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Don't you have cheating husbands out there...................... :-2

capt_buzzard wrote: Don't you have cheating husbands out there...................... :-2


Good point. Yes, you do.

As far as telling the guy's wife, I still don't understand how this would change things. Would it improve the situation for any of the people involved? I'm telling you, there is no doubt in my mind that his wife knows. Let it be her choice to see it or to ignore it. Telling her is not going to change a thing. She will face the facts when she is ready to. Who knows--she may have already.

capt_buzzard wrote: Don't you have cheating husbands out there...................... :-2


The lady under discussion is not the only cheating wife in this world. Similarly world is also full of cheating husbands. We have been discussing this case of cheating of husband by his wife purely based on the information supplied by the husband. We don't know wife's case. However the views expressed by forum members are based on what they are experiencing in their own life and what they wish in their life. The most encouraging part is that every one wants to see the issue resolved to the satisfaction of both husband and wife. This is the beauty of human nature.

With an 18 month old baby and erratic/extreme behaviour...i wonder if she suffered an imbalance from the pregnancy? Going to counselling is good but she may be suffering from Candida Albicans (very common after pregnancy) not all doctors understand this, naturopaths can easily diagnose it.

Could just be who she is...but it might be worth looking into if her behaviour changed much since the pregnancy. Candida can cause personality disorders and extreme imbalance.

YOU NEED TO STOP AND THINK FOR A SECOND ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL I HAVE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION AND WOULDNT WISH THAT FEELING ON ANYONE. THE HECK WITH WHAT SHE KNOWS OR WHAT ANYONE THINKS YOU NEED TO TELL HER. I DID IT AND I WAS THE BAD GUY AND YOU WILL BE TOO BUT YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER........I HAVE CHEATED AND BEEN CHEATED ON SHE LOST YOUR RESPECT WHEN WHEN SHE CHEATED AND THATS SOMETHING SHE WILL HAVE TO EARN BACK IF YOU ARE WILLING RIGHT AFTER YOU TELL THIS MANS WIFE.ITS VERY HARD TO KNOW YOUR LIFE AND EVERTHING YOU WORKED SO HARD HAS BEEN TURNED UPSIDE DOWN AND THEY GOT OFF SCOTT FREE. SHE MAY HAVE NO IDEA HE WAS CHEATING. TRUST ME BEEN THERE DONE THAT .. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :sneaky:

I really believe ANYONE should be told when they have been cheated on. And not to "tattle" or seek revenge. But because when someone cheats, they are putting the life of their faithful partner at risk, and that is not acceptable. Is everyone willing to get AIDS testing??? It used to be that cheating was seen as a "minor" thing, something that could be worked out, but today, with all the hideous STD's it is imperative that this woman know her husband was unfaithful. If someone turned up very sick later on, how would you feel?

Peg wrote: Once she has all the credit cards maxed? Does she have a spending problem? I'm thinking I would cut out the credit cards before she has a chance to max them out. Why does she feel the need to hide what she spends?

Burn me once, shame on you. Burn me twice, shame on me.
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Yep stop the credit cards NOW or get your name off of them immediately.

Here in the province of Alberta you are liable for 50% assets and 40% liabilities, this includes everything from credit cards to unfiled income taxes.

If you settle for an amicable divorce this is best and easiest in most aspects. The hurt will go away. You have to look after your child first then yourself second. If your going to end it and go through legal avenues, do as much on your own as possible as the legal profession eats up your money like mad. Unless you can pay big bucks for a big fancy lawyer I would suggest DO NOT.