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southern yankee;991368 wrote: ooooooo on the back of your bare legs!!:-1 We had a boxer when i was kid. when mom picked up the fly swatter. she would to lock up Brenda, Brenda would growl at her. knowing i was going to get it.:wah:


owww in the summertime when i would have on shorts and she get me with that thing, or sometimes she would go outside and get a switch!

qsducks;991641 wrote: My daughter has the discount. Is she taking driver's ed?


She had drivers ed in January...a new law makes them have their permits for 9 months. Thankfully the insurance doesn't charge for her until she gets her actual license.

Patsy Warnick;990914 wrote: Rap Music

Hey hey hey

step back & look at the full picture here..

your parents have had plenty of time to place a marker & chose not to.

That's their decision.

perhaps they could've explained this situation alittle better to you?

This isn't anything to HATE anyone over. and you'll never get answer's to your question with this attitude.

Until you have your own children/responsibilities will you understand what I'm trying to say & where they(Parents) stand. and a death of a child can break up relationships. Your 17 alright , not 38 or ??

It was a unfortunate birth - no one had a chance to know,bond with or nuture.

Do you not think of how they feel ? How can you HATE a woman, who carried a gift and ?

Oh, your half brother has a marker alright - it's on their heart...!!!

you've taken the wrong avenue - this isn't about you

If you'd like to take a adult approach to this issue - I'll talk to ya, I'll tell the route to obtain documents etc.

you have no right to HATE any one who's had to go thru this trauma

Patsy


Honestly, you're taking issue with something you have no right to take issue with. It is about me to an extent. He's my bother, whether we have the same mother or not. I don't care if I **** you off. Hate me if you wish. You have no right to tell me who I can hate and who I can't, and you have to right to tell me what's about me and what isn't. He's my brother, my flesh and blood.

I don't need your help or whatever information you might have. My dad knows the proper procedures, and I trust him far more than I would ever trust someone who just barges in without understanding the true emotion of the situation.

By the way, basic math. I'm not 17.

kazalala;991006 wrote: just wanted to give you a hug :yh_hugs:yh_hugs



I lost a son who only lived four hours. I didnt go to the funeral nor did i want to know when it was. it took me over ten years to finally find his plot and put a marker on. im still not over it, you never do get over it.


I understand the pain of losing a loved one...it's not the same, because I don't have kids, nor do I intend to have any, but I understand not getting over it. My dad's not over my half-brother. But I feel like I've lost something in not knowing anything about my half-brother. He's someone I've always wondered about...lots of what-ifs, even though he's 15 years my senior. I never knew him, and I miss him, if that makes any sense at all. It'd be the same if my younger full brother died when he had cancer as a baby, before I had any memory of him.

My dad's done all he can so far, short of locating the grave. He's always wanted to put a marker on the grave, but he can't without going through a bunch of legal crap.

Okay you guys, i know this is a emotional subject!

lets just take a minute to calm down, and take a step back!

I hope we can play nice here, i don't want to have to get my moderator hat out this early in the morning! :wah::wah:

Hope6;991808 wrote: owww in the summertime when i would have on shorts and she get me with that thing, or sometimes she would go outside and get a switch! my mom told me how grandma would get a peach tree limb. she had my mom and her twin brother pick the punishing device. it better be a good one too!!

didn't get enough sleep!:mad:

More like the b*tch and moan thread here:wah:

qsducks;992442 wrote: More like the b*tch and moan thread here:wah:


yup............I am a bitch today!:sneaky:

and this bitch has a headache!:-5

Odie;992452 wrote: yup............I am a bitch today!:sneaky:

and this bitch has a headache!:-5


It's not that time of the month is it?:D

The Steelers lost there game on Sunday.

Mustang;992604 wrote: The Steelers lost there game on Sunday.


Yeah, to the Philadelphia Eagles. Yeah baby!!:wah:

qsducks;992457 wrote: It's not that time of the month is it?:D


I wish...............no, this happens everyday its called menopause!

Odie;992702 wrote: I wish...............no, this happens everyday its called menopause!







Sorry. Haven't experienced that yet.

One of my fish died today.

raptures_music;992205 wrote: I understand the pain of losing a loved one...it's not the same, because I don't have kids, nor do I intend to have any, but I understand not getting over it. My dad's not over my half-brother. But I feel like I've lost something in not knowing anything about my half-brother. He's someone I've always wondered about...lots of what-ifs, even though he's 15 years my senior. I never knew him, and I miss him, if that makes any sense at all. It'd be the same if my younger full brother died when he had cancer as a baby, before I had any memory of him.

My dad's done all he can so far, short of locating the grave. He's always wanted to put a marker on the grave, but he can't without going through a bunch of legal crap.


i understand your feelings,, and they are your feelings no one can change how you feel inside about something. I just wanted you to think for a moment how others can feel alos and how they can react, even if how they react seems harsh, not right, unfeeling. Grief is strange sometimes and makes you do strange things. maybe if you could tryto be a bit calmer in your aproach, try to explain how you feel to her and how it is so important to you and your dad. Its just a suggestion, obviously i dont know you or your family, but maybe iots worth a try.

when i decided to "find" my son, i just got in touch with the council, they put me straight on the the caretaker of the cemetary and he took me to the spot, all within a week, i was never asked about permission or to sign anything,, nothing like that. Of course im in England so dont know about the regulations where you are. I hope you can get it sorted, and i hope you can stop feeling so angry:)

shelbell;993546 wrote: One of my fish died today.


ahhhhhhhh sorry!

I remember having tropical fish when they died.............they are pets to!:-4

Odie;994352 wrote: ahhhhhhhh sorry!

I remember having tropical fish when they died.............they are pets to!:-4


Yeah, I knew something was wrong with her and that it was coming. I did give her a fine burial at sea tho. :-4

qsducks;992742 wrote: Sorry. Haven't experienced that yet. women get all the BAD CRAP:mad:. Monthly visits,:-5 then the CHANGE. :mad:Oh and carrying a Watermelon for 9 months:-5 what do men go through??

shelbell;993546 wrote: One of my fish died today. sorry. :(what kind do you have?

southern yankee;994748 wrote: women get all the BAD CRAP:mad:. Monthly visits,:-5 then the CHANGE. :mad:Oh and carrying a Watermelon for 9 months:-5 what do men go through??


Amen Sister! :wah::wah:

southern yankee;994748 wrote: women get all the BAD CRAP:mad:. Monthly visits,:-5 then the CHANGE. :mad:Oh and carrying a Watermelon for 9 months:-5 what do men go through??


and Mustang complained because his football team lost!:-5

SY

you ask "what do men go through" a DIVORCE :wah:

Patsy

southern yankee;994764 wrote: sorry. :(what kind do you have?


She was a Beta...now I've only got one left. I try not to get to attached to them because they don't seem to live very long. I have 7 goldfish that happened totally by accident. We bought them as feeder fish for our turtles, but the turtles got full, so we just put them in the tank with the turtles. About 2 months later, we still have (what are getting quite large) 7 goldfish living with the turtles and they live off the turtle food. Totally bizarre.

Hope6;994776 wrote: Amen Sister! :wah::wah:


I think this is something we can all agree on! :wah::wah:

shelbell;994839 wrote: She was a Beta...now I've only got one left. I try not to get to attached to them because they don't seem to live very long. I have 7 goldfish that happened totally by accident. We bought them as feeder fish for our turtles, but the turtles got full, so we just put them in the tank with the turtles. About 2 months later, we still have (what are getting quite large) 7 goldfish living with the turtles and they live off the turtle food. Totally bizarre.


you must have a huge tank for that many goldfish.............Jack ate mine!:-1



We had 4 in a 20 gallon tank, tons of fresh weeds and different nooks and crannies for them to play in.............one night while I was on the computer............heard very unusual noises...........nothing like any 4 cats can make..............went to the livingroom................Jack was leaning over the tank with one his his mouth............I finally managed to open Jacks' jaws and get the golfish out.........put him back into the tank............there was water everywhere..............locked Jack up as he wasn't letting go of this opportunity.................looked on the carpet................three more were there flopping around.............put them back into the tank...........they were all gouged and bloody...............had to flush them.

our other 3 cats never bothered with them, only to drink the fish water!

he's just bad!

Odie;994843 wrote: you must have a huge tank for that many goldfish.............Jack ate mine!:-1



We had 4 in a 20 gallon tank, tons of fresh weeds and different nooks and crannies for them to play in.............one night while I was on the computer............heard very unusual noises...........nothing like any 4 cats can make..............went to the livingroom................Jack was leaning over the tank with one his his mouth............I finally managed to open Jacks' jaws and get the golfish out.........put him back into the tank............there was water everywhere..............locked Jack up as he wasn't letting go of this opportunity.................looked on the carpet................three more were there flopping around.............put them back into the tank...........they were all gouged and bloody...............had to flush them.

our other 3 cats never bothered with them, only to drink the fish water!

he's just bad!







But oh so cute. Right now we've only got a 40gal tank and it's supposed to be just for the turtles. :wah: Hubby and his friend are going to build a much larger one because the turtles are getting to big for the tank. Pretty soon it'll be getting too cold to take them outside to play.

We still haven't Heard from any men. How do they suffer??

Men suffer when they re-marry a young 24 yr. old and they're 47.:wah:

The joke is on the man - they will suffer

then they try to go back to the last wife... not

Patsy

shelbell;994853 wrote: But oh so cute. Right now we've only got a 40gal tank and it's supposed to be just for the turtles. :wah: Hubby and his friend are going to build a much larger one because the turtles are getting to big for the tank. Pretty soon it'll be getting too cold to take them outside to play.


he is cute.............he is the kitten turned cat from hell........this is not a cat!:wah:



40 gallon sounds really good, any pics of the turtles?

Odie;994875 wrote: he is cute.............he is the kitten turned cat from hell........this is not a cat!:wah:



40 gallon sounds really good, any pics of the turtles?


No, I'll have to take some. My big girl is my baby, she likes it when I feed her...everyone else is afraid to even try. Today it was some banana, if she feels that she's gotten any part of my fingers, she'll loosen up her bite. Pretty cool for a turtle. :-4

southern yankee;994748 wrote: women get all the BAD CRAP:mad:. Monthly visits,:-5 then the CHANGE. :mad:Oh and carrying a Watermelon for 9 months:-5 what do men go through??


Lets add shaving our legs and pits, make up, hair and heels....just to make THEM happy! :-5

OK Between the economy and the price of gas and food. that should be enough to complain about. WELL.......i have one more. In my neighborhood. my neighbors are terrible pet owners. i feel like the KOOL AID MOM of Pets. every cat and dog in the area. hang out in my yard. or on the porch. my dogs and cats are well cared for. i cannot allow any animal to go hungry. hubby gets upset with me. but what is a animal lover to do?????????

southern yankee;995147 wrote: OK Between the economy and the price of gas and food. that should be enough to complain about. WELL.......i have one more. In my neighborhood. my neighbors are terrible pet owners. i feel like the KOOL AID MOM of Pets. every cat and dog in the area. hang out in my yard. or on the porch. my dogs and cats are well cared for. i cannot allow any animal to go hungry. hubby gets upset with me. but what is a animal lover to do?????????


Let hubby get upset SY...I'd do the same as you.

It is getting really windy here and starting to rain. They finally named that tropical storm Kyle. That took awhile. SY, it's coming our way.

shelbell;994903 wrote: Lets add shaving our legs and pits, make up, hair and heels....just to make THEM happy! :-5


well i don't wear heels, and i hardly ever wear makeup! :wah:

qsducks;996112 wrote: It is getting really windy here and starting to rain. They finally named that tropical storm Kyle. That took awhile. SY, it's coming our way.


it's pouring down rain here right now!

Hope6;996373 wrote: well i don't wear heels, and i hardly ever wear makeup! :wah:


I'm with you on those Hope. No heels and rarely makeup. :wah::wah:

qsducks;996112 wrote: It is getting really windy here and starting to rain. They finally named that tropical storm Kyle. That took awhile. SY, it's coming our way. my brother lives in Mass. Be safe dear.

southern yankee;996759 wrote: my brother lives in Mass. Be safe dear.


It's bypassing us and heading your brother's way. Hope he's safe.

qsducks;997351 wrote: It's bypassing us and heading your brother's way. Hope he's safe. will call him to make sure he is safe. The season does not end until the end of Nov.

Life Sucks!!!!

shelbell;1000159 wrote: Life Sucks!!!!


ahhhhhhhhhhh!



:yh_hugs

Odie;1000161 wrote: ahhhhhhhhhhh!



:yh_hugs


Thanks Odie.

shelbell;1000162 wrote: Thanks Odie.


you know where I am if I can help................

ET phone home!:D

Odie;1000164 wrote: you know where I am if I can help................

ET phone home!:D


Just one of those days Odie...one where you feel that no one can help.

shelbell;1000165 wrote: Just one of those days Odie...one where you feel that no one can help.


I know what those days are like!

now its over, cheer up, you have me!:yh_rotfl

and I'm keeping my eye on you!:)

Odie;1000170 wrote: I know what those days are like!

now its over, cheer up, you have me!:yh_rotfl

and I'm keeping my eye on you!:)


I sent you a PM that will show you how tomorrow will be no different, maybe worse than today.

OHHHHHHHH shell

I hate the gut wrenching tests life puts you through..

If you'd like to talk -or vent, please I'll listen...

We love you here at FG

Patsy

Patsy Warnick;1000176 wrote: OHHHHHHHH shell

I hate the gut wrenching tests life puts you through..

If you'd like to talk -or vent, please I'll listen...

We love you here at FG

Patsy


Thanks Patsy, I may take you up on that tomorrow...I know it's going to be another long one. I'm off to bed now, you have a great night! Oh, and thanks for that last line, I REALLY appreciate that.

Shel