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Me Too........ Today, anyway....

we all try from time to time Jesse, don't give up on it, I have been preaching respect forever on here, some folks just love to muck it up. As for the PM system or the general public system neither work some people will forever muck fling, tis up to each individual as to how they wish to handle it.

Members will come and go and if we want this place to work we will stick by it and post to the most respected way we all know how.

Kathy Ellen;560222 wrote: Novelty, you are another person I have to give a hug to:-4 . Great post.

WOW!!!!!!!!! That's my third hug all in one thread:-6




ahem :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Kathy Ellen;560234 wrote: Jimbo, You are my fifth hug:-4 . You and Suzy are always the best and wonderful friends.



I think I shall rename this thread the "Kathy Hugs.":-4


thanks

KE and anyone else... no deleting accounts, just walk away for a week or so, regroup, gather your thoughts and come back fresh, deleting accounts is drastic and final and well frankly we all here who have rode the waves get very sad when we see memebers deleting accounts. We feel like we have somehow failed. This isn't the easiest of places to be at times but I tell ya at any given time you are bound to find a handful off good folks online to chat up. We just have to manage our reactions to those who offend us. If you go forum hunting one day go see how big other forums are, we rank among the highest in membership and active members, it's a great feeling. Tis ok to be mad, tis ok to go away mad but always leave the door open so you can come back and partake.

minks;560237 wrote: KE and anyone else... no deleting accounts, just walk away for a week or so, regroup, gather your thoughts and come back fresh, deleting accounts is drastic and final and well frankly we all here who have rode the waves get very sad when we see memebers deleting accounts. We feel like we have somehow failed. This isn't the easiest of places to be at times but I tell ya at any given time you are bound to find a handful off good folks online to chat up. We just have to manage our reactions to those who offend us. If you go forum hunting one day go see how big other forums are, we rank among the highest in membership and active members, it's a great feeling. Tis ok to be mad, tis ok to go away mad but always leave the door open so you can come back and partake.


brilliant post minks



i think if bad things are going on in your life f g is probably the best place to get genuine TLC ever , but if you are feeling down ,your an easy target for any low life ass wipe thats had a bad day need to take it out on someone dick head muppet type of person , if you can ignore it its for the better , in the long run if feel that gets too them more ,there are some things like attacks on your family or personally attacks on you that can not be left unanswered or indeed if a fellow f ger is being attacked unfairly , they should be defended but stupid petty things just let them go :-6 :-6

jesse b;559958 wrote: i started this thread to try any get all members to respect each other more

feel i have failed


I came into this thread a bit late. I have been known for fighting a lot of forums. Sometimes it's really difficult not to get into arguments. And believe it or not, I actually try not to fight. I know what it's like to log on and have someone waiting for you to harrass and belittle. You have to just tell yourself that these people would not be writing this mean stuff if they were speaking to you face to face. I mean in real life I'm a pretty mellow person. And not easy to make mad.

pantsonfire321@aol.com;559491 wrote: If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum .


not really obviously they found a place that suited them better. Nobody can force you to leave a forum, it's all a matter of how you handle yourself around each situation.

pantsonfire321@aol.com

If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum .
What other forum? This one is still the best.

As a matter of fact, I just got a new credit card and after I activate it I'm gonna become a paying member here. So I can stay here. And have my own avatars and stuff.

cinamin;560291 wrote: If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum .

What other forum? This one is still the best.

As a matter of fact, I just got a new credit card and after I activate it I'm gonna become a paying member here. So I can stay here. And have my own avatars and stuff.


congrats to ya cin.

This thread speaks of deleted accounts and why some members have left. I answered that with my own question in another thread.

http://www.forumgarden.com/forums/showp ... ostcount=9

Kathy, you're very full of love today... grin.. What say I give you a big hug !!! :-4

koan;560322 wrote: This thread speaks of deleted accounts and why some members have left. I answered that with my own question in another thread.

http://www.forumgarden.com/forums/showp ... ostcount=9


May I ask, which forum have ppl defected to? If is't the one with the bright orange and black background, it isn't my cup of tea.

Defected seems a rather coloured word, Cinamin. As Koan and Minks have said, people go where they feel comfortable - depending on a whole range of things. Some went to MadChatters, some to 24Hours, others to Rant and Rave and some to other places. I started in the Virtual Irish Pub, myself - a great place. Many of us post in more than one chatroom.

What's the orange and black one???? I'm sure I've never been to one that colour!

AussiePam;560366 wrote: Defected seems a rather coloured word, Cinamin. As Koan and Minks have said, people go where they feel comfortable - depending on a whole range of things. Some went to MadChatters, some to 24Hours, others to Rant and Rave and some to other places. I started in the Virtual Irish Pub, myself - a great place. Many of us post in more than one chatroom.

What's the orange and black one???? I'm sure I've never been to one that colour!


It's rant rave.

I've never been to Rant Rave, Cinamin. From what I've heard, it's not my style.. but, then I haven't been there.

Kathy!!!!!! Lovely to see you, always. And I just adored the pic of your new car. You should have it very soon, if not already!!!! We're long overdue and adventure.

AussiePam;560374 wrote: I've never been to Rant Rave, Cinamin. From what I've heard, it's not my style.. but, then I haven't been there.

Kathy!!!!!! Lovely to see you, always. And I just adored the pic of your new car. You should have it very soon, if not already!!!! We're long overdue and adventure.


I I tried it, but didn't much like it. Even when you try to fit in , you get attacked. Some really strange stuff.

Cinamin, I think some people actually thrive on conflict. It makes them come alive. Not me, though.

abbey;559739 wrote: Yes, so you keep telling us. :rolleyes:


I recall saying this once . How many time have you seen it .

pantsonfire321@aol.com;560462 wrote: I recall saying this once . How many time have you seen it .Perhaps you don't read your diary/moan of the day, Abbeypants. What with that, various now-deleted threads, previous "how do I delete account" threads and anything prefixed "This is getting ridiculous" I reckon it's about twice a week for the last couple of months.

Hi Jesse, i just wanted to say - ive been here two years, maybe more, my spelling & punctuation has always been poor. I was attacked for it on many occasions at the beginning. Nobody does it now because lets face it, what can they do about it? force me to spell better? i dont think so :wah:

The image of someone sitting at home fuming at a computer screen because of a spelling mistake is just laughable, dont let it get to you.

buttercup;560515 wrote: Hi Jesse, i just wanted to say - ive been here two years, maybe more, my spelling & punctuation has always been poor. I was attacked for it on many occasions at the beginning. Nobody does it now because lets face it, what can they do about it? force me to spell better? i dont think so :wah:

The image of someone sitting at home fuming at a computer screen because of a spelling mistake is just laughable, dont let it get to you.


thanks bc thats very kind my spelling is always perfect,but it must be awfull for you uneducated chaps:yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl



i am of course finding this funny as i'm crap at spelling

spot;560508 wrote: Perhaps you don't read your diary/moan of the day, Abbeypants. What with that, various now-deleted threads, previous "how do I delete account" threads and anything prefixed "This is getting ridiculous" I reckon it's about twice a week for the last couple of months.




whats that mean please spot

jimbo;560523 wrote: whats that mean please spot


"Abbeypants"? I'd rather wait for pants to ask first if that's alright, a sort of "oh, spot, what does that mean I've no idea" sort of post. Or maybe she's sensible enough to not open that particular can of worms.

spot;560525 wrote: "Abbeypants"? I'd rather wait for pants to ask first if that's alright, a sort of "oh, spot, what does that mean I've no idea" sort of post. Or maybe she's sensible enough to not open that particular can of worms.




ok mate , er all right then , abbey pants





if any one knows about this code can they let old jimbo know

spot;560525 wrote: "Abbeypants"? I'd rather wait for pants to ask first if that's alright, a sort of "oh, spot, what does that mean I've no idea" sort of post. Or maybe she's sensible enough to not open that particular can of worms.


Now that can of worms ... As you know i went to rant rave to call another member out , this person had given out my home telephone number to another member i'd had a disagreement with here . That person then went on to harrass me and give me dodgy phone calls . I also recall that person just have another sly dig this morning .

pantsonfire321@aol.com;560617 wrote: Now that can of worms ... As you know i went to rant rave to call another member outWhat a strange interpretation of events. The other member wasn't registered there, you registered under her name and now you're claiming it was a call-out instead of a name-blackening you've never admitted to until today?

spot;560634 wrote: What a strange interpretation of events. The other member wasn't registered there, you registered under her name and now you're claiming it was a call-out instead of a name-blackening you've never admitted to until today?


If this happened somewhere else, how about taking it there to argue about it?

Peg;560635 wrote: If this happened somewhere else, how about taking it there to argue about it?I was responding to "I recall saying this once . How many time have you seen it", it seemed germane.

spot;560634 wrote: What a strange interpretation of events. The other member wasn't registered there, you registered under her name and now you're claiming it was a call-out instead of a name-blackening you've never admitted to until today?


Spot go ask her to show you the exchange of emails . I'm not saying more .

here works for jimbo

pantsonfire321@aol.com;560640 wrote: Spot go ask her to show you the exchange of emails . I'm not saying more .


Thanks. Take it to RR where it happened. That's what that place is for, after all.

pantsonfire321@aol.com;560640 wrote: Spot go ask her to show you the exchange of emails . I'm not saying more .Bravo. With enough courage, you can do without a reputation.

spot;560649 wrote: Bravo. With enough courage, you can do without a reputation.


I want a reputation !!! :-1 Ok will just settle for popcorn with Jimbo. Obviously what happens in other forums should stay in other forums And anyone who returns here just to start a crapfest should think twice about what they are starting.... FG members for the most part are getting tired of this kind of stuff. Lets stop the cross forum gossip and back stabbing.

minks;560736 wrote: I want a reputation !!! :-1 Ok will just settle for popcorn with Jimbo. Obviously what happens in other forums should stay in other forums And anyone who returns here just to start a crapfest should think twice about what they are starting.... FG members for the most part are getting tired of this kind of stuff. Lets stop the cross forum gossip and back stabbing.My darling, you're such a child. You think that by saying, "I'm sorry," all the past can be corrected. Here, take my handkerchief. Never, at any crisis of your life, have I known you to have a handkerchief.

spot;560742 wrote: My darling, you're such a child. You think that by saying, "I'm sorry," all the past can be corrected. Here, take my handkerchief. Never, at any crisis of your life, have I known you to have a handkerchief.


I am Canadian after all I think we are sorry for everything ...

My very own Handkerchief OH MY LUCKY DAY!!!

minks;560745 wrote: I am Canadian after all I think we are sorry for everything ...

My very own Handkerchief OH MY LUCKY DAY!!!I've always thought a good lashing with a buggy whip would benefit you immensely.

spot;560748 wrote: I've always thought a good lashing with a buggy whip would benefit you immensely.


Bully!!!

minks;560751 wrote: Bully!!!


I don't think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.

spot;560753 wrote: I don't think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.


ahahaha got anyone in mind ya wanna send my way, hahaha you just say that so I will be kept quiet yeah I hear ya know.... Shad up ya bloody canuck yer getting on me nerves

Spot

What if anything do you hope to accomplish?

Patsy