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Alright, gang, let's just have a nice little thread filled to overflowing with

nice stuff for Chonsi to see when she gets back here. No telling what

the in-laws will be like so I think she could use some uplifting things,

don't you guys? (Behave yourself, Sweet Pea!!)



I'll start:

Chonsi fills our Garden with kindness, joy and laughter :-6

We love our Chonisgirl :-4

She could help me with my homework anytime

Aww good idea

Huggs to you bunny

some bunnies love you here

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To our very own Bunnygirl.

WELCOME BACK XXX

Oh, how sweet!

I love you all!

They came an hour early, and stayed only 3 hours-and just left to go home. They seemed pretty happy and were nice to me, and my husband was happy to see his mother. I asked them to come back at the end of summer, they said maybe they will.

It was a good visit!:)

YEAH for Chonsi!! :-6

Chonsi:

The still gray quietness of the garden needs and yearns for the glow of your presence. You provide the kind, heartwarming feeling that many of the residence of this Garden come to rely on. You stand tall in the arena of life. We await your return. Please come back soon.

jbbarker1947 wrote: Chonsi:

The still gray quietness of the garden needs and yearns for the glow of your presence. You provide the kind, heartwarming feeling that many of the residence of this Garden come to rely on. You stand tall in the arena of life. We await your return. Please come back soon.


jb :-4

She's back!

Oh JB, you're so sweet.

They only stayed 3 hours, I was happy with the visit. My husband smiled for his mother, that made me happy. I was glad they came, and hope they will return one day soon.

Cher!:-4

Val!:-4

Abbey and Minks!:-4

Awww so nice for everybody then Short and sweet

minks wrote: Awww so nice for everybody then Short and sweet


And pleasant too.

Sounds like a success! :-6

Yes, a short, good visit was nice. There will hopefully be more.

chonsigirl wrote: Yes, a short, good visit was nice. There will hopefully be more.


Awww your husband will enjoy that am glad you enjoyed it more than you thought hehehehehe

Ha-yes, I was glad it was a nice visit, I worried so.

And the up side is, I cleaned my house all morning, I won't have to this weekend!:wah:

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:wah: BCup :wah:

Thanks buttercup, I am enjoying that link!

:wah: Housecleaners are us!

Yes, it was their first visit here, and we have lived here 6 years!

They wont be looking after their son while you go to California ?

No, I asked them Nomad. They said if I drove him to their place, about 3 hours away, they might. My husband cannot travel in the car that long. His max time is 10-15 minutes, he isn't up to a long trip. (he will open the car door on the freeway while I am driving and stuff like that, when he is stressed too long in the car, he doesn't know any better. That is why I stopped his therapy last summer, it was a 30 minute drive, he couldn't take it-or me-to have such antics)

I will have to ask my friends from church to watch him, and call in the nurse too for some of the time maybe.

I really thought they would spend the night with us, and stay for 2 days. But I am glad they came, even if it was for a little while. They saw how he was, he was better then the nursing home they saw him in so long ago. I think they expected him to be up to talking for hours, but after a half hour he could only answer yes or no to their questions, it was alot of thinking for him to do. He is who he is now, slowly better in some ways, not in others.

It made me think though, I need to make a will up this summer. I would give custody of my husband to them, but I will rethink this through after today and talk to my pastor about it. It is something I have dragged on about, but should be done. My children would be so young to watch him, and they do alot of things already everyday for him and me. They have their own lives to live, it is one of those problems I must finally resolve. Or look for somewhere he could be, if I was no longer here, the children would at least check on him all the time. But I could not expect them to care fulltime for an invalid........................my deep thoughts of the problem.

I want to help but..........................

Oh, I know my dear Nomad. It is something I will have to figure out.

:-4

chonsigirl wrote: Oh, I know my dear Nomad. It is something I will have to figure out.



:-4




Your a good figurer outer

It's so cute, thank you Snooze!:-4

I'm late as well chonsigirl but I did think about you today and wondered how the visit went. So glad to hear it was a complete success..:-4

Question would your husband be comfortable traveling in a van that would allow him to lay down and rest in?? You could rent on to get him to his parents house, or is just being in the car that get him anxious.??

I've only just seen this too. I'm sending loads of thoughtwaves, Chonsi. Life is tough. You're a wonderful and inspiring person!!!

chonsigirl I have these two cute bunnies for you..!! :-4

CARLA wrote:

chonsigirl I have these two cute bunnies for you..!! :-4
Oh, thank you Carla, they are so cute!:-4

Chonsi is one of those ladies - and she is certainly not unique in FG in this respect - that makes a man proud to act as a gentleman.