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A citation... what's that?

Bill Sikes wrote: A citation... what's that?
A summons that commands the appearance of a party at a proceeding... I assume

Your wife doesn't know? You are better off telling her than hiding it. If it is like here, court appearances are listed in the newspaper. Imagine if someone sees it, mentions it to her, and she is standing there clueless.

i am new here as you are...can you say the nature of the citation? i am a florida deputy, and i see you are in florida. i won't give legal advice, but perhaps can ease your mind. also...do you have prior offenses? don't worry, no-one here knows who you are. ... question for moderator or anyone who knows ...if i emailed this gentleman via this board does he see my email address? i am LE and don't want to give out my name. thanks for any response.

anoldman36,

I'm a new member here, but it seem you have come to the right place.

I hope you can find some peace of mind from the learned posters here. They know the law..!!

I agree with PEG, you should tell your wife..!!

GOOD LUCK TO YOU..!! LADYCOP won't steer you wrong..!! :yh_peace

DEAR "ANOLDMAN".... i did receive your email. and i do not judge you at all. but after some consideration i realize i cannot comment on an ongoing case in florida since i am a florida deputy. it would not be ethical. i do wish you all the best, and please obtain representation.

i strongly urge you to seek the services of the public defender's office. it is free.

Your plea for HELP, doesn't give any definition of what the problem is? Any hints would be helpful, every-one gets into dilemmas? to be afraid of your wife learning about it, sounds as though you may have been in trouble before? there is not much help to be given, no IDEA what you are talking about??? further read a (MOVIE HOUSE)...a sex disorder?

Paula wrote: Your plea for HELP, doesn't give any definition of what the problem is? Any hints would be helpful, every-one gets into dilemmas? to be afraid of your wife learning about it, sounds as though you may have been in trouble before? there is not much help to be given, no IDEA what you are talking about??? further read a (MOVIE HOUSE)...a sex disorder?


Sometimes Paula you can be so bloody insensitive!

Why on earth don't you read ALL messages before making your usual snide comments, as i noted your message was submitted a full 3 hours after Rays. :-5

Turn'in up the heat again girl? thanks for watching out for me? the title is about HELP, and we can't HELP if we pick on each-other...you more concerned about what i posted than the orginal plea for help? :sneaky:

Anoldman 36 (Ray) I'm pleased that things did work out for you in court, i thought it was very brave of you to come on here & ask for help regarding your "problem" and thankfuly you had Lady cop on hand to ease your fears a little.

As for my comments to our friend Paula, no malice was intended i assure you, i tend to see Paula as my adversary, my Moriarty ( sherlock Holmes ) LOL :wah:

Good luck, in your private life, sorry things are'nt as they should be in certain departments, hopefuly things will change for you, never say never.

Take care

Anoldman, Take it from me, my husband likes those damn sex films, i hate them. And the more you want sex from us, the (VERY) less you will (EVER) get...in my thirties i was a bit more giving..if i was doing something he didn't like he would tell, well, i have tolerated my man even placing a TV in our bedroom, an X...well no way, where does the perversion come from, i am not a porn star. My man is easy, he likes women, well, go get another one if thats the case, i am turned off by sex movies, pressure to be nasty, spoiled man to say the least, (mine)...thats it..I understand your wife (COMPLETELY!!!). Accept her for who she is, your intimacy has suffered because you are selfish & stay away from sex movie houses. :-5 :-5 PS.

Part of the problem, don't worry about me and ABBEY, you men are tough..