Page 2 of 2
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 12:57 am
by Nomad
abbey;1020140 wrote: When I was a kid the most popular girl in school befriended me and I was over the moon.
I soon saw how horrid she was, she bullied a girl terrible and I have to admit to standing by for a while, I suppose because it made me feel special to be in "Her gang"
One day I stood up to her for the way she was and I got a biff in the eye for my trouble.
It was a very lonely time for me, her and her friends teased me and the other kids treated me like a pariah.
The girl that she bullied must have felt sorry for me because we soon became firm friends and have been ever since.
Lesson learned.
More Abbey-ness please.
This really took me by surprise. Insight into a little bit of your life that is.
Id like more.
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 1:11 am
by mrsK
oscar;1020208 wrote: I actually have an issue that when problem kids like this are flagged up, the first thing the authorities do, is reach for the Ritilin instead of getting to the root cause.
No-body seems to have the time in schools today to do this.
If kids are left to get away with it, i think they go on to bully in adult life. They end up sad individuals.
I know when there has been problem kids in my husbands school, if the kids get a one on one, it often emerges that they have a sense of insecurity.
For anyone who has been mercilessly bullied, it does scar for life. They think "Why Me?"
We are trying to show this little fella that being a bully will not help him later on in life.He is "special needs" & thinks that because he has gotten his own way most of his life that this will always happen.
He is finding it hard being at school & not being the centre of attention 24/7.
We think we are slowly getting there,we hope we are anyway.
He is a lovely little boy:-4:-4
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 5:08 am
by southern yankee
Odie;1020801 wrote: I still 3 years later wonder why they kept the witch that bullied me, does being good at your job more important than your employees health...........guess so, it was proven!
what makes $$$$ these days:mad:
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 6:17 am
by Odie
bullies are people who lack confidence in themselfs.
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 6:18 am
by southern yankee
Odie;1021051 wrote: bullies are people who lack confidence in themselfs. i think they are terrorist:mad:
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 6:19 am
by Odie
southern yankee;1021052 wrote: i think they are terrorist:mad:
mine was a full blown terrorist!
Were you the bully, or were you bullied??
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 6:22 am
by southern yankee
Odie;1021056 wrote: mine was a full blown terrorist! i felt like i was in a Nazi concentration camp. in catholic school:-1