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i understand your fear of being with someone in case you get hurt but that fear is also holding you back from the potential of great happiness as well, ive been with a few pigs in my time snooze but dont forget there's some great guys out there as well, dont deprive yourself of thier company



edit - just come back to this & noticed ive drunk far too much red wine tonight & not even answered the question :yh_blush answer is ok

Snooze, some wonderful man out there deserves you!

SnoozeControl;455386 wrote: ... but when I start hearing the details, I start getting kind of crazy. I'm purposely not involved with anyone right now, its sort of a defense mechanism since I don't want to be hurt again (yeah, I'm a coward.)

I love hearing about trysts and affairs but when I hear about how others have hurt people or used them, I just can't handle it.

Just thought you all should know. Keep it simple, okay?:o


Its wise I suppose to avoid as much as possible becoming too caught up in the affairs of others, as its usually self defeating. I also got hurt several years ago, and although I've had girlfriends since, I havn't really been able to be that close to someone again, perhaps i just havn't found the right one, and you always need time when you are really hurt, its just common sense. I guess the way I see it for myself at the minute is that I'm not in love, but I'm open to persuasion, as the song goes. I have to admit that generally I am pretty happy about that, though I do miss the companionship from time to time

I still love BTS...........OMG................He loves me through my cancer survivor and I love him through his heart attack. So coodoos to all who thought we would make it and too bad soo sad to the rest.

:yh_hugs

I heard Sheryl has a SEVERE case of cooties.

:yh_tongue

SnoozeControl;455386 wrote: ... but when I start hearing the details, I start getting kind of crazy. I'm purposely not involved with anyone right now, its sort of a defense mechanism since I don't want to be hurt again (yeah, I'm a coward.)



I love hearing about trysts and affairs but when I hear about how others have hurt people or used them, I just can't handle it.



Just thought you all should know. Keep it simple, okay?:o






Thats the most important thing Ive learned about you in a year.

lady cop;455426 wrote: Snooze, some wonderful man out there deserves you!


I couldn't agree more wholeheartedly :-4 :-4

whats cooties

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