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abbey;939274 wrote: I'm off to Ole Gunnar Solskjaer's testimonial at old trafford, hope you all have a good day. :-6


I think its about footie if so hope they win:D

14.25pm.

Cant remember what I was gonna say now:-5:-5:driving:

hey everyone

I put this on another forum, but thought i would put it here as well, because i value everyones opinion here.

Well, what a crap night it turned out to be.

Went out for drinks with a couple of friends and it was a great night, My husband was out with his friends also, in a different place...He turned up at the same pup as me and all was normal, he was drunk and happy.

It cam to the end of the night and we were all waitin outside for a taxi, i went back into the club because i needed the toilet....on the way out, a bloke calls me over, strts asking me about my friend and wanting me to tell her he really likes her and other stuff. Anyway, hubby comes in to tell me the taxi is waiting and totally flips...he thinks the guy is coming on to me...i try to explain to him what we were talking about and just wouldn't listen, starts shouting at me to "get home now" and he grabs hold of me and pushes me, when i refused he got worse and there was no talking to him at all,

The police were called, he was taken home and made sure i was ok. I came home, we started having the same argument and he tells me he can't trust me ( i have never given him any reason not to trust me) and says that he's sending me home. He left the house sayng he was going to stay somewhere else because he'd had enough.

I'm just really confused, i still have feelings for him but i don't know if i should try and work things out or just leave.

I know i'm the only one that can decide, but just wanted to know what you guys think?

kinks;939355 wrote: hey everyone

I put this on another forum, but thought i would put it here as well, because i value everyones opinion here.

Well, what a crap night it turned out to be.

Went out for drinks with a couple of friends and it was a great night, My husband was out with his friends also, in a different place...He turned up at the same pup as me and all was normal, he was drunk and happy.

It cam to the end of the night and we were all waitin outside for a taxi, i went back into the club because i needed the toilet....on the way out, a bloke calls me over, strts asking me about my friend and wanting me to tell her he really likes her and other stuff. Anyway, hubby comes in to tell me the taxi is waiting and totally flips...he thinks the guy is coming on to me...i try to explain to him what we were talking about and just wouldn't listen, starts shouting at me to "get home now" and he grabs hold of me and pushes me, when i refused he got worse and there was no talking to him at all,

The police were called, he was taken home and made sure i was ok. I came home, we started having the same argument and he tells me he can't trust me ( i have never given him any reason not to trust me) and says that he's sending me home. He left the house sayng he was going to stay somewhere else because he'd had enough.

I'm just really confused, i still have feelings for him but i don't know if i should try and work things out or just leave.

I know i'm the only one that can decide, but just wanted to know what you guys think?


I think a woman as attractive as you there wouldn't be a man alive who wouldn't be jealous of anyone you were talking to...

kinks;939355 wrote: hey everyone

I put this on another forum, but thought i would put it here as well, because i value everyones opinion here.

Well, what a crap night it turned out to be.

Went out for drinks with a couple of friends and it was a great night, My husband was out with his friends also, in a different place...He turned up at the same pup as me and all was normal, he was drunk and happy.

It cam to the end of the night and we were all waitin outside for a taxi, i went back into the club because i needed the toilet....on the way out, a bloke calls me over, strts asking me about my friend and wanting me to tell her he really likes her and other stuff. Anyway, hubby comes in to tell me the taxi is waiting and totally flips...he thinks the guy is coming on to me...i try to explain to him what we were talking about and just wouldn't listen, starts shouting at me to "get home now" and he grabs hold of me and pushes me, when i refused he got worse and there was no talking to him at all,

The police were called, he was taken home and made sure i was ok. I came home, we started having the same argument and he tells me he can't trust me ( i have never given him any reason not to trust me) and says that he's sending me home. He left the house sayng he was going to stay somewhere else because he'd had enough.

I'm just really confused, i still have feelings for him but i don't know if i should try and work things out or just leave.

I know i'm the only one that can decide, but just wanted to know what you guys think?14.36pm.....Come here(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Babe first of all tell me........did he still have the booze in his system??

15.05pm

Kevs one clever bugger:wah::wah::wah:wish I was 100 years younger:D

Carolly;939359 wrote: 14.36pm.....Come here(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Babe first of all tell me........did he still have the booze in his system??


Kinks is doing the kids tea, im sure she will be back soon Carol.

100 years younger??? still be a tad old for him:D

HI everyone:D nice to see youhere Abbs and hope you enjoy yer day xxxxChez take deep breaths while rtansferring fish dont want you getting overexcited:wah:

KInks, sorry you had such a crappy row with your hubby, i would think the same as Carol,, is it only in drink, or is he a bit like this normally? Men (and women) can get jealous i suppose, but the way he dealt with it wasnt fair on you and to tell you he dont trust you:( I think if its is just this episode and nothing else maybe you can work on it ,, but if there are other problems well then it depends. Me and my HUbs have been through some bad times and got through them and still together after 27 years, but everyones different and i have to give credit to my hubs that it was him who made changes, Good luck and i hope it works out the best for you:-4

ops forgot,,, Sat - 3.09pm:D

I Hate Ironingggggggggggggggggg

Chezzie;939391 wrote: Kinks is doing the kids tea, im sure she will be back soon Carol.

100 years younger??? still be a tad old for him:DFanks for telling me about Kinks;)As for the other remark............ignored:rolleyes::sneaky:OOPS........its 15.11pm my overseas friends:-6

kazalala;939395 wrote: ops forgot,,, Sat - 3.09pm:D

I Hate IroninggggggggggggggggggSo do I and thats why I dont do it.....in tumble dryer on a special setting....take out....shake and its ironed:D

right,, now i just want to say a big thank you to Carol for being there for me over the past few days. I know i told you lot about me dad ( hes home now:D) but you will understand that sometimes you dont want to put your whole life on this forum, so there was other stuff going on as well, some of it connected to my dad, some not. it was like those times you have when you say ,, fgs what else is going to happen!!!!! Carol knew this and she put the effort and time in to be a friend, and i think when someone does this for you they shuold know they are appreciated and not taken for granted although i have already told her , i just wanted to say thanks again, :-4:-4

Also thanks so much to everyone who gave support to me here on this thread and to those who pm'd me:-4:-4

Ok Speech over:D

Carolly;939390 wrote: 15.05pm

Kevs one clever bugger:wah::wah::wah:wish I was 100 years younger:D


I have to retake my pic on my shore deck later today and send it to Kev via cellphone. Got his email addy.

Kinks, sorry about the row with hubby. Hate when that happends. Men are such a$$holes sometimes.

Also stopping in to say bye bye to all my wonderful friends here in the FOC. Leaving around 2ish pm, so Kev will probs get my photo later today.

qsducks;939411 wrote: I have to retake my pic on my shore deck later today and send it to Kev via cellphone. Got his email addy.

Kinks, sorry about the row with hubby. Hate when that happends. Men are such a$$holes sometimes.

Also stopping in to say bye bye to all my wonderful friends here in the FOC. Leaving around 2ish pm, so Kev will probs get my photo later today.


oh how exciting going on yer hols,,,im jealous:-5 have a great time Ducky:D

I have to unhook the modem in a bit so we don't get clogged up with emails/spam and all that fun stuff.

kazalala;939404 wrote: right,, now i just want to say a big thank you to Carol for being there for me over the past few days. I know i told you lot about me dad ( hes home now:D) but you will understand that sometimes you dont want to put your whole life on this forum, so there was other stuff going on as well, some of it connected to my dad, some not. it was like those times you have when you say ,, fgs what else is going to happen!!!!! Carol knew this and she put the effort and time in to be a friend, and i think when someone does this for you they shuold know they are appreciated and not taken for granted although i have already told her , i just wanted to say thanks again,

Also thanks so much to everyone who gave support to me here on this thread and to those who pm'd me

Ok Speech overEnough woman!!!:oJust one fing.........when do I get me Knighthood:-3:rolleyes::D15.26pm lol

Hi everybody, just finished reading through, :yh_sweat

Kay, Ducky - have a brill time Mrs., Pam, Chezzie, Helen, Carol,

Abbs - I hope Manu have a good turnout for OGS's testimonial, he's been a brill. player for them!

Kinks, so sorry to hear about your trouble. If it is not the first time this has happened to you, I think it is time for serious thought and possible counselling, particularly for hubs. He behaved appallingly in public, towards you, drunk or sober, what the hell does he think you are ffs. sorry, but that sort of thing by a fella, has no excuse in my book. I suppose he chats up every skirt there is around, and that's OK. But you taking a message from a fella for another girl is forbidden - gawd, he's got some issues there Gem !! Possibly initially, have a good calm talk, when he is sober.

Hi K.S., and Kaz.

Take care all of you XXX

:-4

Carolly;939417 wrote: Enough woman!!!:oJust one fing.........when do I get me Knighthood:-3:


I dpont know about that, but i'll call you Sir if you like:-3;):wah:

K.Snyder;939358 wrote: I think a woman as attractive as you there wouldn't be a man alive who wouldn't be jealous of anyone you were talking to...


thank you, you're very sweet :-4

Carolly;939359 wrote: 14.36pm.....Come here(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Babe first of all tell me........did he still have the booze in his system??


yes he did, but he still thinks the same today

kazalala;939393 wrote: HI everyone nice to see youhere Abbs and hope you enjoy yer day xxxxChez take deep breaths while rtansferring fish dont want you getting overexcited

KInks, sorry you had such a crappy row with your hubby, i would think the same as Carol,, is it only in drink, or is he a bit like this normally? Men (and women) can get jealous i suppose, but the way he dealt with it wasnt fair on you and to tell you he dont trust you:( I think if its is just this episode and nothing else maybe you can work on it ,, but if there are other problems well then it depends. Me and my HUbs have been through some bad times and got through them and still together after 27 years, but everyones different and i have to give credit to my hubs that it was him who made changes, Good luck and i hope it works out the best for you:-4


thank you hun, not sure we will make 10 years at this rate though

qsducks;939411 wrote: I have to retake my pic on my shore deck later today and send it to Kev via cellphone. Got his email addy.

Kinks, sorry about the row with hubby. Hate when that happends. Men are such a$$holes sometimes.

Also stopping in to say bye bye to all my wonderful friends here in the FOC. Leaving around 2ish pm, so Kev will probs get my photo later today.


yes they can, some more than others

Carolly;939417 wrote: Enough woman!!!:oJust one fing.........when do I get me Knighthood:-3:rolleyes::D15.26pm lol


What do they call a woman Knight?

HI Gill:D hows the weather there? its so warm and muggy here, we have had some heavy showers and when i was out with the about an hour ago, i saw some lightening:eek: but didnt hear any Thunder:-3

G#Gill;939420 wrote: Hi everybody, just finished reading through, :yh_sweat

Kay, Ducky - have a brill time Mrs., Pam, Chezzie, Helen, Carol,

Abbs - I hope Manu have a good turnout for OGS's testimonial, he's been a brill. player for them!

Kinks, so sorry to hear about your trouble. If it is not the first time this has happened to you, I think it is time for serious thought and possible counselling, particularly for hubs. He behaved appallingly in public, towards you, drunk or sober, what the hell does he think you are ffs. sorry, but that sort of thing by a fella, has no excuse in my book. I suppose he chats up every skirt there is around, and that's OK. But you taking a message from a fella for another girl is forbidden - gawd, he's got some issues there Gem !! Possibly initially, have a good calm talk, when he is sober.

Hi K.S., and Kaz.

Take care all of you XXX

:-4


thanks gill babes, but i think i'm gonna have to think more about staying or leaving than anything else...i want to be happy

love you hun.....love all of ya xx

15.30pm

Hi and Bye Gill.....Ducky have a nice time and have a ball;)

kinks;939423 wrote: thank you, you're very sweet :-4



yes he did, but he still thinks the same today



thank you hun, not sure we will make 10 years at this rate though



yes they can, some more than others


All i can say is, you only get one life, dont waste too much of it being unhappy:-4

Kinks....He WILL get over it.....thats all I can say....but can you???

kazalala;939428 wrote: All i can say is, you only get one life, dont waste too much of it being unhappy:-4


yeah, you're right, it's just a lot of thinking to do, my head feels like it's going to explode

qsducks;939424 wrote: What do they call a woman Knight?Ask the Mad Oz Bird..........she will know:D

Carolly;939429 wrote: Kinks....He WILL get over it.....thats all I can say....but can you???


i'm not sure i can this time hun

right, i have to go, or i'm gonna get in trouble.....speak again soon

love to all xxxxxxx

kinks;939430 wrote: yeah, you're right, it's just a lot of thinking to do, my head feels like it's going to explode


I bet,, its not an easy decision to make at all:( sending you strength and positive beams:-6:-4

Night Kinks and hope it works out for you. Yes, we are all sending positive beams to you:-4

kinks;939433 wrote: i'm not sure i can this time hun

right, i have to go, or i'm gonna get in trouble.....speak again soon

love to all xxxxxxxYou poor little thing..........been there babe but different circumstances......the drink was the problem with my one and killed the marriage.......will talk soon babe but you know where you can contact me;)xxx

kinks;939433 wrote: i'm not sure i can this time hun

right, i have to go, or i'm gonna get in trouble.....speak again soon

love to all xxxxxxx


love you chick, catch u later:-4

Have a great Vacay Duckeroooo:-4

kinks;939433 wrote: i'm not sure i can this time hun

right, i have to go, or i'm gonna get in trouble.....speak again soon

love to all xxxxxxx


Gem, I know you will think very carefully, and weigh everything up. In the end you will make the decisio n that will be best for you and the children, for the long term.

We're all here for you love.

XXX

Chezzie;939440 wrote: love you chick, catch u later:-4

Have a great Vacay Duckeroooo:-4


I will have a great vacay. And will be thinking of all my funny friends here in the FG. You would not believe the amount of things I come across during the day/night that remind me of you guys. Right now, for you Chez, it's fishies.:wah:

Ok folks, I'm outta here. See you all in a month.:-4

qsducks;939463 wrote: Ok folks, I'm outta here. See you all in a month.:-4


Bye Ducky take care:-4:driving::guitarist

qsducks;939463 wrote: Ok folks, I'm outta here. See you all in a month.:-4Said it earlier but will again........have a great time;):-6

Ok, I am outta here. Carolly says it's rude to cut and run.

kazalala;939434 wrote: I bet,, its not an easy decision to make at all:( sending you strength and positive beams:-6:-4


qsducks;939436 wrote: Night Kinks and hope it works out for you. Yes, we are all sending positive beams to you:-4


Carolly;939437 wrote: You poor little thing..........been there babe but different circumstances......the drink was the problem with my one and killed the marriage.......will talk soon babe but you know where you can contact mexxx


Chezzie;939440 wrote: love you chick, catch u later

Have a great Vacay Duckeroooo


G#Gill;939441 wrote: Gem, I know you will think very carefully, and weigh everything up. In the end you will make the decisio n that will be best for you and the children, for the long term.

We're all here for you love.

XXX


qsducks;939463 wrote: Ok folks, I'm outta here. See you all in a month.


Thank you all so very much, times like this you know who your friends are and what a great bunch you are, i'm very proud to have friends like you :-4



have a great time ducks, see you back here soon xx

4.46pm:D

You are welcome anytime Kinks, ere have you sent Kev your pic to be in the FG Video:-3Also have you voted for the ratings thingy on this thread? we are trying to get 5 stars but it never seems to happen:-2:wah:

qsducks;939471 wrote: Ok, I am outta here. Carolly says it's rude to cut and run.If I knew what you were going on about I could answer that:rolleyes::driving:

kazalala;939482 wrote: 4.46pm

You are welcome anytime Kinks, ere have you sent Kev your pic to be in the FG Video:-3Also have you voted for the ratings thingy on this thread? we are trying to get 5 stars but it never seems to happen:-2:wah:Dont start me off Kaz:-5Ive driven Chez mad over that today ad she finks Im round the bleedin twist:rolleyes::(:-1

Carolly;939484 wrote: Dont start me off Kaz:-5Ive driven Chez mad over that today ad she finks Im round the bleedin twist:rolleyes::(


:wah::wah:you are!!!!:p

G#Gill;939420 wrote:

Hi K.S.,...




Hi Gillywilly...

:yh_bigsmi...

HIya Kev!!! hows you?:D

WELL DONE KAZ...YOU GOT THE 33,000TH POST:guitarist:guitarist:D

Oops its 17.01pm SATURDAY 2ND AUGUST 2008:D

Carolly;939490 wrote: WELL DONE KAZ...YOU GOT THE 33,000TH POST


:eek: woo hoo go me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

K.Snyder;939486 wrote: Hi Gillywilly...

:yh_bigsmi...She aint here Kevbut the 2 sex bombs are.......me and Kaz:D

Helen;939124 wrote: mornin all,

not read back yet, just havin me T and toast.

theres a big surf competion kickin off today and they use "MY" carpark for over spill. theres bodies in tents cars vans and in the feilds. broken bottles, cans and rubbish everywhere and thats since tea time last night !!!

no doubt i will be stopped from going in the field later in case the dog poo's somewhere. :-2

havnt seen anyone cleaning up behind the nine horses that were in there the day before yesterday !!:D

looks like the weather is takin a turn for the better, thats cos i dried my washing in doors :rolleyes:

right reading back now..........................


Congratulations Helen - Your personal 2,000 post !!!