area of their body. Same for ladies with tiny boobs.

Perhaps the ladies should answer this then.



Ryan.

Touchstone;1067385 wrote: Hi Patsy ... I don't believe we have met so pleased to meet you!

Your right and even though I'm a breast man ... well I'm also a nice ass and long legs and pretty face man too ... I try really hard to please my partner and what I described in this thread is how I believe it should be done. Maybe I'm doing it all wrong and perhaps the more well endowed ladies prefer men to concentrate on this area of their body. Same for ladies with tiny boobs.

Perhaps the ladies should answer this then.



Ryan.


I've told you all before. We don't have any of that old malarky in Britain. British people do not have sex. It's why we talk about the weather so much.

Margret Thatcher taxed sex under the Conservative Government and Gordon Brown proposes the make sex in Britain illegal.

Nor do British women get their tits out.

Before the Thatcher tax on sex, British women only had sex to re-produce. this was done with the lights out whilst still wearing a neck to ankle wincyette flannel nightdress and four peticoats and bloomers.

'Budgie smugglers' for men are also barred in England ever since 'Linford Christie' made women faint at the sight of his lycra lunchbox.

oscar;1067446 wrote: I've told you all before. We don't have any of that old malarky in Britain. British people do not have sex. It's why we talk about the weather so much.

Margret Thatcher taxed sex under the Conservative Government and Gordon Brown proposes the make sex in Britain illegal.

Nor do British women get their tits out.

Before the Thatcher tax on sex, British women only had sex to re-produce. this was done with the lights out whilst still wearing a neck to ankle wincyette flannel nightdress and four peticoats and bloomers.

'Budgie smugglers' for men are also barred in England ever since 'Linford Christie' made women faint at the sight of his lycra lunchbox.


and you also have aliens at your house!:yh_rotfl

oscar;1066912 wrote: Yes unfortunately, perv's will pick their victem regardless but i was just pointing out the draconian legal system we have here where we do still get Judge's judge a women by what she was wearing if she is a rape victem. They shouldn't i know, but it still goes on.




judges here still do the same, with women and what they wear in sex assaults/rapes etc.

men and women judges.

Touchstone;1067385 wrote: Hi Patsy ... I don't believe we have met so pleased to meet you!

Your right and even though I'm a breast man ... well I'm also a nice ass and long legs and pretty face man too ... I try really hard to please my partner and what I described in this thread is how I believe it should be done. Maybe I'm doing it all wrong and perhaps the more well endowed ladies prefer men to concentrate on this area of their body. Same for ladies with tiny boobs.

Perhaps the ladies should answer this then.



Ryan.


I'll answer

I actually find it strange that you catergerise women and believe each category requires specific attention from you to enable them to be pleased.....

Each woman you will ever meet will be unique, she'll be very different from the last woman you met, she may have a some of the same characteristics but when you delve a little deeper than the shell you see before you, you'll find we all have very different personalities and all of us have different wants, needs and desires....

Instead of asking us ladies here what pleases us, why not just talk with the lady you're with..... there's nothing more of a turn on than a man who is open with thoughts and feelings and for that woman to know, he cared enough to ask what she liked...... if you're comfortable with your partner, this pillow talk will be some of the best talking time you and your partner will ever have....

It's good to talk

Milly;1067641 wrote: I'll answer

I actually find it strange that you catergerise women and believe each category requires specific attention from you to enable them to be pleased.....

Each woman you will ever meet will be unique, she'll be very different from the last woman you met, she may have a some of the same characteristics but when you delve a little deeper than the shell you see before you, you'll find we all have very different personalities and all of us have different wants, needs and desires....

Instead of asking us ladies here what pleases us, why not just talk with the lady you're with..... there's nothing more of a turn on than a man who is open with thoughts and feelings and for that woman to know, he cared enough to ask what she liked...... if you're comfortable with your partner, this pillow talk will be some of the best talking time you and your partner will ever have....

It's good to talk


Thank you Milly ... What I was actually asking was this.

Do women with large boobs want men to make a big thing ... excuse the pun ... about them and ONLY concentrate on them?

AND

Do women with tiny boobs want men to ignore their boobs?

OR

Do women want men to just do their own thing as long as they (the women) get turned on and satisfied?

Personally I do what what i mentioned in the thread and I have not had any complaints so far.

Ryan.

I'd say it depends on the woman not the size of her boobs. Boobs are boobs regardless of their size.

would a guy with a small penis want us to ignore it because it was small?? :p

Touchstone;1067869 wrote: Thank you Milly ... What I was actually asking was this.

Do women with large boobs want men to make a big thing ... excuse the pun ... about them and ONLY concentrate on them?

AND

Do women with tiny boobs want men to ignore their boobs?

OR

Do women want men to just do their own thing as long as they (the women) get turned on and satisfied?

Personally I do what what i mentioned in the thread and I have not had any complaints so far.

Ryan.


Do your own thing & women till be satisfied as long as you respect her attitude about sex also.

I actually don't want people noticing my boobs! :yh_rotfl in particular since they got larger when i was pregnant! :yh_rotfl

it's rather embarrassing when you're trying to talk to somebody and they won't look you in the eye because they're to busy looking elsewhere! :sneaky: :yh_rotfl

Hope6;1067895 wrote: I actually don't want people noticing my boobs! :yh_rotfl in particular since they got larger when i was pregnant! :yh_rotfl

it's rather embarrassing when you're trying to talk to somebody and they won't look you in the eye because they're to busy looking elsewhere! :sneaky: :yh_rotfl


How big are your boobs?:wah:

Hope6;1067895 wrote: I actually don't want people noticing my boobs! :yh_rotfl in particular since they got larger when i was pregnant! :yh_rotfl

it's rather embarrassing when you're trying to talk to somebody and they won't look you in the eye because they're to busy looking elsewhere! :sneaky: :yh_rotfl


I never:yh_rotfl

Touchstone;1067869 wrote: Thank you Milly ... What I was actually asking was this.

Do women with large boobs want men to make a big thing ... excuse the pun ... about them and ONLY concentrate on them?

AND

Do women with tiny boobs want men to ignore their boobs?

OR

Do women want men to just do their own thing as long as they (the women) get turned on and satisfied?

Personally I do what what i mentioned in the thread and I have not had any complaints so far.

Ryan.


LOL... if you've never had any complaints, what are you asking us for advice for? *smacks head*..... some men are never bloody happy! :wah:

qsducks;1067898 wrote: How big are your boobs?:wah:


well it's not like they're huge or anything i'm a 36C. :yh_rotfl

Hope6;1067947 wrote: well it's not like they're huge or anything i'm a 36C. :yh_rotfl


34B...sigh. My daughter is a 36B..man she's got huge boobs:wah:

SlipStream;1067900 wrote: I never:yh_rotfl


sorry David i guess you never thought you'd hear me talking like that huh? :yh_rotfl

qsducks;1067898 wrote: How big are your boobs?:wah:


36C.......oh mamma!:yh_rotfl

Hope6;1067950 wrote: sorry David i guess you never thought you'd hear me talking like that huh? :yh_rotfl


we must keep abreast of the:yh_rotfl

Odie;1067957 wrote: 36C.......oh mamma!:yh_rotfl


My daughter told me the other day that her friends aunt has huge boobs and wore a size J bra.....there is no such thing as a size J. I told her the woman would have boobs the length our driveway with that size.:wah:

qsducks;1067963 wrote: My daughter told me the other day that her friends aunt has huge boobs and wore a size J bra.....there is no such thing as a size J. I told her the woman would have boobs the length our driveway with that size.:wah:


J?

Pamela Anderson!:yh_rotfl

Odie;1067966 wrote: J?

Pamela Anderson!:yh_rotfl


Yes, her friend actually thinks their is a size J. Granted, her friend is not built in the boob department, probs still wears a training bra:wah: Actually insisted to me that "Miss J, there IS a size J". Yeah, well I buy bras all the time and I've yet to come across a size J and for that matter anything after a D.:wah:

jimbo;1067982 wrote: sue used to be a 42 j when we first met


Did she have some kind of major reduction?:wah: And how far apart were you standing from her?

With a size J? Did you need a bullhorn to say hello?:wah:

qsducks;1067949 wrote: 34B...sigh. My daughter is a 36B..man she's got huge boobs:wah:


okay welll at 36C i'm a cup size larger than she is so that should give you an idea!

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Hope6;1067997 wrote: okay welll at 36C i'm a cup size larger than she is so that should give you an idea!

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


OMG and she's only 5'2" tall. Her mouth is also as big as her boobs:wah:

qsducks;1067977 wrote: Yes, her friend actually thinks their is a size J. Granted, her friend is not built in the boob department, probs still wears a training bra:wah: Actually insisted to me that "Miss J, there IS a size J". Yeah, well I buy bras all the time and I've yet to come across a size J and for that matter anything after a D.:wah:




ah ha, there are some in J!:wah:

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wow, thats a wide load!:yh_rotfl

Odie;1068003 wrote: are training bras sized differently, maybe they come in a j?


I've never seen a size J bra, training or otherwise. Daughter's friend is not the sharpest knife in the drawer when it comes to thinking.

Actually, her friend stayed back in 7th grade last year and "thinks" that if her grades get better, the school will bump her into the 8th grade sometime in the middle of her 7th grade school year. Umm, never heard of that.

qsducks;1068015 wrote: I've never seen a size J bra, training or otherwise. Daughter's friend is not the sharpest knife in the drawer when it comes to thinking.

Actually, her friend stayed back in 7th grade last year and "thinks" that if her grades get better, the school will bump her into the 8th grade sometime in the middle of her 7th grade school year. Umm, never heard of that.


sorry hun, I had changed that post, so now see



post 139.

Odie;1068028 wrote: sorry hun, I had changed that post,



post 139.


I did. Wow, never knew a J size existed. Who knows maybe her aunt is a J. How she drives a car is beyond me:yh_rotfl

qsducks;1068032 wrote: I did. Wow, never knew a J size existed. Who knows maybe her aunt is a J. How she drives a car is beyond me:yh_rotfl


I never knew either, just googled bras in a size J for the fun of it, lots came up.

that is a huge huge width size, poor her.

Odie;1068033 wrote: I never knew either, just googled bras in a size J, lots came up.

that is a huge huge width size, poor her.


I see women all the time with huge boobs and think...jeez, my back would be killing me. Happy with my 34B's thank you very much.

qsducks;1068035 wrote: I see women all the time with huge boobs and think...jeez, my back would be killing me. Happy with my 34B's thank you very much.


More than a handful is a wate anyway :yh_rotfl

Ur right there oscar,look I dont want to show my ignorance but wot in the word is skinning up a skiff.big boobs is dreadfullreally big ones, my mum was very large but us 3 girls didnt get them at all go figure.Its a bit sad that the young girls think just because its in fashion they can wear it,but not wen their really big girls, the tops today are sooooooooo skimpy and just dont look good on a big girl young or not.I like the fashion thats comming in here for summer the good old gypsy tops and dresses and lotsa really feminine stuff.Hope u girls are all behaving urselfs, then again noo dont its to boring lol have a good one.xx:-6:-6

The real question (SEE THREAD TITLE) - and I don't think anyone's addressed it yet - is what exactly is this CERTAIN AGE???? 15? 25? 40?? 99?

dont think anyone wants to go there might upset some people of that age, but we are all a certain age,im a certain age u are a certain age they might be differant but they are a certainage and so on and so forth hehehehehe bit of a ramble there lol.:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl mabe touchstone can tell us seeing its his thread.

You might be a certain age, Ally. But I'm certainly a certain other age. Capeesh!!! And therefore none of the aforegoing applies to me. Well it wouldn't anyway. I'm the resident goddess after all and can do no wrong!!!

:sneaky:

as long as the age ur at is a good age for u no problemo, and bowing as we speak godess, why didnt someone tell me i was speaking to someone in such a high place lol.:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl