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hoxtonchris;891198 wrote: just want to add here that i did not mean to upset anybody by saying this and was talking about many years ago when things were so different and alot safer than now and hasten to add that most of the time I would have run a mile as these type of women did worry me abit lol ;)guess at the end of the day like alot of men,alot is just talk:oYes I know dearest:wah::wah:;)

I really don't care if your a Bi-Sexual male or female its your choice so be it. Like other have said as long as you don't try and push it on me were good.

[QUOTE=RedGlitter;890799]Okay JJ, I'll be forthright and give you my opinion although some people aren't going to like it.....

I don't actually know if it IS more socially acceptable to see two women instead of two men, but from my own perspective, lesbians (when exhibiting PDA) don't really bother me. I'm not that uncomfortable with it. But two men doing the same and I don't feel so well. Here comes the part people aren't going to like....with two guys, there are only two places they can put it and one is a little unsavory to a lot of people.

Oddly I have been in 2 conversations the past 2 days about this exact topic. And what Red said is similar opinions to what I heard from 5 different people... 1 woman and 4 men.

I have also been told that not all gay men do the unsavory thing, It is more of an "oral" thing as even they find the alternative nasty.

I have to agree with Mz Glitter on this.

From my understanding being bi-sexual means that you find both sexes sexually appealing not that you want to have sex with both sexes at the same time (although for some I expect it does).



So the question is about social acceptance of bi-sexuality not threesomes.



I personally have no problem if someone chooses to have sex with both men and women providing that their sexual partners are aware of the fact that they may not be the only one and are able to take the appropriate precautions regarding their sexual and emotional health. If there is deceit or recklessness involved then I find that unacceptable the same way that I find adultery unacceptable.



Social acceptance? Well, in some parts of society anything other than straight, faithful relationships are frowned upon and in others it's promisucity that's the norm. So I feel that acceptance is a personal issue rather than a societal one.



Whilst I have said I have no problem with bi-sexuality I also wouldn't accept it from my partner because I wouldn't want him to have sex with anyone other than me, male or female as for me marriage does mean 'forsaking all others'.