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This weekend is my 28th birthday and I'm feeling down. It's not that I feel I'm getting old. Just that another year has gone by and I haven't done anything with my life.

Ok whining moment over sorry. :rolleyes:

Sheryl wrote: This weekend is my 28th birthday and I'm feeling down. It's not that I feel I'm getting old. Just that another year has gone by and I haven't done anything with my life.

Ok whining moment over sorry. :rolleyes:4 things



1- Hugs Sheryl in her moment of wimpering-ness... :-4

2- STFU!!! I just turned 40... if you're old what does that make me?

3- Action is the cure for depression. If you are sad and depressed about something... do ANYTHING about it and you'll feel better.

4- HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

(I love your siggy pic...you are really talented.)

Sheryl wrote: This weekend is my 28th birthday and I'm feeling down. It's not that I feel I'm getting old. Just that another year has gone by and I haven't done anything with my life.



Ok whining moment over sorry. :rolleyes:


Of course you've done something with your life....sit down and write a list....we can't all be famous, invent things, be brain surgeons etc....all us little people doing everyday things make the world go round. Your'e a kind and lovely person and soooooo YOUNG :yh_flower

Thanks guys, I need a swift kick in the arse.

Clipper wrote: :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl I knew you'd chime in on that one... I had already corrected it... LOL

Here's to life after 40, 50, 60!!!! :-6

Sheryl hunny you touched a bunch of lives here:) So don't say you ain't done nothing hehehehe

Happy early birthday wishes to ya hun. And like Sweet said if your feeling old what am I ... and I am older than sweet ahahahaha

You guys aren't old Sheesh :wah:

Sheryl wrote: You guys aren't old Sheesh :wah:Now you're gettin it!

Sheryl Darlin', you are a joy and a treasure... if you want to do more with your life... then do it. We're here to hold your hand, give you ideas, guide you, give you strength or kick your ass all the way through it. :-4

Sheryl wrote: You guys aren't old Sheesh :wah:


tell my back that ahahahahaha

Awww Sheryl remember your life is what you make of it. Like suggested go on and do something just for you for your birthday. It's worth it, you deserve it. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in the "necessities" of life, work, bills, family etc we don't do something for "me". It feels good to indulge so go for it. And as for accomplishments what have you got in mind? What would you like to accomplish and what stops you from doing so???? Just grab the bull by the horns and do it.

PS

ya don't even have a "Chance" to win a lottery if ya don't buy a ticket.

Clipper wrote: Yer darn tootin!! My only regret at this point in mah life iz I can't trust mah farts anymore....:yh_rotfl


some days I think to myself.... I am real glad I do not know you in real life ahahahahahahahahaha

It's hard to say what it is I want. Darn it, tearing up. I used to be a happy cheery, don't give a flying f*** what others thought of me person. Did my own thing and that was that. But that was destroyed a few years ago, and I'm still trying to recover. It's hard because I don't feel like I know myself.

Sheryl wrote: It's hard to say what it is I want. Darn it, tearing up. I used to be a happy cheery, don't give a flying f*** what others thought of me person. Did my own thing and that was that. But that was destroyed a few years ago, and I'm still trying to recover. It's hard because I don't feel like I know myself.


been there done that hun, you are still young and have loads of years ahead of you, but don't sweep the real you under the carpet. Take charge soon.

Sheryl wrote: It's hard to say what it is I want. Darn it, tearing up. I used to be a happy cheery, don't give a flying f*** what others thought of me person. Did my own thing and that was that. But that was destroyed a few years ago, and I'm still trying to recover. It's hard because I don't feel like I know myself.well then cookie I suggest you take yourself on a vacation... sometimes we are stuck in our surrounding or limited by funds... but I mean as much as you can as often as you can... just BE with yourself... and figure out what it is you like. It's hard sometimes... but we see the inner you on here... and it's a beautiful sunny person.

Sheryl wrote: It's hard to say what it is I want. Darn it, tearing up. I used to be a happy cheery, don't give a flying f*** what others thought of me person. Did my own thing and that was that. But that was destroyed a few years ago, and I'm still trying to recover. It's hard because I don't feel like I know myself.


Sheryl...on New years Eve, I was as low as I'd been for years...and pi$$ed as well ...One of our friends here told me "swimming in lake 'me' is a bad place to be". My circumstances haven't changed (yet) but whenever I find myself dipping my foot in the lake, I think of what he told me and step back. If you want to get stuff off your chest, PM any one of us because we've all been there and in some cases are still battling our demons. :-4

Chateau Minks is a good place to hide out if you need a break, and hey that goes for anyone out there. Door is always open.

Clipper wrote: I may be slightly crazy but I ain't stoopid ya know..... :yh_rotfl:yh_silly

minks wrote: Chateau Minks is a good place to hide out if you need a break, and hey that goes for anyone out there. Door is always open.


And the lady of the Chateau is pretty special...:-6

Clipper wrote: Oh sure....first you grow a set of testicles then you put out the Welcome mat? I may be slightly crazy but I ain't stoopid ya know.....


ahahahahahahahahahahaha

Bez wrote: And the lady of the Chateau is pretty special...:-6


aw shucks thank you

minks wrote: Chateau Minks is a good place to hide out if you need a break, and hey that goes for anyone out there. Door is always open.Which side of the Country you on?



(be careful what you wish for):p

Sheryl, I remember my 25th birthday... many moons ago. I bawled my eyes out! Ever since then, I've cherished each birthday. I'm proud of what I've done & where I am today. I've done it all by myself! Don't look at the negatives, it'll make ya grow old before your time. Think of all your accomplishments! Where would people be if not for you? That should bring a smile to your face! Hugs to ya, Hon! And BTW, I'm with Sweet... I'm just past 40 myself!!!

Ughh I have really gone off the deep end with you guys today. I don't like being "poor me", because I know that there are million more people out there with a similiar story, some are even worse.

I hope that doesn't sound mean, I'm not trying to be. It's just that I feel I don't deserve to have the feelings.

Sheryl wrote: Ughh I have really gone off the deep end with you guys today. I don't like being "poor me", because I know that there are million more people out there with a similiar story, some are even worse.that's true hon... me neither... but you gotta vent... so just.. VENT and then get on with it...

or as my "shouldabeenmy" brother used to say... "Oh cry me a river, build a bridge and get over it."

Thanks a lot Sheryllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll..... Ive been thinking of drinking drano for weeks now.. If your washed up at 28.. I should be embalmed at54. I havent done a quarter of what I wanted to do. ( I hope you know Im trying to make you laugh)

Being distraught can block you from achieving your goals. Dont waste a lot of time suffering like I always have..... Like the other girls say.. Get out there and live.

We arent promised tomorrow.:-4

SweetDarlin wrote: Which side of the Country you on?



(be careful what you wish for):p
straight north of you hunny and I won't retract that statement hehehehe the door is open always.

weeder wrote: Thanks a lot Sheryllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll..... Ive been thinking of drinking drano for weeks now.. If your washed up at 28.. I should be embalmed at54. I havent done a quarter of what I wanted to do. ( I hope you know Im trying to make you laugh)

Being distraught can block you from achieving your goals. Dont waste a lot of time suffering like I always have..... Like the other girls say.. Get out there and live.

We arent promised tomorrow.:-4


Sheryl it's your thread go to town and vent it's your turn and if we keep responding and propping each other up it means your worth it.

Weeder I love that closing

We arent promised tomorrow may I use it in my siggy??

minks wrote: straight north of you hunny and I won't retract that statement hehehehe the door is open always.WOOOHOOOO an extra vacation stop

I go to Seattle bout once a year... what's another hundred or 3 miles...



(edit- i just lookied it up... and extra 700 miles... but who's counting!?)

Now you guys have got me squirming in my chair. :-4



yea I'm the kid who always ran away, when group hugs were called.

Sheryl wrote: Now you guys have got me squirming in my chair. :-4



yea I'm the kid who always ran away, when group hugs were called.


ok kiddo I got my arms around ya and you can't squirm free..... HUGGS from everybody for Sheryl hehehehehe

SweetDarlin wrote: WOOOHOOOO an extra vacation stop

I go to Seattle bout once a year... what's another hundred or 3 miles...



(edit- i just lookied it up... and extra 700 miles... but who's counting!?)


I could meet ya there hehehehe

minks wrote: I could meet ya there heheheheTackles Sheryl...

(I used to have to do this to my eldest... he hated physical affection- but I'd just make it a game... tackle him til he laughed):-4

SweetDarlin wrote: Tackles Sheryl...

(I used to have to do this to my eldest... he hated physical affection- but I'd just make it a game... tackle him til he laughed):-4


I acquired a very touchy feely sis in law she taught me how to hugg I love her for it...

Sheryl wrote: This weekend is my 28th birthday and I'm feeling down. It's not that I feel I'm getting old. Just that another year has gone by and I haven't done anything with my life.

:rolleyes:


Happ Birthday------What would you like to do with the rest of your life?????

minks wrote: Sheryl it's your thread go to town and vent it's your turn and if we keep responding and propping each other up it means your worth it.

Weeder I love that closing

We arent promised tomorrow may I use it in my siggy??
Yes you can minksy.... we all should use it for a spell.. I unfortunately, dont know how to put it there.. It would be great to see it EVERYWHERE!!!!!! I tend to forget.

:yh_hugs Sheryl :yh_hugs

We all have those days!

weeder wrote: Yes you can minksy.... we all should use it for a spell.. I unfortunately, dont know how to put it there.. It would be great to see it EVERYWHERE!!!!!! I tend to forget.(my settings-edit signature-type it in and save )

Sending you Birthday Greeting early....wishing you the best day ever!!!

(((((Hugs)))))

*is it cake time yet?* :p

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