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You see, there's a girl at my school that I really like. I want to ask her out for a date, but I don't know whether I should because I don't know if she really likes me enough to do that. I've talked to her, I have four classes with her, and I slow-danced with her at my school Homecoming Dance. She is really cute.

One of her friends says she likes me, but I don't know if I can believe him or not. Does anyone have advice/ideas/comments? Please let me know. She is kind of popular but not preppy popular. She has a lot of friends. I am not all that popular at school. Do you think that would have something to do with it??

what have you got to lose? ask her!

She may feel exactly like you. She may be sitting at home just waiting for that call from you. End the suspense - Call her............

bulldawgz1003 wrote: You see, there's a girl at my school that I really like. I want to ask her out for a date, but I don't know whether I should because I don't know if she really likes me enough to do that. I've talked to her, I have four classes with her, and I slow-danced with her at my school Homecoming Dance. She is really cute.

One of her friends says she likes me, but I don't know if I can believe him or not. Does anyone have advice/ideas/comments? Please let me know.


It's difficult at your age to get up the nerve to ask. What makes you think she would not say "yes"? Her friends are probably telling her to ask you and she's just as scared of rejection as you are. ASK HER!!! Learn to take some chances because one day that special girl is going to say yes. If you don't ask you'll be sitting home alone.

I am not all that popular at school. Do you think that would have something to do with it??


What has that got to do with? She would be really shallow if she didn't go out with you because of this. Being popular isn't always as great as it seems. The pressure is always on then because everyone is watching.

Just go for it and ask her out. Do you have a mobile phone? Text her if you don't have the courage to ask her to her face.

Go on and Good Luck!

go for it! i'm sure that it wouldn't hurt to ask her to go out for a date, it's not like you're asking for a bootay call~ :wah: it's all about having fun and getting to know one another right? :p

Missed opportunities *sigh* If you ask and she rejects you, you still win. You conquered your fears. Bravo ! If she accepts, double bravo !

Nomad wrote: Missed opportunities *sigh* If you ask and she rejects you, you still win. You conquered your fears. Bravo ! If she accepts, double bravo !
Hear hear.

Every time in my life that I've gone out on a limb I've had positive results. Not always the result I was hoping for, but positive none the less.

Bear in mind as well, if she says no it's not personal. I can't count the number of dates I missed out on in high school cos I was hung up on the leader of the cool gang..... We get less shallow as we mature

Nomad wrote: Missed opportunities *sigh* If you ask and she rejects you, you still win. You conquered your fears. Bravo ! If she accepts, double bravo !


Definitely go for it.....and good luck

Update needed.........Did you ask her or not?

bulldawgz1003 wrote: You see, there's a girl at my school that I really like. I want to ask her out for a date, but I don't know whether I should because I don't know if she really likes me enough to do that. I've talked to her, I have four classes with her, and I slow-danced with her at my school Homecoming Dance. She is really cute.

One of her friends says she likes me, but I don't know if I can believe him or not. Does anyone have advice/ideas/comments? Please let me know. She is kind of popular but not preppy popular. She has a lot of friends. I am not all that popular at school. Do you think that would have something to do with it??


But as her teacher do you think its appropriate asking a pupil out for a date?....